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should i ask him out or trick him into it?


Question Posted Thursday September 29 2005, 4:02 pm

well, im 13 and i live in mastic on long island and i have a job at a traveling carnival....well theres this boy there that i like and hes 13 too but hes 8 months younger....his name is danny and he lives in comak...how ever you spell that..lol...well i really like him and i think he likes me..he gives me hugs when i see him and we share are food and drinks and all that other spit...we've never kissed though...but we tell eachother we that we love em all the time...any way-his obnoxious older brother pete (15), told my older sister amber (17) that compared to all the other girls danny's gone out with im god.now this danny is really hot but not to tall hes prolly 5'4''- im 5'5 and a quarter....and hes really skinny and im well not exactly skinny im average....anyway my sister was like isnt my sister a little chubby for him-pete was like i said she was like god.im scared that he might not like me though so if i go up to him and like ask him out and he says no then im going to be really embarassed...but i was thinking that if he s ever online while i am then i could trick him...i could be like im here with my cousin and allthat good stuff and then b lik ima pretend to b my cousin (whos not really there), pretending to be me and like start asking how he feels about me if he dont like me then ima b like this is her cousin dum ass- but if he says he do lik me then im just gonna turn back into me- do you think that might work???please help me-i rate high

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Additional info, added Tuesday October 4 2005, 1:07 pm:
weve known each other for little over a month and only see eachother on weekends if we are lucky enough to be put in the same location at work.

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karenR answered Thursday September 29 2005, 9:32 pm:
I think you just go ask Danny out and be done with it. It seems pretty obvious by his actions that he likes you. That is backed up by what his brother said.

I really don't think he will turn you down. Go ask him out. No need for tricks or anything! :)

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SweetAsCandy411 answered Thursday September 29 2005, 6:22 pm:
It seems like he likes you!! He shouldnt care about how big you are. Plus if your not humungo like 200 pounds than your fine. The whole tricking thing won't really work because he might think you will read it after he tells your "cousin" so it might not be the whole truth. Just ask him out it'll be fine

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x_panda_x answered Thursday September 29 2005, 6:10 pm:
If he really cares about you being average weight, then he's a prick and you shouldn't worry about him. He should like you for other reasons beside how much you weigh. :(

Hm...perhaps you should tell him, or just ask him if he feels the same. After all, it sounds like you've known each other for a while and are pretty comfortable with each other, right? So why not ask him?

Seems to me like he likes you back. ^_^

Good luck! <3

P.S. Don't listen to your sister and his brother, they're just jealous. =)

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iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Thursday September 29 2005, 6:00 pm:
just be yourself. its pretty obvious that he's into you. if for some odd reason he isn't, everything will still be okay.

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alwayznforever42 answered Thursday September 29 2005, 5:40 pm:
umm..im kindof confused. i dont think you should trick him. then if he finds out, he may think your a liar. i think you should assk him out. he OBVIOUSLY likes you. his brother even thinks that ur like a god to him!! which mean that his brother probably saw him like obsessing over u. who cares if your taller? who cares if your a lil bit bigger? NO ONE!!..hah, just ask him out online or on the phone so if he says no, not many people would know about it..GO FOR IT BABE!

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sbloemeke answered Thursday September 29 2005, 5:25 pm:
No. For if you weedle out of him that he likes you, you have no way of using that info without ruining all chances with him. You'd tell him then, and he'd accuse you of sneaking around him and spying. Or, you'd tell him later, and he'd wonder where you got that info, and you'd be forced to tell him.
Also, our personalities are too close when we try to be someone else. He'd catch it before it came.
-Steven

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