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heyy i have a long distance relationship with my bf and im 13 n hes 16....we talk on msn n thts about it....but i really like him n he really likes me..its just tht im not shure if i shud keep this relationship because it's long distance and they next time we see eachother will probably be in 3 years..so shud i keep this or move on? (link)
In my opinion, I think you two should just be friends for now and you should date other guys near you. Trust me, I have a bf who I only talk to on msn and have only seen him once, and it really sucks. The only reason we don't break up is because we love each other....so, if you love each other, and I mean really really love each other, stay together, but from the sounds of it, you're unsure in the relationship, so, yea...the waiting isn't worth it in the end. Good luck on what you decide to do.


Please answer honestly....
ok. I have this friend named Lauren, who has been my friend since she was 1 (and i was 2) she a grade below me. This other girl, Caitlyn, has been my friend for about two years now. Not very long, i know. They have this other friend, Amanda, who i just met this year, and we aren't really friends, but we get along and stuff when we meet.
One day Caitlyn, who walks home, asked me to "miss" my bus, and call my mom and ask her if i can walk to caitlny's house with caitlny, lauren, and amanda (amanda's house is nearby, so she just goes there, but lauren and I go to caitlyn's house)
Well, that was fun. Now this week (the first time was last week)i asked if i could walk home with them again, and before caitlyn had a chance to answer, Lauren was just like "NO just me, caitlyn, and 'Manda." Then lauren and caitlyn walked off, and lauren and her arm around Amanda. They didn't even look back or wave or anything. They didn't even say bye.
Sorry this is so long...but what should i do??? i feel like im losing my best friends to amanda...i like amanda and all but i want to stay good friends with lauren and caitlyn. I need some advice, please help!!!!
I RATE! (link)
I think you should talk to them about how you felt when they did that. If they are really your friends, they will understand. If they don't, in my opinion, they aren't really good friends. You can also try to invite all three of them to your house or to the mall or somewhere else so all of you can have fun together. Hope everything works out for you.


umm this is kinda weird to ask haha. but im serious when i ask this question. is it embarassing at all when you have to take a dump like while your boyfriends at your house or something? i know everyone does but.. it seems embarassing to me. thanks! (link)
pretend your coughing or sneezing the whole time


How do I get a debit card, like where do I go to get one? Does it cost anything to get one? (link)
mine was free and i am only 14. bascially my dad took me to a bank where i set up an account, and then an option was to get a debit card. it was totally free, and i put my own money on it, which is sort of cool : )


ok so
im suppose to be getting my period soon
and i have a party to go to on friday
and my friend has a hot tub
and im not one of those people who like tampons
i just never wear them
and when i try to put them in they hurt
either im doing ti wrong but i dont think thats it
or do i have like a problem?
or is it just that my "down there" isnt used to it at all
help?!
(link)
start with ultra slim easy glides. that way they wont hurt.


well i got this dwarf hamster like a week ago and like the second day i got it my friend came over and was holding it and stuff and got me use to holding it and i was soo happy but then the next day i went to hold him and it nipped me! so now im scared to hold it. I washed my hands too before i held him too! any tips or anything would be greatly apprecitated!! thanks! (link)
i had one of those years ago. basically, washing you hands will upset it because of the smell of soap. basically, you should rubn your hands on whatever he uses for his dirt or whatever, like the ground or shavings or whatever.

and leave your hands on the ground, let him walk to YOU -- it also helps to maybe put a little treat on the palm of your hand


16, female!

what are a couple cute ideas to put on like a sign? my friend joe wants me and my other friend to make him a sign for their homecoming football game this friday. he goes to a different school than us..their colors are maroon and gold i think and he is their starting quarterback for varstiy and is in 9th grade. he is NUMBER 7! he has a girlfriend so no like really love things..i mean it can say i love you something but i dont know! we are just good friends but i want the sign to look good and not boring :)

thanks! (link)
well im not sure but you could do 007, or lucky seven.
id say lucky seven is good , and since the colors are maroon and gold, make a maroon colored pot of gold.

haha hope it helped.. :)


has there only been one season of south of nowhere so far? like does the second season start spetember 29? (link)
yep theres only been one seasonn. i love that show


hey guys. k so im in this special program for smarter people, also known as IB and we are already into it for 2 weeks now. im in grade 10 and this is my second year doing it. last year i didnt do this bad but the 2 assignments we got in history and english i got 59% and 50%. my dad especially thinks that im just not trying hard enough when i really am. watever i say he makes up an excuse for why im doing so bad. he wont beleive that IM JUST NOT SMART ENOUGH FOR IT! how can i let him know this or say something or something.. please help!! (link)
I would try talking to your teachers about it if your parents aren't seeing that you are trying your best. Talk to either your history or English teacher and tell them about your grades and your last school year. They can contact your parents and try to explain to your dad that the IB program is just not for you.


Parents just want the best for their kids and too your dad, that just means being in top honors classes, I guess. But why be making a 50 when you could be making an A in a regular class? Your teachers might help your dad see that.


