I broke up w/my b/f of 8 months almost a year ago. He was heartbroken at first, but then got over it and now is going out with another girl. I haven't found anyone who's like him, and I miss him so much. But he's over me, and I still need him. Help!!
~Kat
ONlYme23 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 1:06 am: Its kidda your fault you let go i know you prombluy thought it was the right think 2 do at 1st i totaly under stand the thing about the shy and barley talking that suxs if hes over u than he is u cant force someone 2 like u!!
I hoped i've helped
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united_python_cheerleader answered Monday July 12 2004, 3:47 pm: Maybe you can find someone else n you say there is no one like him out there .... maybe because their is someone better than him out there who is not soo shy
MarissaD90 answered Monday July 12 2004, 1:40 pm: Hey,
ok maybe he wants someone who is shy. you got to go out and find someone more your tip. just get him out of your head. thinking of him mit upset you more and that provents you from finding the guy you like. [ MarissaD90's advice column | Ask MarissaD90 A Question ]
accolade answered Monday July 12 2004, 11:03 am: that's not a very good reason to break up. you guys would have gotten over the shy stage in time.
if you really still do like him, you gotta tell him. he's never gonna know you still like him if you don't tell him. if you're kinda nervous, the best placce to tell him is online... but hey, it's your choice.
if he won't have you back though, you just have to leave it at that. it might have taken a while for him to get over you, and then you're all the sudden saying you like him... he might not be too willing to take you back after you hurt him.
but really, just tell him. see what happens. maybe nothing. maybe he'll break up w/his other gf... you'll never know unless you tell him.
~accolade~
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Roxybabii922 answered Monday July 12 2004, 8:57 am: Just look around, maybe your stuck on him because he was the last person you went out with and you may just feel lonely without someone so feeling for him are coming back... try to meet new guys and hang out with them, eventually you'll find someone you're interested in... it may take awhile, but just keep looking [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
cookiegurl5577 answered Monday July 12 2004, 3:42 am: i think you should talk to him about how you feel and tell him why you broke up with him and tell him that you still want to be friends if you guys dont feel like you did when you started going out in the first place
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neenizzle answered Monday July 12 2004, 2:27 am: Move on, you are the one who broke up with him and lost him. Im sure there are plenty of other guys out there. Try talking to him about it though and see if he still has feelings for you. :) [ neenizzle's advice column | Ask neenizzle A Question ]
mavrick answered Monday July 12 2004, 1:39 am: well to be honest to you i think it to late to get him back! hes already with another girl and over you and there is not to much you can do sorry! i would just go find someone just as good but if this doesnt help then just talk to him!
KiSsEs answered Monday July 12 2004, 1:10 am: Gurlie, u aint gonna get any where if you keep comparing the past with the present. You broke up with him for a reason so DON'T backtrack! it could only make things worse. Your a girl, we get what we want....the right guy is there your just too caught up on your ex to see this guy!
*hope i helped*
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EsseNeminem answered Monday July 12 2004, 12:50 am: Why did you break up with him to begin with? This has a great deal to do with how you should react; if you would like to discuss this more thoroughly, talk to me on AIM (Kangaelf) [ EsseNeminem's advice column | Ask EsseNeminem A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Monday July 12 2004, 12:48 am: I'm changing my answer because you just added addition information lol. Well, maybe he has changed you don't know. But, if you don't want to go back out with him, you can always try to be his friend or something because you said you still need him. But, he sounds like he's not the guy for you because you said he doesn't talk that much on the phone or anything. You can always try to find new guys by going to partys, the mall, your friends introducing you to guys, etc. Get him off your mind or something. But if you do want to go back out with him, try it again, talk to him on the phone, face-to-face, on AIM/AOL, or writting him a letter. Hope this helps!!!
Kissxme1121 answered Monday July 12 2004, 12:27 am: Ahh I know that feeling, I think a bazillion ppl do to! I'd try to just forget about him because if he's moved on ya know maybe it just wasn't meant to be. Go out with a positive look of thinkig thats UR SINGLE and you can get any guys you want cuz im sure your a great person babe hold your head hight! Rate me plz and let me know how you are doing.. im me @ kissxme321 [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
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