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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

is limewire illegal?

Yeah, it's illegal.

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is it bad to charge your battery every day??

thanks

Nope. I charge my phone everynight.

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just died. She was 23. Should I go to the funeral, or will it be too depressing?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I think you should go. I mean, think of how you would feel if you died, and she didn't show. And, it's good to pay your respects & say goodbye, seeing as how it's your last chance before she is buried. Just go, you'll feel better knowing you did, even though it's depressing.

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well all my friends think i hooked up with a kid. i really didnt. when i finally do [ which will probally be soon ] i dont want him to think im a bad kisser or that i never kissed anyone before. what do i do . how do i act? i dont want to look stupid i want to be a good kisser .. any advise?

Kissing isn't something you should worry about. It all comes naturally, really. And he won't think you're a bad kisser. If he knows how to kiss, he'll lead you. If you wanna tell him that you've never kissed before, I'm sure he'll understand & as I am saying, he'll tell you that's it nothing to worry about. Just go with the flow.

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ok i dono bout other people but i really think that it was the most dumbest thing to go to war i mean i am a christian and we learn tolerance and well going to war wow and now the hamas is in power for the palestines i dono its just that now are troops are stuck there and also in africa people are getting killed every single day i mean the whole reason we are in iraq is to help those people rite so why aren't we in africa rite now well i just think we are in iraq for oil i dono can i get your guyses opinions on it please

Wow, someone who finally shares my belief. Although, I don't follow a religion [I'm athiest], I strongly believe that we're in Iraq for oil & oil only. We've helped them enough, we need to get our troops back home. And we're not in African because Bush doesn't care about black people. In Farenheit 911 [which is an excellent movie, btw] it shows Bush's flaws as president. He cheated to become pres. His neice works in Florida [and everyone knows Florida isn't too good with the votes] and I guess he had his neice change the votes to him. It shows all of it in the movie. And for black politicians, when they needed a document signed by a legislature, the legislature was never there. We also, still have troops in Vietnam, which should be taken out. I mean, vietnam was like 50 years ago, right? War without a SUPER GOOD CAUSE is unreasonable, unnecessary, and unruly. I think we need to get out of Iraq, and that guy running Palestine or whatever the hell that country is called is a retard. I believe he needs to be out of office as well. Please someone, impeach Bush.

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Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 months now and I really like him...but the other day we had a really big argument and he broke up with me and we spent 2 hours on the phone and by the end of that we were back together. The day after that he tells me he'll be home early to talk to me and he his but he says he has to run to the store and get something so I wait for him to call back. When he finally calls back he's with his friend (who i hate and is the biggest jerk I've met) and I kinda get upset because I haven't had a good day and I just want to talk to him and his friend starts insulting me and my boyfriend starts laughing at me and then he gives the phone to his friend. They start drinking and they're insulting me to the point I'm crying. I really love my boyfriend and when he's not around his friend he's the nicest guy I know but I dont know what I should do about it.

Please answer! I'll rate you high!

Don't take this offensively in any sort of way - but, your boyfriend's an asshole. First off, what guy who claims to love his girlfriend, insults her, acts completely different around his friends, and makes her cry? I say drop this guy because you can tell a lot about a person by who they hang out with & what they do when they're hanging out. The quicker you let him go, the faster you find a NICE guy who actually really does love you. :) One day, you'll find someone who treats you right.

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iam 15, and i weigh only 100 lbs. im 5'4". so im inproprotioned. but im a lil puggy. i used to work out everyday. then i got into a wreck and couldnt,because of my medical stability. i want to work out again. but with physical therapy and school and cheerleading and everything, i dont have much time. what can i do to tone up a lot, with out taking too much time. ill rate high

I think you're just fine as you are. My boyfriend is 98 lbs and 5'4", so really, you're like nothing. You have a good figure, and the little pudgyness will go away on it's own. Just take a walk everyday & drink water.

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me & my boyfriend really like each other a lot. we've been dating for a while now. we've madeout, but we've discussed it & that's as far as we're going to go. usually we'd do that at my house or his. [not the whole time, just occasionally] of course my parents were be home during this, but we never got walked in or anything..until yesterday. my mom didn't get mad. she was just disappointed because she doesn't want me doing that. she says i'm too young [i'm 14 & i'll be 15 in july] & that it can lead to other things. [which we've discussed time & time again & it hasn't & it's not going to] my boyfriend is 15 & will be 16 in may. my mom says when i'm his age, she won't see it as a big deal..but she says i need to wait. to make it even worse, she told my dad, who of course actually was upset over the whole thing. so my boyfriend & i discussed it all & decided we won't makeout anymore because we can live without it. but now i'm worried i won't be able to hang out with him as much because my parents will be all weird about it. even my mom said she can't trust me anymore so she seems to think we'll sneak & just makeout at his house. i don't know what to do. i really don't feel like i was doing anything wrong. i haven't done anything else & i don't want to. should i just stick with the plan i have now & wait until i'm older or is there another way around all of this? if you can help, thanks a bunch.

Talk to your mother about it. Tell her you know that it can lead to lots of other stuff, however you've talked to your boyfriend & you're not going to do that because neither of you is ready, and that he wouldn't make you do something you didn't wanna do. My parents were weird about that too when I got caught, but they got over it because I told him that I knew better about having sex and that if I did have sex, I'd definitely use protection such as condoms and that I would be willing to get put on birth control. Just tell your mom you're sorry, and that you take full responsibility. Besides, she probably did things like that at your age. Just talk it out with her, and maybe she'll try to understand where you're coming from.

