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how come?
well okay.. when me and my boyfriend are making out in different positions it really gets me horny. especially stradling. and it seems to get him horny too cuz i mean he breathes really loud and i can just tell. but he doesnt get an erection. should he be?
i know all guys are different but i just dont understand how its making me go crazy and he doesnt even get hard. is there something i could do to increase the chances of him getting an erection? besides a handjob, were not there yet. thanks so much.
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I actually read in Cosmo that giving a massage before making out can help arrouse him. Give a him a quick, 5 minute massage beginning with shoulders, down his back, down his leg & up his inner thigh near his region. Repeat this a few times & when you get down to his leg the 3rd time, he'll expect you to be making your way up his inner thigh again. But this time, don't. It'll be a tease, but it'll drive him crazy. You can try kissing around his neck & ears. (I'm not sure if there's any guy out there who doesn't get turned on by that.) Also, try kissing his M-region (his stomach & down his pelvis/hip bone area.) Basically, just gently touch or kiss all areas around HIS area & I can guarantee you'll like the end results.
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like the last person said, you just might not be able to tell. with smaller guys, you cant tell sometimes. not saying that your boyfriend is deffinetly small, because i dont know if he is, but that could be a possibility. he might just need more stimulation than making out.everyones different, he might actually need contact with his penis to get hard, who knows. just be as sexy as you can and run your hands through his hair or put your hands near his penis. obviously your doing something right if hes dating you=p
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are you sure he's not hard? Some guys you really can't tell until it comes out of the pants. (I could be wrong but that's just what i've seen). you could try whispering naughty things in his ear or touching him everywhere. drop on in my inbox if you need anything. <3
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You could get more into it or kiss his neck or just run your hands down his arms or back. That might help.
--Natalie
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