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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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what is the easiest way to commit suicide

No one here is going to give you advice on how to kill yourself.

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I suggest you get therapy. Having someone to talk to will help.

At my school, the seniors compete in a costume contest every year. We go on stage and perform a skit based on what our costumes are.

There's about 7-8 of us in the group, 3 of which our guys and the rest are girls.
We were thinking about Power Rangers..going on stage and playing "Go go power rangers!" and having one of us dress up as a monster randomly come up and we'll fight it haha.

I like this idea... but I want a costume that's "cuter".

..So I need IDEAS!!!!!!

..Feedback on the power ranger idea?

The power rangers idea is pretty awesome, but if you want a cuter costume, then I wouldn't suggest it.

Why don't the girls dress up as sexy versions of the Disney princesses, and then have the guys be the prince that go with the princess. :)

You can also try being something out of a cartoon. Maybe try Hey Arnold or something. Look for costume ideas on Google, or go to a Halloween store & ask the employees for suggestions! :)

Have fun, and good luck! I hope you win.

Theres a show i want to go to around the end of November. The problem is that you have to be 16 or older. I'm still 14 but i turn 15 in October. I dont look young (i've had people that thought i was in college) at all so will that benifit me? I need to show an ID? I have my school ID and it doesn't show the year I graduate. could i use that?

Is there any way that the venue will let people vouch for you? There was a venue I used to go to that only let people with ID in (even though they let it slide before...) and I took my cousin with me but I wasn't 18 yet, and he didn't have ID. Anyways, I had to call my mom so she could vouch for him, but as long as the person you go with is 18+ they should let you in because the person is an adult.

I'd call the venue and ask if that was the case, but if not, you can try & use your school ID.

Do any women in New Jersey over the age of 18 have the guts to kick me in the balls?

I bet $500 that no women have the guts to kick me in the nuts without feeling bad about it. The same day that happens is the same day I'll put on panties and dance to a Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Rihanna, Katy Perry, or Pussycat Dolls song. That's how sure I am! You can pick out the song and panties, I don't care!

I'm kinda upset at myself for not being in New Jersey right now.

You come off as an arrogant jerk who's sure of himself. It makes the urge to wanna kick you even larger.

hey, my bf and i have been going out for 9 months now and ive noticed in the last few months he doesnt ask to see me anymore. i dont know what to do about it. ive tried not asking to see him, i waited a month and i gave up cause i missed him too much. ive also talked to him about it in one of my bad moods. and now i refuse to be the one to text him first.how can i make him want to see me more? am i too available to him? im also going to malaysia next month and i wont be able to talk to him for 2 1/2 weeks, do you think that'll make him want to see me more? help me! i dont know what to do
btw im 16f, he is 17m
thanks

There's no such thing as being "too available." My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for the first 7 months of our relationship. I think the longest we went without seeing each other was 2 months, but it was because we hadn't met in person yet. Then after we met, we saw each other almost every month if not every other month until February when I moved out & moved in with him. We'd go nuts if we didn't see each other. It was really hard.

Something might be up with your boyfriend though. He could be dating someone else, or he could just want to break up with you but doesn't know how. I really think you need to ask him about it. Ask him if he's seeing someone else, ask if he wants to break up. You need to call him first though, so I suggest you do that. A lot of things could be going on with him, but you need to give in with the text/call first thing.

for a 19 y/o and a 15 y/o to date?

ive already told them that its wrong (at least in my opinion) for them to "do stuff" with each other

but is it wrong for them to just date, if they dont take it further?

As far as I know, it could be considered a gray area. Meaning there's nothing really on it (that I know of, so don't take this 100%).

However, I don't condone that they should continue their relationship since he is an adult & she is a minor. Your friend should date someone their own age. Same goes for the 19 year old.

If you're wondering what would qualify as statutory rape, this list goes by state & what the offenses are for someone who's caught:

http://www.cga.ct.gov/2003/olrdata/jud/rpt/2003-R-0376.htm

so ive moved around alot so that means ive been to many diffrent schools. so ive decided to get my ged. but im hate the facted that i have one. i was just wondering what everyone else thinks about geds

GEDs are not that bad. They're the equivalent to an actual diploma. They get you the same opportunities (though a person with a high school diploma may get picked first over a job). You can go to college and get your degree and do whatever you want. Once in college, your GED won't really matter anymore.

I'm in school to get mine. I take online classes though so I don't have to leave home to get it. :)

I want to be a social worker when i grow up. I would like to volunteer at an Abuse Child Care center but it has to be in Colorado.

If you can help me, i would be very appreiciative!

http://www.childabuse.org/about%20child%20abuse.html

It has their contact information. Call or e-mail them and ask about volunteering.

Can you be on the BC pill, BC shot, and use a condom all at once?

I know you can be on the pill and condom, but I'm not sure about the shot, pill, and condom.

Also, what do you think the chances of pregnancy are with all three of these birth control methods?

I doubt you can have the pill and the shot at once. You only need the pill & the condom.

With a birth control pill & a condom, the chances are slim, but still there. Probably around a 2% chance.

