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Friends vs. love
I'm a 13 yr old girl and really like this 13 yr old guy and he flirts with me a little bit, but everyone says that he likes my bestfriend. Obviously he denies it. He knows i like him and i don't know weather to like him or not to because he might ask out my best friend?!!!
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candygrlxoxo87
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Everyone says alot of stuff, but it doesn't necessairily mean it's true. So, if he's flirting with YOU and not your best friend, I'd say he likes you, not her. And also, you didn't mention if your best friend likes him or not, but if she doesn't, would it matter if you asked him out then? Cause she wouldn't be hurt or anything if you decided to. I would talk to him about it, and try and ask him out. Just be like,"___, I really like you and I don't know how you feel about me exactly because I don't know if you really like my best friend or not, but I'm just wondering if you would go out with me cause it'll keep bugging me if I don't ask and find out." And if he says, yes, great! If he says no, then just remain good friends. Better friends then nothing, right? I hope I helped. <3
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Ask him once more if he plans to ask your best friend,that you would appreciate his honesty because you don't want to have feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way you do,if he saids he's not then go for him, take the chance to be with him,and be happy.
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Don't believe what everyone else says because alot of times they lie. If the boy says he doesn't like your friend then believe him. If he liked her he would have said so. People lie a lot and maybe they want to make you jealous, I'm not sure but believe the guy you like.
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Well, first off, you are the one he's flirting with. Second, he says he doesn't like her.
From my experience, don't listen to what the crowd says, because the crowd doesn't always know the truth.
I say, just flat out ask him if he likes you. Just say, "Hey man, I notice you flirt with me and was wondering what that means? Do you like me?" If he says he does then go for it.
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Candygrlxoxo87, the only way to find out what he will do for sure is to talk to him. Ask him if he likes you in that way? He's probably flirting, but there's the slight possibility that he may like you. Go for it and stop questioning and speculating. It's easier said than done but you really should go and do it. If not, I don't want to sound mean, but you probably should stop fretting about it all. I'm pretty sure, you got other things to worry about. And don't get involved with guys who like your BEST FRIEND AND LIE ABOUT IT.
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If he's flirting with you and not your best friend... obviously he doesn't like your best friend. Would you rather listen to what HE says or what EVERYBODY ELSE says??? If he's not flirting with your best friend, i say go for it!!
I hope I helped!
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