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well I REALLY like this guy... and i have a couple questions.
1) all my friends keep telling me to tell him.. should I? I mean I really do like him and I want him to know but I highly doubt he likes me and I'm scared of looking stupid.
2) What can I do when I pass him in the hall or something to catch his attention? And is there anything else I can do? I have absolutely nothing to talk to him about.. and I'm willing to change anything to get his attention. I tried learning about hockey and stuff (it pretty much just bored me) and I tried wearing a hockey jeresy.. I mention I play football sometimes and im on the basketball team but idk what else i can do.
3) How obsessed am I?
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Well girl #1 I don't think ur desperate at all I mean I think every girl is crazy about a guy at 1 point and time.
#2 is I think regarding that thing about keching
his eye in the hall all I can think of is just dress cool act really nice but not pushy.
#3 from my esperience with guys I mean I have 3 brothers and 1 of them is my twin so I think I know but anyways what I have found is guys don't like it when your not yourself... and so just talk about what you did that day what is happenin in your life and since you play bball then talk about that too.
hope it helpes!!!
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you shouldnt be devoting your life to this... which, it looks like you are. if you think he likes you, tell him that you like him. if not, keep it a secret for now. start being really flirty with him, that'll get his attention. and also, yeah, your really obsessed.
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Good Lord this is a commonly asked question. And I have a common answer. Be yourself!!!! Strike up conversation. Tell him about yourself. If he doesnt like you than hes obviously not right for you!
Hope this helps
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Hey,
1) Follow your heart. Don't follow what your friends tell you to do. Because that's like following their hearts.
2) You could have a pencil in your hand and drop it right when you pass by him and ask him if he could pick it up for you because your bookbag is too heavy to bend over with. Then you could start a conversation from there like about what his favorite stuff is. 2nd of all don't ever change anything about yourself over a guy because that just shows that you're desperate. You could make up a lie and ask him if he could help you study over the phone about a test then you'll have his #.
3) You're average obsessed.
Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2
P.S. I hope my advice helps you please write me back and tell me how it went.
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1. DON'T. if you don't have anything to talk about with him..that seems like it would be a pretty awkward relationship. also, think of it the opposite. if some guy liked you that you didn't know too well or have much in common with..would you go out with him?
2. to catch his attention..make eye contact. if he's not looking you way just say "hey, bobby!" (with his name of course..don't call him bobby unless that's his name). just talking to him and getting to know him better will get his attention.
get his snif you don't already have it and talk to him about anything you can think of. try to keep it away from sports..there has to be more to him. if he brings it to sports..sure, go with it..but otherwise..don't bring it up.
don't pretend to be something you're not. guys can usually tell when youre faking it or they will eventually figure it out. guys don't like walking replicas of themselves in the girl form. they are drawn to something different. there is a difference from having things in common and being exactly alike. you are supposed to learn from one another.
okay..this is turning more into a lecture and i don't mean to do that. sorry!
3. you seem like you really really like him. obsessed? i wouldn't be able to tell..but seeing how you are willing to change anything for him is a huge hint that you may be (though i am extremely against changing yourself for guy. if you change yourself for each guy you like..you will forget who you truly are and it will take you a while or a tramatic situation to figure it out).
i hope all goes well.
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Start talking to him more about what he likes other than sports, school, what he does out of school, and so on. Wait until you talk a while and then tell him you like him. It doesn't seem like you are obsessed, just that you really like him. But then again, I am not with you to see how you really act so I don't know.
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1. Not quite yet. You need to get a pretty solid friendly relationship going first, and then admit it. It's a thing that if you jump on, it would be devastating.
2. You can just catch his attention by waving at him, or coming up to him to talk to him. Guys, like myself, really don't get attention caught by much other than people coming up and talking to us. Some of the more shallow guys get attention caught by low cut shirts, but that's not me.
3. Very. You came on to ask about your love, seeing what you can do to catch his attention, so I believe you are very obsessed.
-Steven
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