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ok furst of aLL....here thes short ?.....what do you do if a guy you really like who is usually always sweet to you and acts like your boyfriend suddenly starts treating you like you dont mean shit to him??.....and second..my best friend (FOR 10 YEARS) got in a arguemnt and just stopped talking about 2 months ago.......we havent spoken since......she is s0o different now.....she has changed physically like dresses diff and wears sluttier clothes every since she has hang out with this group of people who dont really like me.....and she acts like she hates me and the arguement was so stupid we just got sick of being together 24/7 and stopped talking....now i really miss her and i want to be her friend bc after we gradu ate 8th grade in 8 dayz......i wont c her agen since she doesnt live nex door to me nemore....her family moved to cypress so they live in a diff city but she finishing the rest of this skool yr up and she isnt going to my highskool.....wut do i do since we hav been best friends for 10 years?? i thought our 10 years ment something to her?? should i confront her? what do i say!??!? HELP!!
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Well for the first problem with the guy i would tlak to him or talk to one of his good friends and see if he has something for you i would try to figure that out and then if you get good results then i'd ask him out and for the friend thing i'd take a picture of her and compare her to her old self but i would sit down and talk to her and find out what the hell is up and why she is acting so different. But you could also call her or have a someone drive you to crypress. Me and this girl were best friend from 2-6 grade but she threw all those years down the drain by saying no when i asked her if she wanted to be friends with me still... dumb mistake but whatever now she is doing stupid things and making alot of mistakes but whatever. And me and kaleigh were best friends sense 3- till 9 and she made a mistake so i am kinda of like your best friend... the one who you think doesnt care about all those years.. but trust me we do relize it we just dont like whats going on. Except kaleigh is trying to get me back she dresses the slutty way and ect. But i wont. You are trying to get that slutty friend back but she just doesnt seem to care so i would talk to her pull her aside or something-trix
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for the first question about thah guy...totally forget about him...some of his frends coulda pounded a tonna shit in his hed and if hes not gonna be nice then screw him
fer the second one there isnt reallie much to say... just apologize fer watebe happened between you two in the fite eben tho it wadnt your fault...then tell her thah you just missed her and thah she just seemed to like slip away err sumthing... you wouldnt want her to move away with this caught in your mind because you two will prolly be thinkin of it a ton because you guys hab been bff's for like ebe (er ten yrs)...if its as stoopid a fite as you say it is then talk about it and SOON!like before the end of the school yr
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Maybe this is because he really likes you and he isnt very good with showing his feelings try and help him by talking to him more but dont humour him! And the problem with your friend.. shes obviously moved on etc and maybe if you was to hang around with her again you would be like 'Whoa i aint missin much' Youve both probably changed.. try and move on and find friends to suit you! :)
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a lot of people change that sort of thing happened to me and my old best friend... just let her go her separate way eventually in the end you'll meet up again in life and start talking like you used to.. just keep positive thoughts about it... and with the guy he probably doesnt know what he wants, he just wants to experiment, remember guys dont start to mature until they are about 16
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i think with the guy ask him why he does that to you and with your friend i think that you should talk to her about it because you obviously miss her and she probably misses you too
~jessica~
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Guys, can be mean sometimes (I'll put it in a nice way, HA) they don't really understand how much they can hurt someone. I know its weird that they can be all sweet and nice, etc. to you and then all of a sudden BAM they're totally meant to you. But I'm sure you do mean something to him, he's just being a jerk to you right now. If I was you, I would try talking to him about and just be like "Seems to me I don't mean a thing to you anymore, why are you acting like this?" and go from there.
Sometimes friends, they go through phases. Its weird I know. One of my friends does the samething! But, you guys have been friends for 10 years! Thats a very long time. You can't just put that down the drain. And tell her that too. But you need to talk to her. And just be like "I dont know what happened to you. We use to be such great friends and we have been for 10 years! We can't just put this all down the drain over a fight. We have to get through this. We don't even talk anymore." Just say stuff like that. Just tell her exactly how you are feeling!
*If you need anymore help on either of those situations just ask, I'll be glad to help* =D
xoxo Kourtney
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Ok about your guy friend I would try and talk to him to see what is going on i meen maybe somthing in his life outside of school happened and if he still treats you badley I wouldn't hang out with him any more. About your friend I would totally talk to her I meen you guys have been freinds for 10 years! thats alot. If she does not listen i don't know what i would do but i would definetly talk to her! good luck!
-Mavrick
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