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hey im a 13 male and since 6th grade (im in 8th grade now) i've been getting a few annoying crushes. so let me striaghten this. i hate having crushes. why? because they're on people that play no point in my life. 6th grade was an ok crush, at least i talked to the girl often, but 7th grade, i must have heard 20 words from the girl towards me all year, she was a tom boy and i played no point in her life, and hers in mine, though i had a crush on her. now, in 8th grade, i do believe i have yet another on a girl that hasn't said ONE word to me. dont tell me to talk to her, i just want it to go away. why am i getting crushes on girls that i havent even spoken 2. this girl is in 3 of my classes, and i dont know i just like her. like i dont even have to hear her voice and i like her. its strange, just people with a certan air about them, i favor. mods dont delete. its just bugging me. is this normal? (link)
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Well in short to answer your question, yes this is VERY normal. Everyone in junior high has tons of crushes! And even beyond junior high you will find yourself crushing on people that you may not even know that well or at all. It's often that we crush on people we don't know as an insecurity thing. I'm not calling you insecure, I'm just saying EVERYBODY likes poeple for some reason or another that is often unexplainable to them they don't know just because they don't have to be worried about being confronted with them. Although you saiud you don't want me to tell you to talk to this girl, I think you should...you said your crushes have usually played an insignificant role in your life, but if you want that to change than make an effort. Do whatever you need to so that you are happy. I would talk to the girl, ask her a question about homework or something to break the ice..or compliment her..You have nothing to lose..besides this is your 8th grade year, live it up..you'll get a clean slate in hs. :)
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This is kind of long, but I'd like advice. I have a friend, and we've been buds since first grade. Ever since we met, we fight about the dumbest things! Like, I became best best friends with someone, and hung out with that girl a lot. I hung out with my other friend a lot too. She always emailed me saying, "You blow me off!" It gets me soo mad! Then like a day later she totally acts all sweet and like my best friend. Then a month later she pulls that crap again! We fight a lot, and she always starts it and acts like I did. She's always been like this, and if I talk to her, she'll totally bring up little mistakes I've made and act all rude again! What should I do?????? (link)
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Hmm, well first of all you sound pretty level headed and mature. You friend seems immature, childish and stubborn. But hey, we all have our flaws. It seems like your friend has issues with just leaving things the way they are. I think she trys to create her own drama for attention or excitement or something. Don't let her get the best of you. To an extent you need to be understanding of her and her issue. You should try talking to her again ...sit her down civily and explain everything to her..Tell her htat you care about her and like being friends, but you feel like all this un needed drama is putting stress on y'alls freindship. Tell her that you knmow nobody is perfect and that you know we all make mistakes. Tell her that you are sorry if you have hurt her in any way and that it was not intentional..then tell her that you wished all the little fights would stop because you don't want problems between you too. See if this works, if she doesn't handle this way, then maybe you two should back off from hanging out so much and give her some time to come to her senses and mature. :)
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ok this may sound weird but oh well...My boyfriend used to kiss me alllll the time and like show that he cares for me. But now, it seems like he dosn't even care even though he says he dose. It seems like he cares about his friends more then me. I don't know what is going on but i need help. What should I do/ say to him? (link)
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often times when relationships first start out they act more affectionate and excited to be with that person because it's new, exciting, fresh, etc..If he says that he does care about you, he's probably telling you the truth because most of the time guys just don't say that sort of the thing if that's not what they are feeling. It's also very possible that in the beginning he felt the need to show you he cares and to show you that he is happy to be with you (thus the kissing). Maybe now he thinks he's proven that to you and don't feel the need to. It's also possible that he's less interested or he has something on his mind. You should try talking to him and tell him how you are feeling..don't corner him just tell him how you are feeling and that you care too and that's why you want to know what is going on. Say something along the lines of "I know you care about me, but somethings been bothering me...you use to kiss me all the time and now you dont. Is something bothering you, or have you lost interest or what? Please be honest with me...I can handle it" Or something like that..just don't fight! No drama! And no worries, always remember it's JUST A BOY!! :)
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(Sorry, I wasnt sure what category to put it under) Ok, ever since 5th grade I really started to hate my life. I mean, this large group of girls were doing petty things and were lying to the principal. Alot of people hate me. I lost 25 maybe more, friends. I cant take it anymore. My friends are starting to ignore me and "snub" me! Im starting to feel very depressed and lonely. My self-esteem is 2. Not alot. I cry myself to sleep. My family life isnt any better. My mom is SUPER paranoid, so I cant tell her anything. My dad wont understand. My mom wont let me go over to my friends house and such! Please help!