Whats a really good interior design school in the NW part of washington state?

not good necessarily as expense but good as in the quality of the school.
thank you!

http://www.uscollegesearch.org/washington-interior-design-colleges.html

Not sure which are in the North-Western part of Washington, but obviously you can find that out. :)

If you're still in high school, I suggest asking your counselor this. They'll probably have some ideas in mind about which school is right for you.

Where do we go when we are dead? what happens? do we come back as something or someone else? if we are dead there is no point of living. Think about it for a long moment (it makes me feel wierd.) don't say no one knows... unless NO ONE does know. It doesn't matter what religion you are (im christian) but i don't go to church... i'm like no religion lol.

This really depends on who you ask. If you were to ask someone who was religious, they would tell you that depending on how you lived your life, you would go to heaven or hell.

In my opinion though, you don't go anywhere. You go into the casket, and then into the ground.

It all depends on your personal beliefs & who you ask.

We are ALL obsessed over SOMETHING! Right now it's nikki reed (rosalie from twilight) and twilight or vampires etc. what do i do with my obsession? i lok her up on google and stuff but what do you do with an obsession? its kinda boring.

You're in a phase.

okay my ma has been paralized for almost three years and its cause the hospital messed up on her surgery. she has someone "looking" at her case but i dont think she's been talking to the right people cause its been to long and they cant even tell her if she got a case yet so my question is who can help us with this law suit ???

You need someone who specializes in disabilities. My mother is the same way. She's been pretty much disabled since I was like 7.

However, it does take a long time to get a case settled or sometimes started even. I'm 18 now and my mom is still in court over her disability.

Contact a new lawyer.

I'm not going any where YET. But I am planing on going somewhere.
Anyways I'm just wondering If someone as a lap top can they take them on the planes?

And also what are the stuff you not souppse to take and stuff your allowed to take?

Thank you

http://www.airsafe.com/danger.htm

You can definitely take your laptop on a plane. :)

Tomorrow I'm going to my town's annual carnival. Usually I don't bring a purse, or I leave it in the car, but for personal reasons I'll need to take it with me, & I won't have time to walk to the car every time I need it.

So, any advice on what to do with your purse when you get on a ride? I'd take it on with me, but wouldn't it just fly off the ride or something? Also, I know some ride operators that will hold your things for you, but I'm really untrusting about things like that, & pretty much anyone could just walk up & take it when the operator is distracted. Any advice?

I'm assuming you're probably going with friends? Maybe if you go on a ride & your friends aren't interested in going on that ride, they can hold your purse while you're on the ride.

If you don't wanna do that, just carry the stuff in your pocket.

Okay i've heard of guys having an orgasm too quickly, but my ex told me that i do too but to be honest i don't know if i've ever had an orgasm. I know that i get very wet and it gets embarracing, do all girls get that way? I'm scared to have sex with another guy incase he thinks its pure disgusting or something but i don't know whether thats normal for a girl to get really wet. It's kind of confusing ha but i just hate that my beds pure wet after having sex but my ex was used to it n i'm scared incase my next boyfriend or guy i sleep with isn't lol
thanks for your help ha it's a kind of awkward topic i ha

Girls are supposed to get wet. It's not embarrassing, it's a part of life.

this probably isnt in the right category, but whatever. i'm a HUGE BB fan. (i guess you could call me a fangirl, but i'm not overly obsessed. i just really love the group) and i want to go to a concert of theirs, but i cant find any tour dates. their new album is coming out later this month, so i know they'll be promoting it sometime soon. but i just want to know when. does anyone know if they'll be coming ANYWHERE close to nashville? or if theres a website where i could find out? i've already been to shallowbay and found out absolutely nothing.

When their CD comes out, they'll post the dates.

Why don't you try ticketmaster in the mean time & see if they have anything near you?

okay. so i'm a junior, i've been out for two years now. my school's very gay-friendly.
a freshman girl caught my eye. i really suspect she's bicurious but to the best of my knowledge she hasn't 'done anything' before. i have a class with her and we flirt pretty mercilessly. i intend to ask her to a movie or something with friends.
speaking of friends, in my information-gathering a few people told me she acts like a whore. this doesn't bother me much but is perhaps something to take into account.
so is it ethical for me to date someone two years younger?
and do you have any other advice?

I don't see why you can't date someone younger than you. My boyfriend is 7 years older than I am.

I think that if she acts like a whore though, you may need really take that into consideration because you don't wanna date a girl who's constantly acting like a flooze when she's committed to you.

For my AP government history class we have to write a short answer for this question: Compare two countries, unequal in size and population, with popular perceptions of power. (ex. Japan & Russia).

I dont want to know the answer to this, I just want to know what it means by popular perceptions of power. I have nooo clue, and this is due tomorrow :/

HELP ME PLEASEEE!!!!
THANK YOUUU!

You could try Germany and Italy. Both were popular during WWII times because of the power they had with Mussolini and Hitler.

ok so there is this song and I have no idea wht the name of it is. the lyrics are something like...."I'm going back to Indiana now, to see my baby in her evening gown..." thanks

http://www.allguitartabs.com/t/1362134/the-elms--back-to-indiana--lyrics

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLqMFvn4-pQ

I think I found it this time.

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