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AWFUL SISTER
i CANT STAND my older sister. Shes a junior in highschool, im a freshman. she is always making fun of me for no reason at all, and always telling me what to do. So, im always mean back to her. I dont wanna be mean to her, but i cant control myself, she thinks shes so smart. She gets straight A's, drives her own car, has lots of friends, .. so she thinks shes wicked cool. I cant stand it, i really cant. Like, sometimes i just go completely insane. I have a bad temper, as im typing this now im just shaking, i feel like im gunna explode. WHAT SHOULD I DO
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you sound just like me do you and your sister fight like actually hitting fighting hit a few times your temper willll go way down
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Amen sista, i do not have an older sister however but im a freshman in highschool also and im on varsity lacrosse so im playin with some older guys who im starting to get more a long with, but when they want me to do something instead of them they will say," Hey freshman go etc.." something a long the lines of that, and with my own social life and family thats one of the last things i need rite. I was also one of the bad tempered ones that cant keep it in, but i jus ignored it and know how immature they are, so i would lightly just go wow how mature, and be really sarcastic.Sorry about your problem, talk to me anytime
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just ignore it, or just pick on her. make her realize shes being really immature. tell her to GROW UP. good luck, hun.
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Stop being jealous. Thats a START. And then, tell her to piss off and stop making fun of you. If she doesn't, show her baby pictures to her friends. There.
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you should get over it! she's an upperclassman, hence the reason she makes fun of you! when you are no longer a freshman and you understand how fucking annoying you all are, you'll probably understand how she feels. sorry but it's true.
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That sounds pretty upsetting, you should probably talk to her or someone about it. I know it may sound really stupid to try to talk to her, but it could work. When she says something, just ask her why she says those things to you. And when she jokes around and says another rude comment, just tell her that you're serious. Just say, "Howcome you always pick on me? I havn't done anything to you, I just don't really want to fight." I think I can understand if you don't even want to try to act serious and talk with her, but its worth a try. And if it doesn't work, then don't say anything back and go straight to the computer, or your room to calm down, if its hurting you that bad, explain this to your parents. Also, when she tells you what to do, don't do it. Just don't say or do anything when shes giving you orders.
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ignore her. are you from boston because people from boston say wicked. lol. just wondering.
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my sister is mean too and my stepdad told me that she is usually jealous of me and if you let her see that what she does gets to you then dhe will continue to do it. dont let it phase you. i try to make my sister feel like shes the loser because i feel that she isnt better than me but this may not be the best way to go about the situation. try talking to a parent or try to just ingnore her.. shes no longer there. if that doesnt work then maybe try finding something she insecure about and everytime she picks on you bring that thing up.
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You need to stand up for yourself. Try telling her that you don't appreciate her making fun of you, and don't say it in a mean way, because she'll most likely keep doing it. If you talk to her in a superior way, she'll feel intimidated and you'll most likely prove yourself to be more mature.
Just tell her you hate being made fun of, and you don't do it to her infront of her friends (I'm assuming you don't?) and it's very immature...just tell her how you feel. If she doesn't listen, just completely ignore her when she makes fun of you, or act like its funny, because chances are she likes getting entertainment out of your anger, so if you ignore her, she'll get bored and just completely stop. ^_^
Good luck! <3
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0Hey well im not gunna be like everyone else and say kiss her ass and be nice to her because trust me i am in the same relationship with my siser, we despise eachother. i just try and ignore her, if u know your gunna fight then just dont talk to her and when u have to dont be sarcastic and stuff just give simple answerss or whatever<3
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well..i'm not really the one to advise you with this..as i am apparently the mean older sister according to my little sister...but i can tell you what she may be feeling.
one of my greatest fears is that my sister will be better than me..i mean..she has her talents that i dont..but overall..i feel like i need to be better because i'm older. i'm mean to her sometimes..but its usually just like how you are mean to your sister..just reciprocating what she does to you.
the best way to get along with her..would be to try your HARDEST to be nice for a while..see if she starts treating you better. if that doesn't work..i think its just part of being siblings. there's always going to be a little rivalry and fighting. when you feel like you are getting angry..just think of yourself as the older one. think "i'm better than her at keeping my temper and seeing reason in things." and it will help. i hope i helped at least a little..i hope all goes well for you.
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omg..me 2. my sister is a junior..she is really pretty, and tells me im rly ugly. she always makes fun of me. I GET PISSED OFF!! try to ignore her. if that doesnt work, then maybe when shes in a good mood and isnt mean, ask her to go shopping w/ you or sumpthin. itll be fun. you could also like go on a walk with her and tell her how you feel. hopefully shell try to stop. or you could just tell ur parents. hoope i helped<3
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Tell her how it makes you feel. Tell her that you don't like fighting with her and you'd wish she'd stop treating you like a piece of shit. If she doesn't apologize then tell her not even to talk to you.
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wwell, i take a shower with the radio on and loud when i feel like that, or i'll run or walk or something, scream into pillow or something. if you are there, SHOCK her with NICENESS! if you are nice to her, and positive to everything that she says, that will totally shock her! and make you look good and her look baD!
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I really hope that I helped!! Good Luck! :)
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Act just like you would if you had a bully problem. Think of her as the bully and just ignore her. If she's really that mean to you then tell your parents. Tell her you don't care what she says about you and only confront her with the problem if it starts to get really bed.
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