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in love with an ex while in a serious relationship
17/f
ive known this guy for 5 years and hes always had a crush on me. 6 months ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. i am still very much in love with him but hes moved on and is deeply in love with some other girl. i gave the old crusher a chance and we have been together for a little over a month now and everything is perfect but i just cannot get my ex out of my head.
how can i move past my ex and concentrate on the one guy that loves me the most??
and is it fair to my guy to stay with him through the old feelings?
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If you dont love him then its not fair to him or you. You can either break up with this guy and wait to see if your ex comes around or you can keep going with the guy who loves you and learn to love him or you can start over and find someone else if you dont think your current relationship is going anywhere. but if this guy loves you then its not fair for you to stay with him when you dont love him and are thinking about your ex. So if your not willing to love this guy and forget about your ex then dont string him along. If its going nowhere with you then its better to break up with him and find someone else you can love that may not be your ex if hes more in love with this girl.
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that's normal... I've had it happen to me and i stayed with the guy that loved me. eventually I realized who my ex really was and i was ready to give my bf my whole heart. take it slow for now until you have your ex completely out of you head. <3
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This isn't what you wanna hear, but I don't sugarcoat anything, so here goes: No, it's not fair to him. You should've waited until you were completely over your ex to get into another relationship. I'd come clean to your current boyfriend. Work something out with him so the feelings don't change. I can't tell you not to take too long, but if you take too long to get over him, your current boyfriend might lose interest. But time heals everything. Whether it takes days, weeks, months or even years.
♥T!NA
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