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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
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go out...clubs,movies, anywhere hang out wit friends...lookin good wearing something sexy n boyz will holla ;) xoxo *effy*
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im startin a job in like a week and im waitressing and bussing and im really nervous howdo i get ova it? (link)
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chew gum! lol j/k just try to relax u'll see that is not a big deal..:) so try to take ur mind off from it by keepin ur self bussy ;) xoxo *effy*
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Hii. i was reading what uve been writeing to everyone and u seem like u have helped soo many people so i had a question i have been really confused. i have been dateing this guy for about a year now. he is my 1st bf. we have been in and out of fights and we break up with each other and usually hook back up the next day but this time we broke up and it has been about a week. he tells me he loves me and he misses me everyday and other time of the days hes all pissed and he doesnt say shit. what should i do? my friend say he relly loves me and wants to work things out and he wants to ask me out again what should i do should i just get over him or keep loving him? hehas taken a big part of my life. i know confuseing but i dunno what to do anymore. (link)
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in my opinion just give him one more chance...tell him n make it clear to him that this is the last time...n u guys dont nessesarly have to break up everysingel time u guys fight..talk things out...talkin is the key..so have a nice long talk wit him n give him one more change make it clear that this is the last time...if it dont work again then loose him ;) u'll meet lots of new guys..good luck xoxo *effy*
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well... i hang out with friends like everyday! an there are like 4 guyz who really like me but last nite, my mom forgot to pick me up an it wuz like 11:00 an i heard will, frankie, an steve in steves back yard yellin at the tv. so i went there untill my mom picked me up. an well my didnt ppick me up till like 2 in the mornin, but frankie kept saying he loved me, an that he wanted me to go out with him really bad an everything.. but the 3 other guyz say that too but im just to confused because we went in the hott tub an steve an will started to flirt wit me an frankie kept grabbin me an sayin he loved me an that he wanted me an everything im just really really really confused CAN SOMEONE HELP PLZZ!!! 14/f/ny (link)
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just go wit the one that makes u feel good n the one that u like the most...if u dont like none of them...then forget them n move one...u'll meet plenty new guys that they'll like u n u'll like...just b/c they like u udont have to like them back...but if u do :) then go wit the one u like the most ;) xoxo effy
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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
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u crazy?!?! wut u mean end things?!?! listen i've been wit my b/f now for like 18 dayz...i feel the same way u do...n i would never in the world make that descision...i'm actually so happy that i met him n that we are going out...i'm the happiest gurl in the world...he makes me happy n i bet ur b/f makes u happy 2...i get scared 2 sometimes...but i'm takin my chances..i'd rather regreat something i did then something i didnt !!! good luck...1luv xoxo effy
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what does it mean when you popped your cherry? (link)
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means ur not a vergin anymore!
xohannah --ur right!! ;)
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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks* (link)
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well...wow there...easy tiger!!! 1st i understand that u enjoy having sex and everything but b carful n use protection all the time...u never know wit wut kinda person ur messin wit he might have diseases n so on...i dont know u and everything so i cant juge u but in my opinion being in my age n slept already wit 7 diff ppl...thats wrong...try to find a guy who really apriciates u n the way u are..n who u are n respects u...try to find that MR.RIGHT! n then have sex wit him all u want ;) may b one day have kids wit him 2 ;) good luck xoxo effy
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is it ok to date online (link)
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i guess its ok...but keep in mind that u never kno wut he doin n he never know wut ur doing...+ from experience long disstance relationships never work!xoxo effy
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I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex? (link)
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well u just have to b sure that ur b/f really loves u a lot...n whenever ur ready go for it!xoxo effy
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okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!! (link)
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well i'm not an expert at this b/c i'm a vergin but from wut i hurd i think that comes up automatically n it depends on the situation...to have sex both the gurl n the guy has to b horney...if the gurl is a vergin then it will b best if she is mad horney so it wont hurt as much! so i dunno just give it time...n just go wit da flow...good luck xoxo effy
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is it normal for girls 2 masturbate becuz its normal for guys?? (link)
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u got that rite! masturbation is a natural thing ;) xoxo effy
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thanx! effy you have really helped me think i'll talk to my friends about it and if they still dont understand then fuck them i'm happy and thats all that matters! THANk YOU soo much you give great advice!!!
