Alright, I liked this guy for the past three years and now I am over him. I don't want to be around him, I don't even want to see him. He plays around with me too much and I can't stand those games of his. It's games like his that hurt me so much. I don't want to be around him yet I want to show him that my feelings are changed . When I get off my bus in the morning, he's there at the table sitting there with my other friends and then he avoids eye contact. Then I do the same and say hey to everyone and put my bookbag down. He'll give me one glimpse and then I'll head to the restroom or to the cafeteria. There have been plenty of times that I have come back to the table to prove that I am over him and that I can be around him because I used to couldn't. But now , he's hitting on my friends around me, and I told my friend to go for it but she won't b/c she says that he's too hot for her. Why is he doing this in front of me, why won't he let me be, why does he have to act as if he is everything, why does he avoid eye contact, and how comes he's at the damn table every morning? I've moved on but this makes it way too complicated because I like to sit in the cafeteria in the morning but he's there and he's hitting on my friends in front of me and I don't want to be there. Oh what should I do. Please, please , please, please help me. Oh and I asked a guy and he said it's probably another game to see if I'll come back as I did all those other times before. Is this true?
He is just trying to get you jealous. That other guy could be right, if you went back to him many times before, this guy thinks that he could have you back whenever he wants. It sounds like you do have something for him. Don't let him bother you. Or, talk to him and tell him that you have completely moved on.
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(im 19 female)Im just asking, there is this guy i like a lot he liked me, soon as i told him i wasnt a virgin he simply lost interest! and he belives that the one he is going to marry should be a virgin.i feel like SHIT! he has told me he is not a virgin - ofcourse its ok for a guy not to be one isnt it! but anyway, then i told him that i was joking and that i didnt quite have sex.i really like this person and i regret loosing my virginity to this ONE bf" overseas, now if i was to get close with this guy could i live a lie and never tell him? or should i tell him? or should i forget him and move on! but i cant! nicest person iv ever met! what do i do!? is it good to keep it to myself and NEVER tell him.- i feel so guilty
If a guy liked you for you, it shouldn't matter if you are a virgin unless you are a complete slut. If he is such a great guy, he would look past that. Don't keep a lie. I would tell him. If he doesn't accept that, then he isn't all that great after all. After all, he isn't a virgin either. He is just being a hypocrite.
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hey is it better to have sex for the first time with a virgin or an experienced guy
Well I am still a virgin, but personally, I think it would be better to have sex with a virgin. Both of you don't know what you are doing and if you make a mistake he wouldn't know anyways. But on the other hand, people would say that having an experienced guy is better in bed and would know what they are doing. It's your call though.
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My son is 17, but a very socially immature 17, acts more like he is 15. He is a senior in high school at a private Christian school, doing very well in most respects. My coworker is a little dramatic and often inappropriate at work, but a nice person and very generous. Her daughter is a freshman at the high school down the street from my son's school. Her daughter has had many emotional and behavior problems and recently was even hospitalized for more than a week while being treated with medication for bi polar and depression. The school is always calling my coworker about this girl, she is always in trouble. I have tried to be a good friend to this woman, we have cubicles right next to each other. Lately she has been on a kick that her daughter needs to date my son. I slid out of the homecoming dance only for her to try to arrange something further now and even asked for my son's e mail address and cell phone number so her daughter can get to know him. I am certain this is a bad idea. My coworker keeps pointing out that she chaperones all her daughter's activities and would take my son to a rock climbing wall facility and snow skiing and to plays and concerts. While I know my son would likely enjoy these activities, I doubt that having a mentally unstable girl thrust upon him by a very forceful mom who is overly involved in her daughter's life is a good choice. What should I say to get out of this? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I really don't want to be pushing my son into a relationship with this dramatic family, nor do I feel I should ever chose his dates.
Tell her he has a girlfriend, he's not ready for one yet, he's to busy with school and stuff.
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well in April of 2005 recently.. my aunt died.. i took it very hard because i was very close to her like staying with her days or weeks at a time in the summer,shopping and stuff like that just another best friend really.. well ever since she's died i have had weird dreams about her like she's alive in my dream but im there when she dies.. she died from an anerism i wasnt there when she had it but i was at the hospital.. well that weekend she died i was pose to go over there but instead i wanted to see my boyfriend.. i keep thinkin things like if i would of seen her she would of lived..or i was suppose to be there for her.. well everytime i dream about her were always tanning,talking and stuff like that then she just dies.. i dont understand this dream maybe im not suppose too but i keep wondering if things would of been different if i didnt diss her like that.. Also im having a very hard time believing in God i was raised to believe in God and that Jesus died on the cross for our sins but its really hard.. i mean i pray and everything still but its still hard for me to believe.. so if you can give me tips on how to deal with this id really appreciate it and sorry its so long..