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Hey there, well first I would like to say I'm sorry you are feeling crummu lately and things don't seem to be going that well for you. I think we have all been there in some way or another. With that said, a lot of what you said concerns me. I totally was you when I was your age..I went from being Ms. Popular tons of friends, to crying every single day and all that jazz. All this continued and when I was your age I met this guy who influeneced me and I totally went down the wrong path in my perspective. I don't want to know that this may soon be the case for you as well. So you asked for help and here it is.
It's okay to feel down sometimes and "hate" life. But, you are REALLY young to have to be dealing with this.
First, let's address the fact that your so called friend hate you...kids/teens your age are so immature and easily influenced to do and say things just to fit in. You are going to have tons of friends through out all of your school careers. There is no rule that says you have to stay friends with all 25 or so of them all the way through. Be wise in choosing your friends. I'm guessing you just started 6th or 7th grade...junior high is all about who is the most popular and how many boyfriends you have and all this he said she said crap. It's totally unneccisary dramatic CRAP!! Be more mature, dare to be yourself. So what if these kids that are your "friends" or just your school mates don't like you...try to make new friends, tlk to people you have never talked to before, introduce yourself, be sincere, be yourself..go to a church that has a nice youth group and make friends there. Heck, I'll be your pen pal!! Don't worry about the whole friend thing, I know it seems that friends make your happiness, but they really dont, YOU do. Get involved in sports, clubs, activities, volunteer. That will help you with some of the lonliness you are feeling. When you are "crying yourself to sleep" why don't you write in a journal and say all you are thinking, or pray. That's okay that your mom's paranoid..all moms are to some extent. Try talking to her maturaly and civily and tell her that you feel she is being too paranoid..gain her trust and respect..do bonding activties to get closer. Maybe she is being too paranoid because she sees you have been down latelty. Change your attitude, be grateful for what you have in your life..really think about that. Try to make your dad understand, talk to him..give him a chance...and lastly, if you really feel that depressed and dont want this to escalate seek help from a shrink or a teen hotline. Just as long as you talk to someone!! If you'd like I'd be more than happy to help ya out in sorting things out. Just take it one day at a time, dont have n e regrets, and live your life because you only get one of them. And remember, everything happens for a reason....pay attention. Feel better, and I'm always here!! :)
My sn is XxXsasha23XxX :)
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I really like this guy I met him the first day of school when him and all his friends came up to me to tell me I was hott and he was just standing there so I talked to him its been 13 days since we met but I feel like its been more then that anywayz Today we were hugging alot and holding hands I was hugging him when someone said AWW u guys are so cute U should go out So i said ok I will then he said NO she doesnt want to SO everyone was like u just missed a big huge chance to ask her out then all of a sudden hes like I have a girlfriend I cant WHy didnt he tell me sooner and what should I do about this? (link)
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Gosh! Well, first off that's completely crummy of him to have led you on like that. Even though you have not known him that long it seems that now you may know him a little better based on this. He obviously is not as great as you thought and it's a great and respectable as you have thought. A guy that really cares about a girl would be honest up front (that's the guy you want, not some dirt bag who lies to you). Even though you may think you like him and think he's hott you should definately back off and stop the holding hands and hugging. That's not fair to you or his GIRLFRIEND. If you drop him this will show him what kind of girl you are and that you don't tolerate crap like that. If you just continue to let him hang on you with no relationship then he's not only in a way cheating, but he's just using you and you are showing him it's okay. Find another guy that's SINGLE!! Go get em!! :)
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does anybody on here have photoshop? or paintshop pro or something where they know how to do cool things w/ pictures?? if so, could you tell me how much the programs are and how to learn the basics?? also, if you are good at these things could you please leave your column name because i would like to get a few pics spiced up if anybody wouldnt mind helping :) (link)
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Hey there, this is Free2bMe! I am not firmilar with paintshop pro, but I know photoshop very well. There are tons of things you can do to ap pic within this program, it's really easy and user friendly. Photoshop(the latest addition) is about $350+. Although it is pretty expensive it is very much well worth it for all the things it can do to an image. Also, sometimes you can get it cheaper when you buy a specific program package (Check computer sales for sales and discounts) Or, if a friend has it you could burn it! If you end up getting it let me know so I can tell you tons..I know how to everything from the basics of cropping to making the person look like someone totally differently. :)
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ok so i went to a football game this past weekend right and i saw all of my friends from my old school there that i haven't seen for like 3 years. so i was like oh kewl! then my one friends comes up to me and was like hey and i was talking to her about who else was there and she said my old good friend maya was there so i was like oh kewl then shes like yeah not really she's a slut now and then she took me over to these one dudes and they were like oh maya yeah shes a slut and i was like ok then so then i finally got to talk to maya and when i was done my friends like so... and i was like well shes changed. not like she was a hoe or n e thing i meen god i talked to her for like five miunutes. so then i talked to maya about it and was like whys everyone calling u a how and shes like who so we were talking about it and stuff and then everything was kewl but then today she pops up and was like w/e i know its you who thinks im a slut one of ur friends told me! so i was like wtf i never called you that! i meen god im so________________________ confused! i dont know what to do! please help!