signed young love a.K.a Ashwee (link)
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i'm glad i helped ;) thanks for the compliments
lov ya ;) xoxo effy
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alright, you might all think i'm crazy but don't judge me CAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME! anyway..sorry but umm i'm 8 months pregnant and no one knows, not my parents, not my friends- no one...i've been able to hide it pretty well with baggy clothes and the fact that i'm a little big as it is naturally..since it's getting pretty close to my due date- and i havent seen a doctor once, yet...does anyone have ANY advice..please i'm in desperate need...and i'm really scared...i don't live at home beacuse my dad used to beat me and my mom was having an affair..so i moved out and i live with a friend..im 15 but my friend is 19..and he's not really good with this stuff..please help me ! (link)
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def. tell someone n go see a doctor as soon as possble!! good luck xoxo effy
p.s. dont b scared everything will b fine!!! the best wishes!!
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I'm 13 and i'm dating a 17 year old...is that ok.?..but we're in love and he dosent ask me fo sex and treats me great...so why do my friends hate him and are mad at me fo me to hang out in public with him???? are they jealous or are they juss lookin out fo me???? should i have sex with him( if he did ask?????
signed, young love
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i think thats great....i'm happy for u n that he treats u nice and doesnt ask u for sex...wut u tellin me bout ur friends i think they hating b/c since he is so great to u n so nice n u guys like each other alot then they got no reason to not like him!!! so def. they hating...just listen to ur heart n do wut ur heart tells u 2...bout the sex part...dont worry bout it...ur a lil young for that stuff...but when ur ready n ur sure that he is a right person to do it with...then go for it...u wont b abel to help it anways ;) so good luck xoxo effy
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Emotions
I feel as if i'm outside myself watching life. It feels so stange, like a cat in new land.
YOu think I have no emotion, then you don't know me. If you could understand me, just listen you can hear my thoughts. The volume is always hight never quiet.
my smile is automatic, like a machine programed.
I want to tell you more, I want you to understand.
I don't know who I am. Too many voices. too many emotions.
I feel so lost! No one understands. I'm so insecure just waiting for your secure.
I reach out, I yell but my arms don't move not a sound escapes my mouth.
I'm so alone, So many voices, so many emotions....
Copyright ©2004 Kathleen Janette Bare
Is this a good poem? Let me know. I just wrote it.
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its a very nice poem...keep it up..xoxo effy
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Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~ (link)
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hmmm my brother had the same situation.he was drunk n cheaded on his gurl which he really loved..things happens...expecially when he was drunk...i think u should forgive him this time but make it clear to him that this would b the last time that he does that!!! the only thing that i dont like is u guys takin a break....:-/ think bout it...see if u relly relly like him n want to b wit him...if u do then i say forgive him!! ;) good luck xoxo effy
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I just called my boyfriend and he's moving! I know I'm only 11 but I really like him. I've known him for a while and we just started going out a few months ago. We're not breaking up but I don't know. Will the relationship work out? He's got my # and he said he'd call me that way I can get his number when he moves. I know I could write him and maybe, if my parents would let me, visit him in the summer. But what do you guys think? (link)
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gurl....listen like you said ur only 11...do u kno how many other guys u'll meet n get to know through the yrs?!?!? PLENTYYYY!! Listen i'm not sayin break up wit him or w/e...but a lil tip from experience long distance relationships dont last!!!! since u like him or w/e u can keep in touch wit him n talk to him on the phone..but time will pass n u'll see ur self that the feelings will start going away...u'll meet new hot fine ass guys ;) n u'll have plenty of other b/f's through the yr's...ur wayyyyy 2 young so dont worry bout it...good luck xoxo effy
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thank u for giving me adivice on that question i had bout my friend mary ( thas not her real name ) and how much strife she's dun to me . but i dono how to tell this girl . i kno my parents r ryte . when i started middle school bout 3 yrs. ago . i was the tall , skinny dorky girl . this girl was the only person that talked to me and was a friend . we hang out all the tyme . we dont now cuz my parents cant stand her! but i know wen i start high school this fall that i gotta let her go cuz my 4 yrs . there will b hell if this chic is in my life . evrybudy hates her . shes talked so much behind my back and wen we got into a fight ( that has ahppned a lot ) shed spread rumors bout me and so much stuff . ive had a soul tie with this girl b/c i considered her my only friend . ive had soo many ppl take advantage of me and my parents . my parents hav been good to so many of my friends . takin them out to dinner , buying them stuff . just being nice to somebody . for this girls b-day . i bought her a gameboy advance wit 2 games and a cd playa and sum make-up and little thngs . a week later , she gets mad at me.i dono if im like sick or somethng for takin this girl bak as my friend . but i'll get hurt next year . i dono what to tell her . (link)