You can't place the blame on yourself. There is nothing you could have done to prevent an aneurysm. By you having dreams about her, that's your way of grieving. It's healthy. Just remember all the good times. Everything happens for a reason. I can't do anything to MAKE you believe in God, all I am going to say is he put your aunt in a better place. Maybe she was suffering.
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hi, im 18 and my boyfriend/fiance is 22 (we are going to get married, we have discussed it an everything, but he hasnt properly asked me yet...lol) and he lives in New York and i live in Ohio. (i just moved here 2 weeks ago) and we have been together for a while but then i had to move here for a while (family thing long story) and we have been apart for 2 weeks and i miss him like crazy. i used all my prepaid minutes on my cell phone on the phone with him in one week. and we miss each other a lot. he is going to come get me as soon as he can get the money (he is kinda unemployed until he gets a job. another long story) but until then we only have email and phone to communicate. and it is tearing myself and him apart. he mopes around the house and things (his mommy told me) and its all because he misses me. thats why i am going to move in with him, but until then we are 5 hours apart and so deeply in love and everything. but im getting to my big problem here. my freind im living with, her fiance just returned from mexico after a month being gone. so of course they are all over each other, and it gets me depressed, realizing how much i miss my man. how i cant hold him or kiss him right now. and it has me to the point where i cant even look at the two of them when they are together. i have spent all morning crying b/c i miss him and things, is there anythign i can do to ease my pain (other than smoke a lot of ciggys like i have been?)? please help me.
You could write him letters and send them if you can't talk on the phone. Think about how good it will be when you see him again. Don't let it bother you too much that you guys are apart. You'll see each other soon. Try doing things that don't involve thinking about him. That should make things a little bit better.
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I would like to try tampons but wonder if they will break my hymen?
You could break your hymen in more ways then just using a tampon. In my opinion, they are more comfortable, they make you feel cleaner, and more convenient. That's a personal choice though.
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I have lived in a small town for about five years im 16 and im a female.I have done everything to make guys heads turn i wear very little makeup i do my hair different everyday i wear clothes that show off my great body and i have a nice smile still no hot guys seems interested how do i turn heads????
Okay I know I'm not a guy but anyway... just because you are pretty and everything doesn't mean you have a great personality. Maybe guys think you are a bitch or stuck up. Not all guys are into looks and you shouldn't be interested in ones who are.
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ok this will sound so weird... but i really have to know. is it bad to shave down there because i really dont know what to do. please help x
Well, hair down there keeps bacteria out, so in a sense it's kind of bad because then you are prone to get like yeast infections and what not. But, it feels better shaved and you feel much cleaner.
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well im like 16teen and when i was younger like about maybe 5-7 years old i experimented with somebody who was only like 2 yrs older i mean he didnt even go through pubity yet and i didnt feel anything so does that make me still tight like a virgin
Well technically you aren't a virgin. It doesn't matter if he went through puberty yet. But, then again, you were only like 5 years old. Just keep that to yourself and if anyone asks you if you are a virgin just say yes because let's face it, you didn't know what you were doing when you were that young.
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well I REALLY like this guy... and i have a couple questions.
1) all my friends keep telling me to tell him.. should I? I mean I really do like him and I want him to know but I highly doubt he likes me and I'm scared of looking stupid.
2) What can I do when I pass him in the hall or something to catch his attention? And is there anything else I can do? I have absolutely nothing to talk to him about.. and I'm willing to change anything to get his attention. I tried learning about hockey and stuff (it pretty much just bored me) and I tried wearing a hockey jeresy.. I mention I play football sometimes and im on the basketball team but idk what else i can do.
3) How obsessed am I?
Start talking to him more about what he likes other than sports, school, what he does out of school, and so on. Wait until you talk a while and then tell him you like him. It doesn't seem like you are obsessed, just that you really like him. But then again, I am not with you to see how you really act so I don't know.
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i CANT STAND my older sister. Shes a junior in highschool, im a freshman. she is always making fun of me for no reason at all, and always telling me what to do. So, im always mean back to her. I dont wanna be mean to her, but i cant control myself, she thinks shes so smart. She gets straight A's, drives her own car, has lots of friends, .. so she thinks shes wicked cool. I cant stand it, i really cant. Like, sometimes i just go completely insane. I have a bad temper, as im typing this now im just shaking, i feel like im gunna explode. WHAT SHOULD I DO
Tell her how it makes you feel. Tell her that you don't like fighting with her and you'd wish she'd stop treating you like a piece of shit. If she doesn't apologize then tell her not even to talk to you.
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I have two cats, one full grown and one almost full grown. Ive raised them together in my own apartment since they were both kittens, and they are bad. I try to train them and discipline them but they are just bad cats. They claw everything, jump in the windows and mess up my blinds, knock over cups containing drinks that stain, and jump up on counters and tables. I love these cats, but with all the damage they are causing, I don't know if I can keep them. I don't want to get rid of them. Someone said that getting them fixed calms them down, but is that true? What can I do to make my cats calm down and be good? Ive grown up with cats all my life, and this is the first time Ive had a discipline problem.
