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i have this problem i hate letting people get to close and whatever and i really dont like many people but everytime i like somebody i always have to like the people i cant have eigther there taking or i just cant have them and it drives me insane it hurts so much to like somebody really like somebody and you just cant have them help if you can
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you could definitely be taking this situation way better. the right person will find you when it's right. it's so corny and ridiculous-sounding but it's true. as for not letting people get close, i know how you feel. it's hard to open up to people when you have trust issues. i try to mask my trust issues by being really outgoing and meeting people and talking to them about more impersonal stuff, like why i look so crazy today or how i got this stain on my shirt. i'm not totally sure if it helps. you can only get close to someone if you open up to them and endear yourself to them and if they do the same. it's a two-way street kind of thing. i'm not sure if i helped, but feel free to leave one in my inbox if you want any more advice. -Angel
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hey, alright well i know how hard liking someone you cant have is. it sucks, but i think half the problem is you yourself. you dont like getting close to people, so i bet you push them away without even noticeing. you cant except someone to like you back or to have a relationship if you do that. you need to open up to people and let them get close before you even think about any of that stuff. im sure people will like you. just give them a chance.
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Well, here's the thing...not letting people get too close means something that you have to pay attention to. I am the same way, if I get too close to someone I freak. But not being able to have someone that you like is really hard, but you can't dwell on that. You have to trust in yourself and others before a relationship is a good idea. I know that this seems weird, but you have to figure out why you don't like getting close to people, becuase until then, you can't have a good relationship becuase you will always be pulling away or closing up around him. I hope that I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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I know how hard it is to really like someone and you can't have them. But look at it this way, so you really like someone, but that person doesn't like you back and the only reason the person is dating you because he pity you. which one is worst?
Anyhow, look at the bright side.. there are PLENTY of guys out there. You just happen to fall for the wrong one. Nxt time, just becareful who you fall for. Make sure he's available and he likes you too. Let them come to you.. you don't have to search around. save your feelings for someone who deserves it.. who actually work for it.
hope I helped. good luck finding your prince charming. =]
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