my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of the month and i really like him but i dont know if i should break up with him..i live in new york..help!!
Ashley answered Sunday July 4 2004, 6:18 am: Sorry! You need to break it up. I was in a long distance relationship for a few weeks but it never worked out only because he never moved down. I met him when he was down on vacation! You are still young and theres tons of guys. [ Ashley's advice column | Ask Ashley A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 10:28 pm: well it would help if I knew how old the 2 of you were. but what you need to do is find out if you will be able to see him again. If you are and you love him then you will be able to deal with him not always being around. But if you know you aren't gonna see him enough, then the best thing would be is to break off when he moves. Say your good byes and move on. I'm not saying this is easy but it is what will have to be done. And of course you and this guy can stay friends and tallk on the phone and stuff. You shouldn't have to end your friendships. Good Luck! :)
Cammie answered Saturday July 3 2004, 9:17 pm: I'd try out the "long-distance" relationship! (Even though this isn't THAT long distance...) Keep with him! But if you feel like you haven't even seen him in FOREVER, or that you think he's chasing after other girls, or something that just makes you feel like to break off, you might want to do so. Or, you could make things a little easier on you and him and just be friends. Maybe even friends with benefits! :) But you never know...maybe he'll call you every day and write you love poems and send them to you through the mail with a kiss. :) If he's really worth it to you, and you love him more than anything- you'll stick with the distance gap. Good luck with the relationship. I hope I helped maybe even a little bit. Please rate me!
exyweetee99 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 9:07 pm: long distance relationships havnt lasted very long 4 me in the past so i try 2 avoid them if it was me i'd brake it off b4 he leaves.
lovinyouzzforeva! answered Saturday July 3 2004, 9:06 pm: Hmmmm hunn, u should try the long-distance-relationship thing for a little bit, it's unusual for it to work, but my friend has a bf in hawaii and she lives in RI. If it doesnt work, pull the plug, a 12 hour ride isnt worth it for someone who, well, isnt worth it! [ lovinyouzzforeva!'s advice column | Ask lovinyouzzforeva! A Question ]
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