Well, there are too boys in my grade that have major crushes on me. Unfortunately they are both major geeks. I know thats mean, but it's true. anyway they both keep asking me out and fighting over me, but i don't like eather of them. I told them both nicely that i don't like them , but they won't listen. Then i told them the mean way, but they still don't get the picture. Plz I ed HELP.The mental kind too.LoL :0) (link)
haha this is happening to one of my good friends like right this second shes iming these 2 guys and they are like hitting on her and shes asking for my help ...

anyways, remember, since they are geeks, you cant hurt their feelings cuz they have pretty low self esteem. just ignor them


i just made a contest myspace site. whats a quick was a can get a lot of friends fast? (link)
you can use a `whore train.` basically, you just type in your id and al these people will add you/you add them.

freeflashtoys.com has several different whore trains.


Where can I find cool layouts and quizzes for my myspace? (link)
you can find awsome layouts for myspace @ www.mygirlyspace.com or www.whateverlife.com and if you look along the side of the first site there should be affiliates for other people leading to quizzes..if you have any trouble find quizzes..ask..and i'll help..
hope i helped :]
Jasmin


i just got a pallete expander,(it widens your jaw out) and.... i kinda have a lisp,i cant say some letters,im wondering,will the lisp go away after i get used to it? (link)
yea it should probably go away in like 2 weeks. ive never had braces or retainers or anything cuz my teeth are like naturally perfect, but yea my friend had it and for a few days she talked wierdly


well oh my god theres this boy.. and hes 3 years older than me. and i really really love him. like soo badly! so like.. we talk and stuff a lot online.. well we used to talk everyday online. never in person.. because he doesnt go to the same school as i do. hes in high school and im in middle school. and you know... we would ttalkl soo much aobut everything.. i would say i love you.. and he'd say the same back. but my brother is his friend.. and my cousin is his BEST friend. and they're soo strict about me talking to guys.. so if they found out i would like DIE! so you know.. he told me he was like.. you know i cant ask you out.. because ur brother and cousin.
but yeah.. anyways.. i really love him and it sucks couse everyday we're getting farther and farther apart! and i love him soo muchhhh. i know people my age dont know anything about love.. but seriously i really love him. and he does too but he doesnt know what to do about it. and it sucks couse he talks to other girls.. i mean thats okay becuase what is he supposed to do.. cry over me for EVEr. no thats not right.. soo please tell me what to do if there is even a solution =[ thanks soo much id really apprieciate it! love ya (link)
well if you guys really love each other, than you should dat,e because its not like your brother and cousin own him. also, if your cousin and brother are friennds with him, than they should approve of him.wouldnt they rather you go out with a good guy than an ass?


okay well i have Verizon Wireless.. and like i sent soo many pictures to PIX PLACE and like i want to know if that costs money.. because if it does omg my dad is gonna kill me! so please tell me like if it cost money to send them pleaseee. (link)
no its free.
i know my phone bill would be like a billion dollars because i also send tons of pics to pixplace.
so yea, free


If she had all the same beliefs as you, would you vote for her? Tell me Why?

I Need this for a project, thanks. (link)
of course i would vote for her. why should there be inequality between the genders. i would also vote for a black or muslim etc.
all our presidents have been white males -- wtf?


What should you with skinny jeans. shoes i mean. not shirts and stuff, but the shoes (link)
i personally think ballet flats look best, but slip flops look good too. no sneakers or chucks


can you buy wax like the stuff to off hair, at walmart? (link)
yea you sure can


Hallo, untill one day ago I was a 100% positive about bying a Buell Ulysses, till I sat on the bike and saw how tall it is. I am not a basketball player and the bike is really really huge. So what other options do I have?
I need a fast bike that is nice to ride for a long long journey , and the end take it just a little bit of road to see what happens. Also for everyday use. I dont like the BMW 1200GS that much, and I am thinking about a KTM 990, although I do not really like their design. What about the Honda Varadero or the Suzuki V Strom? (link)
husqvarna TW610. i love the huskies cause they take offroad like nothing else. and still have the power to be road legal and plenty quick. now it's a tall bike just like the buell, but it's a 610CC engine and nice and responsive. go throw your leg over one and you'll see why the husky is the way to go.


Heyy there.
I'm having an issue. I am trying to pick out my first car. But I know NOTHING about cars. All I know is that I want:
-4 doors
-4wheel drive
-big trunk
-under$20,000
Does anyone have any suggestions? (link)
well under all those requirements. i've found a used subaru legacy, a mazda speed 6, and a volvo XC90.

there's not much to pick from under the requirements as most cars here in the states under that umbrella are either tiny sports cars (subaru impreza) or big luxury cars (cadillac STS) but the ones i hunted down seem to meet all requirements thoroughly. and as for whether or not they're used or new, well they'll have to be used, but that does not mean you're losing anything in going for that. it only means you're getting the same car for less money. i'd personally go for the volvo, safest cars on the road, and very reliable. i've been working on cars since i was a kid and i have seen volvos come in for work one day and be gone the same day as all they ever need is something minor. great cars there.




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