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Hmm, well for starters this whole things seems to me as if it is just unnecessary drama and chaos. I think whoever told you friend Maya this was just wanting to start trouble for attention or some other reason. The whole thing is very immature. The wisest choice for you to make in this case would for you to be to try and get the whole "he said she said" bullcrap behind you and work things out with your friend. Tell Maya the truth and that you would never have said that about her because you are her friend no matter if it has been 3 days since you've talked or 3 years. Tell her that you respect her and care about her and her choices are her choices not anyone elese and you won't judge her any differently based on what LIES/TRUTHS you MAY here for a source. Maya shoudl understand if she really is your friend. If you end up finding out who told Maya that, don't start a huge scene with them, just tell them that you are dissappointed in them and expected more in them. Then drop it. Don't drag it on because then you will be caught up in this childish immature drama!! Good luck, and don't worry about mess, just live!! :)
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OK...i noticed this horrible odor and after awhile i discovered it was coming from my vagina! Ughh its disgusting. I know "they say" it smells down there if you eat certain foods like meat...i had a turkey sandwhich for dinner..could that be it? or could i have some kind of infection? I really dont wanna be in school and have people notice the odor ...wat can i do to conceal it / get rid of it? Any help is good help..thanks (link)
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Okay, well stop TOTALLY freaking out. This is a common for young women. You are right that certain foods can effect "the smell" down there, but not so much that it's unbarable and other people may be able to smell it also.
Here are some things to consider:not in any specific order
1.try using the thin pads/panty liners that absorb odor (found in the feminine isle)-See if that takes care of the problem
2. make sure you rinse or wash down there when you are in the show
3. wear cotton crotch underwear or thong or w/e because other materials sometimes irratate and cause issues down there
--Ask yourself these questions--
-how long has the odor been overly apparent?
-have i had this problem before
-did i just use a tampon for the first time recently
-is it burning down there when i pee?
-could i have a urinary tract infection or yeast infection?? if so you need to either tell your mom so that she can tell you what she thinks is best or see a doctor (usually they give you these hot glue gun looking glue stick to slide up your "yeah" (just like you would a tampon) or they may give you some type of antibiotic..if you dont feel comfortable going to a doctor you can go to the drug store and get some over the counter medicine the brand is AZO and it comes in various forms.
