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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

-Volleyball2150



BODY EXERCISES AND WORKOUTS! my way or the highway

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hi,14/mif it helps. well yesterday my friend accidently told me that she liked this guy that she used to go out with. the thing is, he treated her really bad, as in cheating, and makin her cry. and after that i never really liked him much, until a lesson we were made to work together. and we were kind of talking and then a couple days later(yesterday) she tells me that she likes him again. the thing is, im just so frustrated about the fact that she still likes him after how he treated her. Im really angry at her, even though i know she cant help her feeling. what do i do?

tell her all of the things that he did to her. Make her remember all of those things he's done to her and made her misirable. Just make her remember and she'll forget about him.

I hope I helped!
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I cried alot today with my contacts in. Now they are fuzzy. I can still see, but it's a little fuzzy. Should I change them? And why did it do this?

hey,
I wear contacts too. And whenever you cry and then your eyes get dry... that means your contacts are dried out. put some solution in your eyes so the contacts are moisterized. If you dont, they'll stick to your eye and are very hard to get out. You dont need to change them, just make sure they are moisterized.

I hope I helped!
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i need good science project ideas. i want kind of girlish ones though. i need a list to choose from. [ex. which shampoo ingredients make your hair stronger] i can't have any brands like kleenex vs. puffs. it has to do with some specific ingredient in the product. [ex. does a face towel with mousterizer clean more than a regular face towel.] i really hope you can help. i'll give you some topics i would like to do it on.

make-up
body concept
color [affecting anything]
nail polish
cell phones
picture taking
fabrics and textures
music


just anything kindof like that. THANK YOU SO MUCH!! hearts =]

Make-up- see what types of make-up are actually good for your skin and doesnt make you break out.

Nail Polish- which types of nail polish stay on for a long time vs. rubs off very easily

fabrics and textures- which fabric/texture rips easily

picture taking- what kinds of cameras have the best quality of picture taking.

That's all I can think of.

I hope I helped!
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hey, ive been having a really hard time finding shoes like this in my size:
http://www.limitedtoo.com/detail/5335137/11/1
my feet are so small id need like a 4 in those, i tried them on at the store. so anyway, anyone know any good sites where i could find some flats like those in around a size 5? thanks so much

http://cgi.ebay.com/Chanel-Sparkle-Denim-Ballet-Flats-Shoes-NIB-36-5_W0QQitemZ190026209150QQihZ009QQcategoryZ63889QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

i found a pair on ebay but i'm not sure of the size... check that site out and see what the size is. I already checked walmart, target, jc penny, sears, kohls, amazon, and payless.
sorry if I wasnt much help.

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i cant find the lyrics to the song GYRATE by DA MUZICIANZ. i have heard the song many times i have it on my ipod too. it was on so you think you can dance

BA DA BING......
http://www.lyricsandsongs.com/song/762205.html
BA DA BOOM......

I hope I helped!
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Would anyone know where I would be able to find screencaps of the movie "Hard Candy"?

And by screencaps, I do not mean a google image search for "hard candy".

Thank you.

I think this is it...
http://www.veoh.com/videoDetails.html;jsessionid=4FD06C25A4AABB83B518FEF7C78283E9?v=e872088cCtkPRQ
go on there and then where it says 'download video' theres a link that says 'show video info' click that and then click 'show screencaps'

I hope I helped!
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ok lately i've begun doing crunches every night to try and tone my stomach a bit. andf tonight, whenever i finished doing them, i looked at my stomach, there's a bunch of little red dots all over it. i don't know if it's because i'm possibly doing too many or what, but do you know what's going on? should i stop doing crunches for awhile?

That happens to me all the time! Whenever I do crunchs, my abs get really sweaty and then they have little red bumps on them. I think they are just really small pimples because your ab sweats and sweating causes pimples...

I hope I helped!
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well i never really danced before, i can slow dance and latin dance but not anything else. so im worried about homecoming because i dont know how to dance and if my friends want me to dance with them or a guy ask me what should i do?

well fist off, dont reject a dance by your friends or a guy you like.. then they'll definitally get the picture that you don't know how to dance and also they'll think you dont like them. To dance is really easy... its just moving your body in certain ways like moving your head and shoulders along with your hips and legs. I really dont know how to explain it... but its really easy. Once you get to your homecoming... watch other people how they dance and just follow what they're doing.

