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15/f


So. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little more than five months. we do alot of things together. making out, fingering, him feeling me up, phone sex. stuff like that.

My problem is that my parents are SO OVERPROTCETIVE. they will not let me go to his house. he can't come over here without me having like three other people over besides him.

So pretty much all we do is go to private places like after school (closets, behind dumpsters, lame. i know) or go to the movies(my parents won't let me go with just him, so i have to usually bring along friends or go with a larger group)

SO yesterday, we went to see dreamgirls (AMAZING MOVIE btw)and it was me, him, and like on of my close girlfriends. we made out, he felt me up AND freakin fingered me.

I told my friend that she should bring some of her friends because i didnt want to make things awkward for her. But she came by herself. and now i feel emotionaly horrible. i feel just terrible that she had to sit through that, with nobody. i have never felt like such a rude and inconsiderate friend in my life. I love this chick, and i feel horrible about what happened. But i did tell her to bring other friends, and she was just like nahh, it won't be awkward.

HELP?
pleasee&thankyouus

Well do your parents know that you two are dating? maybe you should ask to go to the movies alone and have your reason be that you don't want to make your friends 3rd wheel. my parents are equally overprotective as yours... it worked with them. just be open with them and say that you can't "do" anything at a movie. when you go somewhere with friends... don't do that. good thing is that you realize it and want to change things. next time make sure you have more than one person (i think she got the idea too..) and maybe sit somewhere else with the other people... sexual things should remain/be seen by just the 2 people involved.

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what is the most beautiful combination of words in the english language?

"you are beautiful"

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I am in need of a monologue that would require a New York accent for an audition. Do any of you know of one?

try something from "anything goes".. bonnie has an NY accent. another one is adelaid from "guys & dolls".

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were britney and justin married?

Nope.

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Do you know any Good sites w/ Really good myspace layouts?

www. whateverlife. com

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17/f

ive known this guy for 5 years and hes always had a crush on me. 6 months ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. i am still very much in love with him but hes moved on and is deeply in love with some other girl. i gave the old crusher a chance and we have been together for a little over a month now and everything is perfect but i just cannot get my ex out of my head.

how can i move past my ex and concentrate on the one guy that loves me the most??

and is it fair to my guy to stay with him through the old feelings?

that's normal... I've had it happen to me and i stayed with the guy that loved me. eventually I realized who my ex really was and i was ready to give my bf my whole heart. take it slow for now until you have your ex completely out of you head.

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Guys answers will help!!!Okay my boyfriend is coming over tonight and i am cooking for him and we might watch a movie. My ? is what are some things we can do besides just making out, i mean like things i can do to him to suprise him..haha some tricks or somethings he wont even be expecting. NO sex, bj's or hj's just like kissing tips i guess stuff likie that or games we could play ~wink, wink~ Like guys what are somethings that girls do to you that drive you good crazy(not pyscho crazy haha!!) just give me some advice please!!! anything will help

just be glad to be with him... look like you want to be with him... touch hum and maybe even wrestle with him.

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do you have to be born catholic to be one? My family beleives in a certain religion but I beleive in God and people at shcool are calling me a wanna be. Do you have to be born one or can you start being one?

nope, you don't have to be born one. It does take a while to become a part of it if you weren't baptized as an infant. it varies, though. talk to a pastor or someone you know that is a practicing catholic and see what you can do to join.

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I am wearing a kind of a fire-truck red dress to an event, what is a good color nail polish to wear with it. NOT a matching shade of red, or pink. Oh and I am wearing red shoes too

do french tips... like white on the top. or black or even gold if you like.

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

another thing you can do is go to a craft store and see if there's something you want to make or learn to make.

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

you could try making purses or handbags out of your artwork. paint something on canvas and make it a tote. decorate everything you see, try other types of art, make a scrapbook, or make jewelry.

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What is ro-accutan?

I know it is for acne, but is it a steroid?