If you have any other questions, feel free to ask. Good luck and don't worry! :)
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Ok, so this year I just started highschool and I love it. I'm making alot of new friends, and people are starting to like me more. But there is this guy. I like him alot, he's a senior. And he is popular. we are friends but i like him alot. I want to get to know him more but i dont know how. we have one class together and we talk alot but i just want to know how to become good friends with him (link)
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Well, that's great that you like high school. Don't let someones "so called social status" aka popularity keep you from getting what you want and being friends with who you want and especially from liking who you want. Since you have class with him, keep going on the talking! Don't stop that because then to him you may seem uninterested. You can't just forcefully become someones "good" friend. These things take time! What you can do though is show an interest in being someones friend. Like next time you start talking ask him how his day has been so far or if anything new or exciting is going on. If he says it was crappy ask why. Be concerned but also sincere with him. If you want to get to "know" him more ask for his number or his sn or email address. Don't be shy! If he acts weird just be like " you know in case I have a homework question"...then go from there. Also, you could ask him to hang out (like with friends..or ask if he's going to that weeks football game_ and tell him you'll look forward to seeing him or actually go with him. Just be yourself, honest, and have fun! :)
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what is the name that chicago is in? thanx (link)
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Chicago is in Central Standard Time Zone!! :)
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ok...well tomorrow is picture day, and i have this zit!! YIKES!! so...how can i make it go away by tomorrow? (link)
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Well, don't mess with it too much because you will aggitate and irritate it more. The best thing to do is put something along the lines of Clerisil on it or something with that Benzol Peroxide in it. Make sure to wash your face before you go to bed (don't sleep with any makeup on-this sets your face back as much as 2 weeks with all the added bacteria) and wash your face in the morning. Put a concelor or foundation or use a coverstck to cover the spot..add a little powder to blend it. Also, some schools now have an "air brushed" option which would eliminate the zit! Also, some photo companies do it naturally like to everyone's photos..I know it seems like a big deal now, but it's just a school pic! Besides..yearbook pics are TINY so noone will see that pesky zit!! :)
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I'm 13 and I got my period November of 2003. My mom doesn't really like me using tampons, I never have, and I never really wanted to. Until now. They seem some much easier, and more conveniant. My question is, which kind do I buy? Mine aren't usually really heavy, but they aren't light either. So what brands to you reccomend? (link)
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Hey there. I totally was in the same situation as you when I was your age! My mom didn't want me to wear 'em either! But, you are right..they are A LOT easier than pads! And also, a lot more comfortable. My recommendation to you would be to get Regular absorbancy **Unscented**. The regulars can hold more than the slim fits and they are really easy to put it. A great brand that's easy to use (for first users especially) are the Playtex Gentle Glide (plastic applicator). Also, if you have some super heavy days and then some now so heavy days you could get a Playtex variety pack that has everything from Slims to Supers. Also, since it will be your first time and you aren't really sure if you can keep yours in for the whole 7-8 hours with no leaks I would suggest you to wear a panty liner or thing maxi pad with it. Good luck! :)
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Well the other day one of my very close friends told me that she was a lezbo i mean lyk i totally support that n all but i feel wierd what should i do? (link)
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Well, first you have to totally admire your friend for having the courage to tell you. Whether it seems like it or not to you, that's a really big deal. It's okay that you feel a little weirded out by all of this. That's pretty natural. Don't let that ruin y'alls friendship though. You should tell your friend that you appreciate and respect the fact that she felt comfortable enough to share such a big thing with you. Tell her that you "totally support" her as you stated. Tell her that this doesn't effect y'alls relationship you still feel the same about her but you just need a lil' time to get use to it! She'll totally understand! :)
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I wanna b the student concil rep. for my class in seventh grade...how can i win soo peeps will vote for me.....(and i am shy around the popular kids) (link)
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Well, first of all don't be shy!!! Speak up! That's the best way for people to get to know you and all that you stand for. Introduce yourself to everyone you don't know, be nice, but also sincere!! Be helpful..show people your true colors and that you can and will make a difference. Don't just want to be a representative because it will make you look good or make you popualar..do it because you want to stand for something and contribute. Just be your self. Also, come election time make posters and have a good speech! Good luck! :)
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What are the back-2-skool colors for this year? What are some trends and things guys look for? Any advice on HS? I just had my first day of it today and I absolutely loved it! It was so much fun! Lol guys already asking for my number...is it always lyke that? THANKS SO MUCH! (link)
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Well I started school back at the beginning of August and I'd say this is what's in:
Clothes:
-Pink EVERYTHING
-Knee length black dresses
-Faded and Dark jeans
-Graphic Tee's
-Layers
-Short Blue jean skirts and also the ones at Urnam planet that like look pleated
- PastKnee length skirts with clits in the middle about to the knee
-Capped sleeved shirts
-black anything
Shoes:
-Variety of colored flip flops
-clear tennis shoes
-shox
-HIGH HEELS (no backs and back)
-track shoes
BELTS:
-ribbon belts
-basic belts
-specialized belts
Purses:
-corrdiroy
-pink
-large
Backpacks:
-Anything childish
Hair Styles:
-Scrunches hair
-Curled with curlers
-straightened with a chi
-headbads
-blonde with dark highllights
-dark with honey highlights
Colors:
-pink
-pale yellow
-black
-brown
-green
Guys like girls who can be klinda dressy all decked out one day but then the next day son't mine just wearin' jeans and a tee!! Just be yourself-guys love that!
