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In Love and So Far Apart


Question Posted Thursday September 29 2005, 1:28 pm

hi, im 18 and my boyfriend/fiance is 22 (we are going to get married, we have discussed it an everything, but he hasnt properly asked me yet...lol) and he lives in New York and i live in Ohio. (i just moved here 2 weeks ago) and we have been together for a while but then i had to move here for a while (family thing long story) and we have been apart for 2 weeks and i miss him like crazy. i used all my prepaid minutes on my cell phone on the phone with him in one week. and we miss each other a lot. he is going to come get me as soon as he can get the money (he is kinda unemployed until he gets a job. another long story) but until then we only have email and phone to communicate. and it is tearing myself and him apart. he mopes around the house and things (his mommy told me) and its all because he misses me. thats why i am going to move in with him, but until then we are 5 hours apart and so deeply in love and everything. but im getting to my big problem here. my freind im living with, her fiance just returned from mexico after a month being gone. so of course they are all over each other, and it gets me depressed, realizing how much i miss my man. how i cant hold him or kiss him right now. and it has me to the point where i cant even look at the two of them when they are together. i have spent all morning crying b/c i miss him and things, is there anythign i can do to ease my pain (other than smoke a lot of ciggys like i have been?)? please help me.

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frenchfries21 answered Friday September 30 2005, 7:00 pm:
you'll make it through. i know it seems hard but eventually you'll be with him and all will be well. just try to have things that occupy your time as much as possible and maybe then you wont think about it so much. and stop smoking, cause when you do get to see your bf/fiance hes not gonna wanna be kissing an ashtray, and smoking is so unhealthy, i cant stand it. good luck.

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KaTiE_LyNn answered Friday September 30 2005, 4:25 pm:
rob a bank. and use the money for gas to go see him. i hope that made you smile. because i don't know what to say except talk to him as much as you can and remember how amazing it will be when you can be together again.

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xxoBriannax answered Thursday September 29 2005, 5:45 pm:
You could write him letters and send them if you can't talk on the phone. Think about how good it will be when you see him again. Don't let it bother you too much that you guys are apart. You'll see each other soon. Try doing things that don't involve thinking about him. That should make things a little bit better.

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