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I've already asked a similar question to this one before, and recieved an answer. Just incase you haven't seen my previous question, here's my problem:There's this boy at my school who's always flirting with me and touching me affectionately. The problem is he has a girlfriend, yet he keeps flirting with me as if he doesn't. I really don't have time to be getting into any fights this year, so i try to show him that i'm not interested through body language. I know I should just tell him straight up that i don't want him, but i still kinda do. I just don't want to show him my feelings so he'll leave me alone and I won't have to deal with his girlfriend.(even though i would kick her ass!) Like i said before in my previous question, it's getting REALLY hard not to let him know that I like him, so PLEASE HELP!!!
*Angel*
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Talk to him about him touching you. Tell him you don't want to be touched when you have a girlfriend because you have been dealing with his girlfriend so just tell him to leave you alone till him and his girlfriend are over.
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I think I'm going through a mid-life crisis. [That is, if I only expect to live `till thirty.] I'm a 15 year old female and it feels like I haven't completly found my place of belonging. I know I'm not the only one who's experiencing these emotions, but I'd rather rid myself of these feelings as soon as I can. I've acknowledged the problem as pushing the ones I wish to get close to away and I'm not sure why I do this. I've led a pretty sheltered life, so it doesn't lead to my past. I think it's because people tend to move on and I fear being replaced. I open up more so than others, but I just shy away from what I need most. How can I allow myself to accept the love of my surrondings? (link)
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Just look at other people and see how lucky you are. Other people don't have it as good as us so we should be happy. Like look online at pictures of people who don't have homes and food. You want to push away your friends but you really need them but just try to be alone and find time to just sit back and relax. Even take a nice hot bath and pamper yourself you you feel great. Its a good way to get rid of stress.
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I'm 14 and I have a problem when talking to boys. Whenever I see guys checking me out, I get really nervous and run away and hide until he goes away.
But if I ever do get the chance to talk to a boy, my mind goes blank, and I can't think of anything to talk about except my cat. I'm always a weird, annoying dullard around guys, even though I'm not like that at all around other people.
How can I get over this and behave normally around guys, like other girls? (link)
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Okay I had that problem before. This is the easiest to do, when you talk to a guy just pretend its your best friend and avoid the subject about your cat. Bring up a different subject and they will keep the conversation going. To get confidence just wear some make up and a little lip gloss and some nice yet normal smelling perfume. Trust me that gives you confindence in what you do. It will be hard at first but then once you do it for awhile it would be so easy.
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How can I keep my boyfriend attracted to me? Like wanting to hang out with me, basically NOT wanting to break up with me? I know be myself, but I always fear he wants to break up. I don't know why, it seems we're spending less time together. Help? (link)
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Okay talk to him alot, call him, communication is something. Okay go out together and find out if he wants to go somewhere new instead of going somewhere where you guys always go. Bowling,sports games, time at his house together watching movies. If he likes rollercoasters or waterslide type things maybe take him there but they are expensive at times.
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hey you said your brother and his girlfriend have nicknames. what are they? lol just wondering for refrence so i can pick one for my bf. thanks! (link)
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Oh well they had neicie beicie, honeybunches of oats. They were basically made up by themselves but had the best relationship. They might sound kinda dumb to but they work real nice.
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heyy..i just wanted to know about this concert i went to in 2003 or 2004...at the Air Canada Centre...and it was an Indian show...with Hritik Roshan, Preity Zinta, Shaan and some other people...and they were promtoing the movie "koi mil agay" ...does anyone know the NAME of the show?
(i think it was the one before the "temptations 2004" tour)
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I don't know but try looking it up in google.
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well i have been going out with this guy for eleven months and our relationship has been pretty good but only problem is i feel like i have gotten bored of him. i feel trapped cause he hates me partying hanging out with my guy friends etc. i feel like i cant have fun anymore and ive felt like that the past eleven months that we have been going out. and theres this other guy that ive liked for a reeeeeally long time.. longer than ive liked my current boyfriend. the guy ive liked for a long time is my type of guy. i have so much fun with him and i like him so much. i love the way he treats me its hard to resist him. but i jsut cant break up with my boyfriend. he would kill himself because he loves me so much. he is so serious about me.. he is erious about marraige with me in the future. he is already out of high school but problem is im still in hs. he is going to the army in a month and he told me not to break up with him cause he plans on marrying me when he comes back. he gave me so many expensive presents for xmas and if i broke up with him how big of a butt would i be?? i dont want to break his heart bcause he doesnt deserve it but i also dont think he deserves me. idk what to do cause i know id be happier without him but i sometimes have to ask yself if i really would be happy without him. idk what i should do.. what should i do? (link)
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This guy seems like he really likes you. Your love for him is dying though because you see another guy who seems more interesting. About marriage I say wait and go out with him a little longer because that seems pretty short to know everything to know about him. Talk to him about the trapping you in thing because thats not right, you have your own life too and he can't control you. You are not married to him now so he can't control you so basically talk to him about this and everything will be settled.