*Advice: Work hard, play hard!! Join tons of groups, get involved, have fun, go to all the football games, introduce yourself to EVERYONE!!
-Yeah you'll have good days and bad days..just take it by the horns!! :)
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okay..im 15..turned 15 in July. and i think im very fat. I think it might be because i lost about 50 pounds over a corse of 2 years. Im 5'9 i know very tall. and wear a size 7 jeans (link)
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Well first of all Haqppy belated Birthday! If you reads not too far down on my advice column there is a girl with your similar situation-so don't feel alone. Also, don't call yourself fat! Don't put yourself down. Love yourself. God made you that way and he loves you so you should love you. A size 7 isn't bad at all. I have a really big rump haha and sometime in certain things I have to get a 7 to fit over my booty! Haha so don't feel bad that's a good size. Also, congrats on losing 50 lbs that quite an accomplishment. You know I bet you could be a model. i am sure you have a gorgeous face, and you are a perfect height for it. I'm only 4'10 and a half, so i'd love your height. I think you think you are "very fat" only because of society and media (like I told the other person) Another thing, often times after people lose a large amount of weight they have this paranoyya that they are still not thin enough. Be careful of this. A lot of kids your age might be shorter and thinner than you, but SO WHAT! Be an individual. Find people that will accept you for who you are. Don't settle for anything less. If you would like to still lose more weight make sure that you are doing so for you and only you. You can read what I wrote for the other person..I baically told her to: pick a diet to go on of your preference ( have a friend or family member go on it with you for support), go to the grocery store to buy the food for the diet, get junk out of the house, go work out at a gym, weigh yourself every 2 weeks to see the progress, pick a set weight goal, make a timelined scedule including when and what you eare going to have/do for breakfast, l;unch, and dinner and when you are going to excersize. If you did this once you can surely do it again. If you need anyone to help you through this I'm here for ya! Also, I would go on a diet with you if you want to and we can be like pen pals and tell each other the details of our progress. Good luck and be happy, live, and ACCEPT things. :)
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Hey im jw..is ryan seacrest gay? (link)
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No, although to many he gives off that vibe. But I even asked one of my best friends (that is gay) and he says he's more like a bisexual-metrosexual!! Haha! But actually, Ryan has a girlfirned name Shayna or Shannon or something like that! Haha! :)
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hi. i am very sad and i cannot stop crying because both of my parents refuse to get me braces. i really need them and i hate smiling because my teeth are So crooked, and everyone stares. i would feel so much better if i had them and i would stop crying everyday. i know that writing this isnt gonna help me; hence i feel helpless. "we cant afford it", they say. but when it comes to buying something expensive for themselves my parents suddenly can. i'm not going to get into my family because i really dont wanna talk about my neglegence and abuse. anywho..i just dont know what to do. i hate looking at all my happy friends with their braces. i really dont want to get a reply such as "dont care about what they think," or "theres people out there that have less then you." because frankly, i dont really care. (link)
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Well, I'm really sad to hear about your situation. my first comment is are your teeth REALLY crooked? Or do you feel like that because all of your friends have braces and so compared to theirs your are crooked? I'm not trying to make you feel bad-but this may be the case. But, if you really do have crooked teeth and want to make a difference here are a few things that you can do. First, research a little about the dental places in your community and all the different aspects of it-shop around for the best bargain. Then, show this to your parents so they can see how interested and determined and responsible you are. Also, MANY if not all towns have teaching hospitals (like dental schools) or at the medical centers where they offer braces but because most of the work is done by someone that is being trained much cheaper. For example if the braces cost 5000 normally, they may only cost 900 st this place. Call around, ask around, and reasearch to find these places to help you out. And if your parents can't or won't pay for the cheaper braces then maybe you school get some kind of part time job. If you are not old enough to work at a store you could babysit and make flyers or some local neighborhoods have books that get sent out each month to the houses with babysitters names in it. I hope that I have helped. I hope things perk up for you. :)
