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yeah surprizingly i actually have all the answers to everyone ?'s but my own. I'm 15 and was in a realationship with this boy for 4 months. But before that we were together off and on. Then before that we were really close and knew everythin about each other. I know I'm in love with this kid. He means so much to be but we arent together anymore cus he got into drugs and i knew he was doin em before but he stopped while we were together now since it is summer he has gotten back into it, we still talk but i want him out of it again so i can have the old him back! does anyone know how to tell him how i feel i try all the time but can't seem to get it out right if you could please help me thank u!
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dont judge things u dont understand... atleast try the drugs before u go around judging people
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I've been in this situation before. The words are hard to find sometimes I know. Try writting a letter to him about how you feel and about the whole drug thing. And just say that you still love him and you miss what you two had and you want the old him back. And say drugs can get you into a lot of trouble (Like probation) and it doesn't solve your problems for anything. And also say there are a lot of people who miss the old you and you are a great person and he doesn't need drugs to make him look cool or whatever. Just say stuff like that. If you need help writting a letter, I can try to help just say something and I'll be glad to try and help! =P
xoxo Kourtney
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Dont like make threats like that. That could really make ones feelings go overboard and stuff then they will feel like bad and then go to drugs to feel less, worried about the whole thing to keep their mind off of the bad. I have learned alot of stuff from what my friends do and its not the best thing to do.
-First of all, if you guys like each other alot, Then you should be able to sit down with him. And tell him what he is doing with his life isnt 100% right and that its messing him up day by day. And how is your Love going to last if you were just to like Die the next day over something dumb like Drugs. Let him know how you feel about the whole drug thing. And tell him "I mean Im sure there are other things to do to like keep your mind off of coming to drugs like coming to me to talk to" And tell him you Love him and you will always be there and if he keeps it up one day your going to walk away and he is going to look back not even knowing you left because he is doing drugs.
-Then if that doesnt work then you shouldnt keep putting yourself in that kinda suituation and like go, Meet new people and im thinkin your in highschool so get to know some more hotties or like go hang out with your friends. And once he sees your not there anymore he will relize what he did wrong to hurt you and your relationship!
:-) x0x Stephanie
*Good Luckz and your WelcomeZ*
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