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I really like this guy I met him the first day of school when him and all his friends came up to me to tell me I was hott and he was just standing there so I talked to him its been 13 days since we met but I feel like its been more then that anywayz Today we were hugging alot and holding hands I was hugging him when someone said AWW u guys are so cute U should go out So i said ok I will then he said NO she doesnt want to SO everyone was like u just missed a big huge chance to ask her out then all of a sudden hes like I have a girlfriend I cant WHy didnt he tell me sooner and what should I do about this?
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Gosh! Well, first off that's completely crummy of him to have led you on like that. Even though you have not known him that long it seems that now you may know him a little better based on this. He obviously is not as great as you thought and it's a great and respectable as you have thought. A guy that really cares about a girl would be honest up front (that's the guy you want, not some dirt bag who lies to you). Even though you may think you like him and think he's hott you should definately back off and stop the holding hands and hugging. That's not fair to you or his GIRLFRIEND. If you drop him this will show him what kind of girl you are and that you don't tolerate crap like that. If you just continue to let him hang on you with no relationship then he's not only in a way cheating, but he's just using you and you are showing him it's okay. Find another guy that's SINGLE!! Go get em!! :)
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payer-r-r-r sorry girl! if his freinds think ur hott then go for them ;)
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hmm..Maybe he didn't want to rush into things with you beccause he didn' kno wat to do about his girlfriend so he just kept quiet, and he mite like you and juist doesn't know how to break up with his girfreidn. Another possibility is that he really doesn't have a girlfriend he just either didn't know how to ask you out and thought it wouuld be akward or he didn't want to make a scene in front of all those ppl cuz he felt pressured. heope i helped :)
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Well think about it, do you really want a guy like that anyway? Hugging and holding hands with another girl if you were his girlfriend? Maybe he does like you though, and if you told him you liked him maybe he'd go with you. Just tell him how you feel and see where it goes from there!! x0x0x0x I hope it all works out.
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he says he has a girlfriend? how old are you? 15 or under, don't worry about girlfriends, that's just companionship... 16-18 you should date around.....not "mess" around if you understand, 18-? you should be more solid in steady relationships, but still be open to others until you find a good one....
as far as what i got from your question.... spare yourself the heartache... and talk to him soon... but don't get mad if he doesn't want to be with you steadily.... you're young you have plenty of time to find the "one"....
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To me he sounds nervous and insecure about the situation. Guys don't like being put on the spot like that and he just freaked for a minute. My advice is talk to him alone, either in person or on the phone and talk about where this relationship is. Obviously if he was hugging you and such, he likes you. He was put on the spot and didn't know how to react. Talk to him one on one and you'll get the real scoop.
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If he was getting that close then he most likely has feelings for you, but if he really does have a girlfriend then he loves her to much to ruin what they have just yet. Back off for a little while, tell him how you feel, and ask if you have any chance. If he asks for a bit of time then give it to him, he won't keep you waiting to long. He most likely didnt tell you about his girlfriend because of feelings he may have for you, guys are just like that, you just need to be a little patient with us lol. Good Luck, hope it all works out for the best :-)
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wow thats messed up..sorry to say but your gonna have to get over him and move on..hes just a player..screw him! hope i helped..rate me =)
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mandah
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There's nothing you can do. He's got a girlfriend. It was wrong of him to lead you on (which he obviously did) and I'm sorry that happened. That's no fun. :( But this is someone you've just met, anyway. Give yourselves a chance to become friends since he has other obligations.
Good luck!
♥ Lorelei
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