i hav a friend . lets say her name in mary . well mary has always been bad to me in the past. me n her hav gotten into a lot of fights in the past three yrs. . for some reason i always keep crawling back to her and we become friends again . shes stolen from me in the past about twice now and she denys when i know she did it and shes talked behind my back many times , even if were still friends . and she laughs about it like its no big deal . my parents have told me to keep away from her in high school next year b/c nobudy will like u for hanging out with her . i know there right , i havt had a decent friend treat me good in a looog time . since ive been frends wit this girl . i kno its time for me to let her go as a friend . shes hurt me n my family in the past and i dont want to have evryone hte me for hangin out wit her . please help . what do i do!!!!
Additional info, added Saturday July 3 2004, 8:59 pm: her and some other ppl in the past hav taken advantage of me and i let it happen b.c. i hardely hav frends . i'd get made fun of just for hanging out wit her . i know i'll meet more ppl in high school . but how can i tell her we cant b frends no more .?? my mom hates her wit a passion and she asks me all the time" why do ur parents hate . tell them not to hate me " . im soo sick of it . but im afraid if i let her go as a friend , i wont hav any friends at all .. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Bubbles33 answered Monday July 5 2004, 10:15 pm: Well this is my advice since she does all this why do u want to put up with it? she really doesnt sound like a very good friend and if she was your friend she wouldnt do all the things she alraedy does..i belive your parents she will get u probably in trouble around in hi school you if she hurts u and your family u need to let her goo and find another friend cause shes not meant to be your friend..hope this works good luck buh bye
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday July 5 2004, 5:43 pm: hi, well i've had a friend for 2 yrs..n she was the same way...i met her in high school...she was new n i helped her to find her classes n made her my friend so she will have someone to hang out wit...i introduced her to all of my friends and everything...we became close friends...very close "best friends" we would always talk n share stuff.. until i found out that she was a backstabber...she talked behind my back like she talked bout all her friends...n she was jelous n always did wrong stuff...i would always forgive her just like u forgived ur friend..but i forgived her b/c i always felt bad..she use to cry n call n say she was sorry...my parents were the same way ur parents are..n then one day i couldnt take it anymore...n when she did the same thing over again it old her that i'm sorry but this cat go like this no more..i dont like ppl talkin behind my back b/c thats not a tru friend...n if u cant be a tru friend then i dont want to b ur friend at all...so since then we'vent talked...so tell her wut u feel tell her how u feel...n dont worry bout gettin new friends...in highschool u'll make plenty of new friends...trust me! good luck xoxo effy ;) [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
Irishprincess896 answered Sunday July 4 2004, 11:08 pm: Think of it this way... Would you rather have a friend who makes you and your life miserable, or have no friend know that when school starts you will make plenty of friends? Your parents are right, i you are hanging out with this girl ans she is bad news, she will make you look bad too and people will think you are like her too. [ Irishprincess896's advice column | Ask Irishprincess896 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 10:38 pm: Think of it this way... Would you rather have a friend who makes you and your life miserable, or have no friend know that when school starts you will make plenty of friends? Your parents are right, i you are hanging out with this girl ans she is bad news, she will make you look bad too and people will think you are like her too. Also, never be friends with someone who steals from you, that is so disrespectful, I would be so pissed if my friend did that to me. Gte rid of this girl quick! Just tell her she is no good and she making your life hell and you guys can't be friends anymore. Let her ruin someone elses life. You are better than that. Good Luck! :)
dancer_freak05 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 9:46 pm: Go out to a place where lots of people your age hangout and just start talking to other people... Introduce yourself, get outta the house. Find someone that you have something in common with.... Its easy... As for not being friends with her anymore, dont be mean about it. Just say Hey, Im moving on with my life, I think you should too. OR just take the other way around and avoid all contact until she gets the hint.
Hope I helped [ dancer_freak05's advice column | Ask dancer_freak05 A Question ]
exyweetee99 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 9:02 pm: when ppl do things like that once they'll usually do it again n again so im sure u deserve betta then her true friends dont do that shit so tell her how u feel n if she dont like it leaven stand by ur wrd....plz rate
CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Saturday July 3 2004, 9:01 pm: wow thats a nasty thing for her to do!I dont think she is some1 you should be friends with.I think you should find a better person who doesnt steal from u and is a real friend!Good luck babe
Much <3
*BrittBritt
lovinyouzzforeva! answered Saturday July 3 2004, 8:54 pm: Wow hun, stolen from you? If it was something big, definitly end that friendship, you don't need your stuff taken jiust for a friend. Maybe she feels she needs to be in control, or that you're easy to take advantage of. Start my become more aggressive (not mean though!) and if that does'nt work, use all of that aggressiveness that you worked up and end your friendship, <3 Alyssa [ lovinyouzzforeva!'s advice column | Ask lovinyouzzforeva! A Question ]
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