thank u for giving me adivice on that question i had bout my friend mary ( thas not her real name ) and how much strife she's dun to me . but i dono how to tell this girl . i kno my parents r ryte . when i started middle school bout 3 yrs. ago . i was the tall , skinny dorky girl . this girl was the only person that talked to me and was a friend . we hang out all the tyme . we dont now cuz my parents cant stand her! but i know wen i start high school this fall that i gotta let her go cuz my 4 yrs . there will b hell if this chic is in my life . evrybudy hates her . shes talked so much behind my back and wen we got into a fight ( that has ahppned a lot ) shed spread rumors bout me and so much stuff . ive had a soul tie with this girl b/c i considered her my only friend . ive had soo many ppl take advantage of me and my parents . my parents hav been good to so many of my friends . takin them out to dinner , buying them stuff . just being nice to somebody . for this girls b-day . i bought her a gameboy advance wit 2 games and a cd playa and sum make-up and little thngs . a week later , she gets mad at me.i dono if im like sick or somethng for takin this girl bak as my friend . but i'll get hurt next year . i dono what to tell her .
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday July 5 2004, 6:11 pm: i understand...like i told u i had the same exact problem...n the same thing happend to me...everytime we would argue she would talk as much shit she possibly could...she would say the secrets that i've trusted her wit..n everything...but i should've known that she would talk shit behind my back cuz there's this quote that says " one who talks shit to u bout others, talks shit to others bout u" n its so tru!!! sometimes she would get mad at me for no reason...she would get mad at me b/c the guys she liked would like me...or like once we were on da lunch line buyin lunch n we were wit 2 other friends...one of those friends was one of my other best friend (which i love so much, we never aruge or talk behind eachothers back) n she was wit one of her other "best friends" which she talked shit behind her back like whohaaaaaaa ...n i had to make a phone call so i told her that my ne my other best friend was gonna go n make a phone call...n she got mad b/c she we left her "alone" wit her other bestfriend!...n then she would talk shit..childish stupid shit...then one day i couldnt take it anymore so i told her..i was like i cant stand this no more...we've been friends for a while n everything but if u cant be a tru friend then i dont need u..b/c Y WOULD I NEED A FAKE ASS FRIEND?!?!?....so we argued that day i was sad n everything b/c it hurts when u lose a friend no metter how bad they are...but thats life ;) u gotta move on sometimes n u gotta make moves u dont want to..so good luck ;) xoxo effy
p.s. u seem to be a very thoughtful gurl n wit nice feelings ;) dont change!!!
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