I hope I helped!
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I want to know how to ask a boy out he like me but he is shy.and i would like to know how to get the boy to like me.please help me i really need advice i do.

Well first off- be yourself! Dont ask him out right away! first become friends with him. Talk to him about a simple thing and become friends. Then slowly get your friendship level to the next step and ask him out. To ask him out just say something like "Do you want to hang-out sometime?" or "Hey! theres this really cool movie coming out this friday and nobody will go with me... do you want to see it?" dont forget to just be yourself and first make friends with him

I hope I helped!
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Hi im 14 and i like this kid he keeps on looking at me but i dont know what to do I need avice Sighned i don no what to do

well, whenever he looks at you, do something to make him notice you even more. such as fix your hair, or kinda smile at him, or look around like you're really shy and dont want to look at him. those things are signs that you like this person, and if he sees this... he'll get the picture that you like him. Once he notices you, go up to him and talk to him like a normal conversation. First get to be friends with him, then start to take the friendship on the next level and ask him out.

I hope I helped!
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I'm a 13 yr old girl and really like this 13 yr old guy and he flirts with me a little bit, but everyone says that he likes my bestfriend. Obviously he denies it. He knows i like him and i don't know weather to like him or not to because he might ask out my best friend?!!!
always as sweet as sugar,
candygrlxoxo87

If he's flirting with you and not your best friend... obviously he doesn't like your best friend. Would you rather listen to what HE says or what EVERYBODY ELSE says??? If he's not flirting with your best friend, i say go for it!!

I hope I helped!
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Well, Last night I had a dream I saw a shooting star and wished on it. And i don't remember what i wished. Does my dream mean anything?

http://dreammoods.com/cgibin/searchcsv.pl?search=shooting+star&method=exact&header=symbol

Shooting- Destroying aspects of self. There is a deep wound within yourself.

Star- Celestial object. Self-luminous. Spiritual awakening.

I hope I helped!
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my friends always make plans to go places like the mall the arcade the movies etc. and they never invite me. i dont think they do it on purpose but when they are planning whos going to go they never ask me if i want to go and they know i never have anything to do. i hate it and when i ask them if they want to go with me they never want to go. i hate not being included it really bugs me and stuff.. for example today my 3 bestfriends are all having a girls day out today of course no one asked me if i wanted to go and i tried hinting that i was bored and wished i had something to do and they dont get it. i dont want to be left out anymore i always talk to them and say ya know what how come im never invited and they say oh sorry we will include you from now on and the next time they go somewhere they invite me but then they forget again. i tried just hanging out with other friends instead but the same things happen with them. its like im not loved by my frineds.... they will talk to me in school but they have their other friends. i only have 1 friend that i hang out with alot but shes so annoying and i avoid her sometimes and im wondering if my other friends think im annoying and thats why they ignore me. i hate this soooo much noone wants to hang out with me. im not shy or anything i dont understand why my friends would rather hang out with their other friends. :(

This same thing happens to me, what I do is just be realllly friendly to them and be nice to them. If they say "oh lets go shopping tonight" you should speak up and say "yeah! that's a great idea! what time are we going?" then they should get a clue that you want to come with. If they STILL dont invite you... invite yourself. If you overhear them talking and say something like "ok so we're going to the movies tonight to see ___ at _:__" but they say it really queitly so you dont hear... just go there by yourself and 'coincedentaly' see them and just hang out with them. if they STILL dont invite you or include you, you should seek new friends. just forget about those girls and find new friends that actually include you!

I hope I helped!
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Hi, I was wondering what quick and cheap (no buying porducts or videos) way to lose fat in the abdomen, thighs, and calves [sp?] School starts on the 5th and I know that I won't see much results by then but I want to lose as much weight. I'v already lost about 4.5lbs in a month so I know that I can do it. Also what are great exercises (other than crunches) for toning your abs? I would also like to strengthen my arms. I have like no arm strenght...at all. =) I won't give you guys 1's for not answering all the questions. I'm just hoping that all my questions will be answered by 1 or more people =] Thanks

hey, i play volleyball so I know a TON of excersising things. ok so for your stomach, sure you can do crunches.. but what also works is something called 'THE BOAT' and thats when you lay on your back and bring your legs, arms, head and back up, so the only thing touching the floor is your tail bone/ butt bone. get it?? leave it like that for about 1 minute and repeat as many times neccesary. for thighs- wall sits... its like you're sitting on an invisible chair with your back against the wall. your legs and thighs must be 90 degrees. for calves- i dont know but heres a link that shows
http://www.leehayward.com/calfs.htm
and last but not least for your arms- lift weights and do push-ups. Do all of the excersises and you should be able to lose a few pounds!