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im 15 and a sophomore in highschool and i'm over weight. Im not gunna say how much cuz i don't feel confortable saying it but it's quite a bit. I'v lost 30 pounds beofre but most ofit came back and its really hard. The strange thing is im pretty athletic and im even faster then some of the small girls n my school. I'm tired of being fat and of people making fun of me sumtimes. It makes me hate myself and sometimes i juss wanna die. I dont remember a time in my life when i was really actually happy. I know that if i lose alotta weight. I try but i never get to far. I'm eating better then u use to but now i just stay the same weight gaining or loseing 2 or 3 pounds. I never throw up so doing bulimia is outta the question. I dunno what else to do. (link)
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Hey therE! Well, first off stop being so hard on yourself and feeling so down and ashamed! There's no rule book in life that tells us that we have to be skinny. The only reason people think "skinny is in" is because of society and the media. So, don't make yourself feel like an outcast. There's no need for it. Now with that said, if you are severly over weight, well then yes the sensible thing to do would be to drop of few. But do not ever let the decsion be pursuaded because of what other people may think and or say. If you are going to do something concerning you..then do it for you, and you only. There's a girl that I go to school with that is just like you; she is overweight but extremely athletic. She's the best player on Varsity basketball, and on varsity track. Sure when we were in grade school some of the kids may have made fun of her, but she's made a name for herself now and people respect. So keep up with the atletics. get involved in as many activities as you can. Be friendly..if you act comfortable about who you are your size other people will too. You control it. Now then, if you really would like to lose weight the best thing to do would to go on a diet. Don't pick a diet that is going to make you feel starved and deprive you of the foods you love. Here are some of the ways to go about this: Go to your doctor and work out a game plan with him, get your family involved and get the junk food out of the house, go on the southbeach diet (I personally find this to be the most effective), weightwatchers (also very effective), etc. There are tons of things to take action on this situation. So here's my basic suggestion- you can doctor it up to fit your needs.
First, go to BMISCALE.COM and see how much over weight you are. Then, pick a target weight goal that you would like to get to. After, pick a diet of your preference. Join a gym or use a tredmill at home or decide to go running. Drink lots of water. Tell your family you are doing this so they can help you and support you. Go to the grocery store and pick out the foods for your new diet. (If you like you could get a friend to go on one with you). Then once you have done all of these things make a sceduled timelime for yourself. Put breakfast, lunch, and dinner on there with times for you to excersize and do all your other daily tasks. And say after after every 2 weeks check on your weight to see the progress. Like I said these are just the basics. Just remember, you CAN do this tons of other people have done it so you can too. Just put faith into it, pray, be determined, and work hard at acheiving this goal. Stop letting this get you down or wanting to die..you are how you are because God created you. Be thankful. If you want change, work for it. Don't care about other people's opinions-especially sophomore-they tend to be immature. Well, I hope I helped. Good luck! :)
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Okay i can't show the guy that I like that i do like him around people. Idk. it's weird i mean i get all shy and people have to make me go sit by him or something.well what could i do to show him i like him? (link)
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Well for starters, don't feel weird- this is a common problem for young people today. You mentioned that you get shy when you are with him around other people...is it because you care about what they think and what you do? Probably so. We are all like that. So there are a few things you can do. If you aren't allowed to be around boys by yourself and that's why you are always with others...pick someone that you are totally close to and aren't afraid to be a total goof in front of. This way you don't have to worry about what they are going to think. Just be yourself. That way you are comfortable and the guy gets to know the REAL you and sees that you like him. Or, if you don't like that idea you can try being with the guy alone. That way you don't have to worry about what someone else may think. You can just focus on you and him. You could have him over to your house to study or watch tv or something. ANYTHING!! Just be around him lots, that way you will soon become more comfortable. Also, you may want to start hanging out with bunches of guys (friends) so you can eb comfy around guys!! No matter who you are with just be yourself and show your true colors. Everyone loves that. And if all else fails and you can't do any of the above just tell the guy! Tell him that you like him but you are just shy! If he's the right guy he'll understand and be patient with you- and who knows he may be in the same boat as you! :)
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