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i understand...like i told u i had the same exact problem...n the same thing happend to me...everytime we would argue she would talk as much shit she possibly could...she would say the secrets that i've trusted her wit..n everything...but i should've known that she would talk shit behind my back cuz there's this quote that says " one who talks shit to u bout others, talks shit to others bout u" n its so tru!!! sometimes she would get mad at me for no reason...she would get mad at me b/c the guys she liked would like me...or like once we were on da lunch line buyin lunch n we were wit 2 other friends...one of those friends was one of my other best friend (which i love so much, we never aruge or talk behind eachothers back) n she was wit one of her other "best friends" which she talked shit behind her back like whohaaaaaaa ...n i had to make a phone call so i told her that my ne my other best friend was gonna go n make a phone call...n she got mad b/c she we left her "alone" wit her other bestfriend!...n then she would talk shit..childish stupid shit...then one day i couldnt take it anymore so i told her..i was like i cant stand this no more...we've been friends for a while n everything but if u cant be a tru friend then i dont need u..b/c Y WOULD I NEED A FAKE ASS FRIEND?!?!?....so we argued that day i was sad n everything b/c it hurts when u lose a friend no metter how bad they are...but thats life ;) u gotta move on sometimes n u gotta make moves u dont want to..so good luck ;) xoxo effy
p.s. u seem to be a very thoughtful gurl n wit nice feelings ;) dont change!!!
n if u wanna talk more bout this u can IM me at xxhotsexycutiexx ;)
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Hey, ive been told im "hott"or"sexy" and i just dont feel that way. . .i mean other paeople may think so but im 14 and i have long blonde hair, dark green eyes i fill a large B cup have okay hips and my butt is a lil big. . .i personally think im too skinny im about 5' 6" and i only weigh 115 lbs. i dont kno if thats a bad thing. . .but i was wondering if i could have some advice about how i could make myself look better make-up, or maybe even gain weight? i dun know but if you wanna, can you halp me plz. . . .?
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gurl...how u described ur self it looks to me like u fine...make up?!?! dont use to much make up...u've green eyes...which i get contacts to make that color ;) make up dont attract guys anywayz...they always say "i dont wanna see a plastic n fake face, i wanna see the real natural beauty" so wear make up but not 2 much...just a lil...like eye liner n lip gloss... other then that ur perfect! may b u should gain a lil bit weight but not 2 much...i think ur perfect! xoxo effy
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i hav a friend . lets say her name in mary . well mary has always been bad to me in the past. me n her hav gotten into a lot of fights in the past three yrs. . for some reason i always keep crawling back to her and we become friends again . shes stolen from me in the past about twice now and she denys when i know she did it and shes talked behind my back many times , even if were still friends . and she laughs about it like its no big deal . my parents have told me to keep away from her in high school next year b/c nobudy will like u for hanging out with her . i know there right , i havt had a decent friend treat me good in a looog time . since ive been frends wit this girl . i kno its time for me to let her go as a friend . shes hurt me n my family in the past and i dont want to have evryone hte me for hangin out wit her . please help . what do i do!!!! (link)
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hi, well i've had a friend for 2 yrs..n she was the same way...i met her in high school...she was new n i helped her to find her classes n made her my friend so she will have someone to hang out wit...i introduced her to all of my friends and everything...we became close friends...very close "best friends" we would always talk n share stuff.. until i found out that she was a backstabber...she talked behind my back like she talked bout all her friends...n she was jelous n always did wrong stuff...i would always forgive her just like u forgived ur friend..but i forgived her b/c i always felt bad..she use to cry n call n say she was sorry...my parents were the same way ur parents are..n then one day i couldnt take it anymore...n when she did the same thing over again it old her that i'm sorry but this cat go like this no more..i dont like ppl talkin behind my back b/c thats not a tru friend...n if u cant be a tru friend then i dont want to b ur friend at all...so since then we'vent talked...so tell her wut u feel tell her how u feel...n dont worry bout gettin new friends...in highschool u'll make plenty of new friends...trust me! good luck xoxo effy ;)
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