Yea they do calm down. You could get them declawed too if they are clawing up your whole house. Also, keep your drinks that are full off of your counters or something. You can lock them up in a cage when you go places too.
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Okay, so my mother is allergic to everything except like...20 items total on this planet, and is extremely against all forms of chemicals such as nail polish and hair dye.
HOWEVER...
My roommate got a free salon-type-thing from her boyfriend, and on it, it says you can bring a friend, so we kinda decided she was bringing me...Lol. So we're getting our hair done this weekend.
I'm thinking
Thinned, re-layered, Cut a liiiiiiiiittle longer than shoulder length (or exactly shoulder length, not sure), side-sweeping bangs.
Now here's the hard part.
I kinda wanna get highlights. I'm thinking brownish red highlights 'cause I do have red in my hair.
My mother, however, would MURDER me if she saw highlights in my hair or knew that I borrowed my roomie's shampoo to see what effect scent had on my hair.
What do you guys think I should do? Should I get highlights anyway and beg them to make them as not-noticeable as possible? Or forego the highlights and possible making-worse of hair until I'm far away in grad school?
Should I ask them if they have temporary dye so I can see what they look like?
Opinions, please. ^_^
Wait how old are you again and you listen to your mom about a hair cut? Do what you want. You don't tell your mom how to do her hair.
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i have really curly hair & it poofs easily, but my question is what are some cute hairstyles for someone with curly hair? i've tried a lot of things & i juss want something new. scrunching doesn't really work though & my hair is almost like ringlettes.
thanks!
Try straightening it.
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my question is how can you tell that guy is a virgin or not girl you can tell pop cherry but what about guys do they have some sign taht they are virgin? thx
Okay that is not true about the whole girls' cherries pop. A girl's cherry can pop by inserting a tampon in, getting fingered, or even by horseback riding. There is no real signs of telling if anybody is a virgin.
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My birthday is in a few days and I have no idea what I really want. I dont know whats in and whats new. Any ideas?
Get money and then find out what's new. You'll have a longer time to think of what you really want.
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I'm not sure how to do a wow'kerpow introduction so I'll get right into this.
I have a friend who I sometimes can't stand. It's not that she's not nice to me or anything. She just has the way of manipulating things to get them her way, and to make everyone side with her, no matter what the situation. She could MURDER someone and somehow get everyone to sympathise with her. Or something.
Before I go into the next thing, here's something you should know: I'm incredibly jealous of her. I'm jealous of the fact that she can manipulate people and they don't see what's going wrong. She's also really pretty and really clever and I could stomach that before because it wasn't my whole life, but here's the next part.
Ever since I met her, she's been taking bits of ME and making them better, but making it herself. For example, I get a haircut, and so she gets one exactly like it, but somehow pulls it off better. I say I like some bands and people say it's wierd or something. She says she likes the same bands and HEY! ISN'T SHE THE COOLEST?
So, my friend, who this girl Im jealous of had an argument with has a new bunch of friends outside of school. I met them and they are really lovely, and I have a crush on one of them.
I told Brainy + Clever about it and she said he sounded cool and asked me how someone awful like my other friend managed to meet someone like that. So anyway, I'm going out with them this Saturday, and told her so because she asked me if I was busy.
Suddenly, today, she's best friends with the girl she had an argument with and I can already feel myself getting pushed out of the picture, because I KNOW she'll manipulate this other girl to get what she wants - the GUYS.
I'm just so frustrated because I thought this could be the one thing that I had that she couldn't have. But she's gone and twisted it again and now it's hers.
How can I stop feeling so JEALOUS of her and stop feeling like she's taken my whole LIFE? How can I not feel so worthless and think that I can't be myself anymore because all she'll do is take that and turn it into something bigger and better and make it a characteristic about herself?
Don't tell me to find new friends, or talk to them, because I tried that and it didnt work. Plus, she'd only befriend my new friends and make them like her better anyway.
Sorry for the long question, answers are much appreciated.
You know what I have noticed- in life, whenever someone is succeceeding and is happy, someone whether they are friends or enemies, always tries to take that away. Be happy for her, don't be jealous. Try to take a few pointers off of what she's doing and try to win the guy and all the friends. If you aren't willing to lose that friend, then well, good luck coping with jealousy.
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Anyone know any songs that have to do with death? Kind of like a "R.I.P" or "In Loving Memory" type of song. Thanks :)
fire and rain- james taylor
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Hi, I'm 15/f/sophmore in hs. I decided this yr. I want to get out of my shell more and make more friends! I'm doing a pretty good job of it, I've been chatting it up lately with some people in some of my classes, but I run out of things to say! I need to know what things I could say (these are too girls) when I run out of conversations. I'm not one of those naturally outgoing girls, I need to be in a convo to feel comfortable, so yah!
Compliment there shirt or ask what they are doing this weekend, if they have boyfriends, what stores they shop at, school work, ect.
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