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Edit -
Hey, no problem. I don't know.
Mother's can be kinda weird sometimes.
Haha - just like mine.

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OKay if you're homo-phobic just dont read this
Im bi
&& i have a crush on my best friend whos also bi
(we're both girls)
im pretty sure she likes me cause we flirt all the time.
but i dont know how to tell her. i mean its pretty weird because we're both girls
and yess. we have made out before if anyone wants to know
can anybody help me?!

Just tell her. Chances are she feels the same, but she's too shy to tell you too. You never know the outcome, so just tell her. What's the worst that can happen? I bet she likes you back. Good luck!

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im trying to get a layout or background for my site but i dont know where to go. Where do i go?

This site is perfect. It has layouts for a lot of sites.

- www.createblog.com

Or, you can try on xanga, just click blogrings, and type in the site you want the layout for.

And as always, google is your friend. Try there too.

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I know that 13-year-olds shouldn't be wearing a lot of makeup. Is colored lip gloss ok? (mine is dark purple)

Yeah, colored lipgloss is okay. And if you're going to wear other makeup like eyeliner & mascara - make sure you make it natural.

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Hey i have a blog on Blogspot.com and i wanted to know if n e one knew where to get a free background of layout that actually works!

Thanx

Xanga is your friend.
- http://search.xanga.com/searchgroups.aspx?q=Blog%20Spot%20Layouts

As is Google.
- http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&ie=UTF-8&safe=off&q=BlogSpot+Layouts&spell=1

I didn't necessarily give you just a site, it's a list of sites on Google & a list of Blogrings on Xanga so you have some choices & options.

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PLease help me fast. Today is my mommy's brithday and we don't know where to take her for dinner please could someone give me suggestion
I rate 5's
Love me

Well first off, Happy Birthday to your mommy. Well, you could always cook for her. Make her her favorite meal. Or, I would reccomend these places.

- Olive Garden.
- Applebee's.
- Chili's Bar & Grill.
- Red Lobster.
- Perkin's.
- Ruby Tuesday.
- Friday's.
- Outback Steakhouse.

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I have a terrible friend who thinks shes cool and hates me and my friends. She always hangs out with us and then talks about us behind our backs to US! I got into a fight with her(because Im the only one who will stand up for myself) and I hate having people hate me so i appologized and she just forgave me like that! (She said "I forgive you, HUG!") It bothers me and now were back to her using me and my friends and she thinks shes popular. What should I do?

3 Words - DITCH THAT BITCH.
She's just using you to hang out & stuff.
She's clearly NOT your friend if she's talking about you behind your back to you and others. What kinda friend does that? Ditch her because you clearly have other friends who are cool. And btw, she's not popular - she's two faced.

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It really sucks how much my parents love my sister more. They buy her everything, they do everything for her and give her credit for...everything. If we both get 4.0's, my parents will look at me and say...you should work harder, but they can look at my sister and say "Good Job!" My sister has so many clothes that she doesn't never even worn half of what she owns, while I sometimes have to wear the same shirt or pants twice/three times a week. Today, my mom, dad, and sister said they were "Just going out" and would be home soon....3 hourd later I call and where are they? They're at the mall, buying clothes for her and getting her new furniture in her room while I'm doing nothing and being bored. I've tried talking to them about it, but they always say the same thing---we love you guys the same, we treat you guys the same, etc....but how come she gets everything while I'm always left behind?

She's 13 and I'm 14.

What to do?

Well, the same thing happened when I was born for my older brother. They started to give me more attention, but as we got older, it evened out. Now, I don't really see why it didn't even out for you, although our parents are different in many ways. I guess you should just talk to your sister, and then talk to them with her present, and if they asked her opinion, then she says what you say, and they'll listen. I'm sorry you're not getting enough attention like you should be. The older ones are always getting left out.

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so my boyfriend told me that he has fingered a girl before. he is 2 years older than me. I don't wanna sound retareded in front of him, so i don't wanna ask him, and that's why i am asking here, what does it mean to finger someone? i will rate 5's for good answers

As always, google is your friend.
- http://www.sex-project.com/fingering.shtml

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are there any free websites were you can like put what you dreamed about and then it'll tell you what it means?

Yeah, here's the link.
- http://www.petrix.com/dreams/

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ok i am going out with this boy we have been going out for about a year. and we have been talking about sex latly and i was just wondering do you think 15 is to young to have sex? and is it a good idea?

i really want to...

Sex is your choice, completely & no one elses. It's not too young, but it's not too old either. I guess you can have sex at any age, as long as you know that you're ready, this is the one, & if you know all the consequences to it. Remember to use protection, and talk about it seriously, and make sure you know all the consequences.

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How do you make a guy love you? Like what do you do? Help please i like this guy a lot. I need help. THANKS!

This main sound harsh - but it's completely true. You can't make anyone love you. Feelings like that progress over time & aren't forced. There's not really a way to do anything, but what you can do is tell him that you like him & get to know him. If he likes you back, go for it. And eventually - love will occur.

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yeah but whenever i flirt with guys in front of him he gets mad cuz he cant stand to see me with another guy! but then he dont talk to me or anything cuz he dont want me to move on but then again he's moved on!! and im not ready to go out with another guy!

I see. Well, then there's nothing you can really do. Just wait it out, eventually, he'll see she's not as good & he'll come back to you. I know it hurts, but things'll change.

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