I hope I helped!
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Okay I put this in the category "Relationships -> Friendship" because I didnt know what else it would be classified as.

But lets get one thing straight,
the girl I'm going to talk about I am not friends with her.

Okay, well I was adopted and so was this girl, from the same place. And when we were in elementary school we tried to be friends, it didnt really work, she like lives for PITY, (because she was adopted).. and after we figured out it couoldnt work (well I figured it out)
we just stopped talking.


But now speed forward, to highschool.
She is bugging the crap out of me, my freshman year (last year) i felt bad for her, so yet again I befriended her, and she made it worse, she became freakishly clingy, and caused a LOT of drama. And i said I've had it and I'm not going ot be your friend. Not now anymore, or ever. And you cant convince me too.
I've talked ot school counsulars, but they dont know half of our past so they cant help.


Just know that, we always argued when we were friends, and it was unhealthy and I cant take the drama from her.


But I'm going into my sophmore year,
and she has been obsessing over me it seems. Like reading my comments on xanga ( i have a tracker, and shes not blocked so its not like she cant comment) so yeah. And its annoying, and she thinks we have some tie together since we're "both adopted" but therea re other pepole adopted at our school, from teh same place, but does she bug them? NO? so whats so special about me? She thinks of her adoption of being "abandonded" and thats why she acts eepressed and wants pity all the time.

But I mean she can get help, btu cant she leave me alone? I've even gone to see conuslars about her, but they all told me how i can treat her, and what to say so she will leave me alone. But my questions are:


WHY DOES SHE KEEP BUGGING ME?
WHAT IS HER PROBLEM?


And also she has a hard time letting go of things, like our past.

And I've had it, with her, I'm liable to i dont know what, But I've had it. please help.

Did you ever think that maybe, just MAYBE she really finds you like a good friend? and that she's too shy to find another friend that was adopted? I think she's clingy to you because your the only adopted person that she actually KNOWS. Sure.... there are other adopted people from the same place, but she doesnt even know those people. She hasnt met them yet. She didnt have a past with those people. She's always around you because she had a past with you, she has 1 thing in commen with you. And that thing is that both of you were almost friends. Try to get her friends with the other adopted people. Bring her to them and introduce her to them, you can tell her that she's really bugging you and you can try to hang out with other adopted people.

I hope I helped!!!
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i got my eyebrows waxed today and there is red part on one of them, maybe because it was pulled too hard but its not like bleeding on the outside or anything its just red underneath and im afraid it will turn in to a scab because it happend before is there anything i can do to calm it down or make it less red to not form a scab

http://www.mederma.com/
use mederma! it stops scars from happening and if you ever have a scar, it clears it away!

I hope I helped!
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i like this girl but she one of my best friends and she only want to be my friend and nothing else what shall i do

just like the other person said, stop having feelings for this girl. If you said you really really liked her and started dating her... your friendship might be ruined. like totally runied! like down the drain ruined! Just hold your feelings back towards yourself and dont tell her

I hope I helped!
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how do u you tell your dad you hate him? cause i truely do. i hate him so much and i hope he dies

If you TRUELY hate him, just scream at him... but I honestly have no idea how you could ever hate your dad! Think of what your dad has done for you! He CREATED you!! Think of what your dad has, that no other dad has. You're actually lucky to have a dad!!! Most people don't even have a family! So I say don't hate your dad. Hate is a very strong word. If you ABSOULOUTLY hate him, Just tell him that you really dont like him and scream at him.

I hope I helped!
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can somebody show me a good picture of a face frame haircut?
thanks

http://www.hairdirect.com/resources/faceshape-guide.aspx

http://www.kimlake.com/mkrz/hair09.html

is this what you're looking for?

I hope I helped!
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Has anyone tried the dangerously straight shampoo and conditioner by herbal essences? Do they actually make your hair straigh? or is it for people who have straight hair? my hair is kinda wavy and im looking for a product that will make my hair straight. i already have a flat iron. and i use that alot..so i was looking to find another way to straighen my hair. so if any of you have any ideas..let me know! thanks!

I've never heard of herbal essences... but what I use to make my hair straight is Fructis Sleek and shine
http://www.epinions.com/content_178387193476

I hope I helped!
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