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kissing...
me & my boyfriend really like each other a lot. we've been dating for a while now. we've madeout, but we've discussed it & that's as far as we're going to go. usually we'd do that at my house or his. [not the whole time, just occasionally] of course my parents were be home during this, but we never got walked in or anything..until yesterday. my mom didn't get mad. she was just disappointed because she doesn't want me doing that. she says i'm too young [i'm 14 & i'll be 15 in july] & that it can lead to other things. [which we've discussed time & time again & it hasn't & it's not going to] my boyfriend is 15 & will be 16 in may. my mom says when i'm his age, she won't see it as a big deal..but she says i need to wait. to make it even worse, she told my dad, who of course actually was upset over the whole thing. so my boyfriend & i discussed it all & decided we won't makeout anymore because we can live without it. but now i'm worried i won't be able to hang out with him as much because my parents will be all weird about it. even my mom said she can't trust me anymore so she seems to think we'll sneak & just makeout at his house. i don't know what to do. i really don't feel like i was doing anything wrong. i haven't done anything else & i don't want to. should i just stick with the plan i have now & wait until i'm older or is there another way around all of this? if you can help, thanks a bunch.
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well theres a ggood way and a bad way haha.
the good way is you can..
talk to your mom about it and promise her you wont go any more further than making out.
the bad way is..
u can say ur going to a friends and just go to his house haha
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There is nothing wrong with making out and maybe you need to tell your mom that. If she's so fine with you having a boyfriend a year older than you or whatever, she should be comfortable with you making out.
If your not comfortable talking to her about it then invite your mom to like watch a movie at your house with you and your boyfriend or something so she can see that's not how you are.
Hope I helped. Allie boo<3
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Talk to your mother about it. Tell her you know that it can lead to lots of other stuff, however you've talked to your boyfriend & you're not going to do that because neither of you is ready, and that he wouldn't make you do something you didn't wanna do. My parents were weird about that too when I got caught, but they got over it because I told him that I knew better about having sex and that if I did have sex, I'd definitely use protection such as condoms and that I would be willing to get put on birth control. Just tell your mom you're sorry, and that you take full responsibility. Besides, she probably did things like that at your age. Just talk it out with her, and maybe she'll try to understand where you're coming from.
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Edit -
Hey, no problem. I don't know.
Mother's can be kinda weird sometimes.
Haha - just like mine.
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