And if it is not a steroid, why is there so many warnings against getting pregnant or empregnating someone while taking it?

And how often do you take it? My box came w/o instructions. Far out I know.

PLease help

Most medicines, steroids or not, usually come with a warning against getting pregnant. It's not usually recommended to take anything during a pregnancy because it could cause harm to the baby.

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so do you think guys really like it when you kiss their necks?

i was with my boyfriend making out and then i moved to his neck and started kissing it. i felt his head kind of squeeze against mine while i was doing this and i didn't quite know what it meant. he seemed to be getting tense and i couldn't tell if this was a good thing or a bad thing.

right when i moved my head away from his neck he grabbed me INSTANTLY and started making out with me again, like he couldn't wait a second more. what does this mean? thanks so much.

the more answers the better!

Sounds like he really liked it!

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ok well i want to look really pretty for school so my school is strict...no nail polish, no dying of hair, no hanging earrings, no lipstick 'lipgloss' or not so noticeable lipstick...you know? my hair has no bands is a dark brown and even, i usually put it to the side or put it behind my ears....i need a good hair style, my lobes are a little weird so its kind of embarrassing to show them too much. i want my hair to grow really long, but i cant cut it..any ideas besides curling? ..also any ways where i can wear make up, to be able to step up the looks without the teachers really noticing anything? please help me!

you could wear cute stud earrings, some nice appropriate jewelry, lip balm/chap stick, mascara, a little bit of eyeliner and some lightttt colored eyeshadow. I went to a school like that back in the day.. my advice is do one thing at a time.. not all at once or the teachers will notice. you could wear perfume too. you could straighten your hair, curl it or crimpt it or braid it and let it wave a little. if you really want a drastic change, i'd say cut it but if you want length, get layers.

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How long do you typically makeout for?
Because my bestfriend told me whenever she sees me makeout it seems like it's really really short.
Thanks :]

It depends... some people are bored after a minute and some can go on for an hour. sometimes it seems shorter than it really was if the 2 people are really into it.

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Where can I get some plain, black pants? Nothing fancy, and not Dickies. Just plain black pants that are like jeans, but not. Anyone have any idea where I could get some? I'd appriciate it a lot. =) Thanks!

Try Kohl's or Target.

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well okay.. when me and my boyfriend are making out in different positions it really gets me horny. especially stradling. and it seems to get him horny too cuz i mean he breathes really loud and i can just tell. but he doesnt get an erection. should he be?

i know all guys are different but i just dont understand how its making me go crazy and he doesnt even get hard. is there something i could do to increase the chances of him getting an erection? besides a handjob, were not there yet. thanks so much.

are you sure he's not hard? Some guys you really can't tell until it comes out of the pants. (I could be wrong but that's just what i've seen). you could try whispering naughty things in his ear or touching him everywhere. drop on in my inbox if you need anything.

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Hey,so i feel completly akward asking this =[ but i know this was like the only place i could ask with people who might know. Okay so i was at the movies wit my friend last night.. and we were having a good times and stuff. and he moved my hand on his dick.. and asked would you.. from his opinion.. i had no idea what he was asking for.. can someone please help me =[ i just like moved my hand away and pretended i didnt hear him =[ pleasee help me

I think he wanted a handjob... meaning you jacking him off. Don't do anything you're not sure about or comfortable with.

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Hi everyone.

I am going to make my Confirmation this year
and I need to pick out a saints name for it.

Does anybody know any sites that give out the saints name, and meaning.

I would like to have a saint that has something to do with singing, because I love to sing.

Thank you very much in advance :]

St. Cecilia is the patron saint of music. a lot of my choir friends picked that one.

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I heard this song many times on the radio and they never seem to say what it is. I've managed to capture some of the lyrics and search them on google but I still havn't found the song.

What I remember from the lyrics it goes something like this:
"I'f anyone's going to make it...I'm betting on me and you..."

Thanks alot for your help.

"Once in a lifetime" by keith urban! great song!

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