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she likes that loser..again
hi,14/mif it helps. well yesterday my friend accidently told me that she liked this guy that she used to go out with. the thing is, he treated her really bad, as in cheating, and makin her cry. and after that i never really liked him much, until a lesson we were made to work together. and we were kind of talking and then a couple days later(yesterday) she tells me that she likes him again. the thing is, im just so frustrated about the fact that she still likes him after how he treated her. Im really angry at her, even though i know she cant help her feeling. what do i do?
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You should definatly talk to your freind and remind her that this guy is no good and shes better then him. Maybe take her out with some of your friends and maybe switch her interest to someone better.
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omg. thats so me and my best friend. her boyfriend like. hit her and he treats her like crap.. and at first.. i was like everyone else.. and i like. yelled at her and i was like. whhhatttss wroonngg with yooouu? you could od so much better.. blah blah.. but... then i realized that shes not changing her mind about him.. and what she needs is someone to pick up the pieces when he breaks her heart instead of yelling. so if i were you.. i would let her know you dont support it... but u do support her.. and be there for her.. and be a shoulder to cry on..
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her feelings arent about you, so you shouldnt and dont have reason to be mad at her and you know that. You need to talk to her and ask her why she likes him again, and tell her to rethink everything about him. she shouldnt make a move on him so you should tell her that. if he ever becomes interested in her and says anything about it to you tell him to straighten out his attitude before he does anything to her cuz shes not going to put up with any crap from him.
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hey there (=
welp, i'm 14/f and i have a friend doing the EXACT same thing. she is going out with this kid who already has a bad rep. the first time he cheated on her, same with the second time. after the second time he told her to cut herself to death and die. BUT she STILL went back out wtih him! third time he cheated on her twice and she finally realized he was a dick and broke up with him. hmm i think you should just let her do what she wants and have her learn herself that he is an asshole. then you can be the shoulder to cry on. telling her might just make her mad.
hope i helped (=
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tell her all of the things that he did to her. Make her remember all of those things he's done to her and made her misirable. Just make her remember and she'll forget about him.
I hope I helped!
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