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okay i was dating this girl sammie, then she kissed another guy i flppped and we broke up, she said that that kiss didnt mean anything... then for a month she bothered me and said she wanted me back, now i finally relieze i still really like her, and shee doesnt want me back... wat do i do to get her back, or is it even worth it?
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Okay ask her is she still has feelings for you and if she does then talk to her why she kissed another guy if she comes up with some dumb kind of reason I say don't chase after her. Trust me there could be lots better girls out there too. And maybe you don't still like her. You just missed what you had with her and not what she did. Just think about that and you'll either get over her or talk to her.
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(my chest)
im super flat,its not even funny. how do you get bigger boobs, without getting plastic surgery and such. is there anything natural you can do?
and please don't say i should just accept myself, and live with it. (link)
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If your skinny that could be the problem. Hmm....working out. But everyone is different and is not considered ugly or anything for guys or girls. Sorry thats all I can think of.
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How do you look more feminine?
I'm not talking about clothes or anything related.
I'm talking about the face. Any makeup tips or hair styles (heart or oval shaped). Eyebrow shapes? PICTURES PLEASE.
Every time I look in the mirror.. I don't feel or look like a woman.. even though I have C cup boobs and whatnot.
It's just my face that's bothering me. I was never mistaken for a boy .. I don't know what's wrong with me. (link)
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Well you can put make up on like blush, eyeliner, ect. Just don't put so much on. New hairstyles like up in a ponytail, braids and back in a clip or curl it if you hair is straight if its curly straiten it. If you don't like it don't keep it. Your friends and your mom might have some ideas of hairstyles. Lipgloss is also fun to wear and makes you more feminine. Jewlery like necklaces, earings and such. If you wear glasses contacts could help but they get annoying at times. Oh they also have people who teach you how much make up to wear and what type is best for you. Ask your mom about that.
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Alright well this is an embarassing topic I chose to ask about but here goes....
Alright so I heard about people shaving their pubes and I thought I looked unattractive down there with pubic hair. So I shaved a little and within a few days I shaved almost all of it. I used a shaving cream that could be used for it. Now, all I feel is pain and irritation. It stings constantly where the hair used to be. However, I manage to sometimes discover temporary relief from this antagonizing agony such as a hot bath, or a hot water bottle. Any tips on what to avoid and what to use to help? After you shave repeatedly does it hurt less? Should I come to the conclusion I shouldn't shave there, and only trim? Please help me! How long will this pain last? (link)
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There really is no reason to shave there if nobody sees except if you go to the beach often. They have special razors you use too.
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I always am thinking about food, even if i'm not the leastbit hungry. I always want to be eating. CAn you please tell me some good ways to keep food off my mind. (link)
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Well you can join sports, clubs, ect. Watching t.v. but be careful if you watch t.v. I figured out with my own experience that when you watch t.v. you tend to eat more because it might be a habbit to watch t.v. and eat. Computer games, online games and stuff that will keep your mind off food. Hobbies are great too they keep you thinking of that more than food. If you continue to keep wanting food alot then remember to eat healthier snacks. Water helps the hunger sometimes go away so I suggest that too.
Hope I helped
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Ok I dont mind if people (mother, fathers, sisters, brothers, etc) have their own opinions but I dont like them forcing them on someone else (meaning me). Any suggestion(s) on how I not get upset when someone (meaning a family member) does that to me? (link)
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Just talk to them telling them that you are your own person with your own opinions. Then they probably won't force as much as they used to. If they still do that then just remind yourself not to get mad and upset because nobodys perfect and will do what they want to because they have there own choice too. But parents always know whats right for you so you need to listen to what they have to say.
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hi, i need a nickname for my boyfriend. if you need some information about him, here it is. he's soooo sweet, he calls me babe, cutie and, hun. he's like the most perfect guy ever! but we dont officially go out yet, he hasn't asked me out. but we talk about everything, and he says he really likes me and i know thats true, and i like him too.he also says that he's falling in love with me. so, plz, can u give me a nickname for him? p.s, i know this is too much info about him, but i needed to get it off of my chest!
thankx, bye!
i'm 14 and a girl. (link)
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You can say babe, cutie, hun and stuff he was calling you. Since you said he was sweet then call him sweetie. Or you can say something made up, my brothers girlfriend and him made up there own nicknames like some that have not been used before. There are thousands of stuff you can call him so you'll find something cute for him.
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16, female :)
im sooo confused and sort of...hurt..
you see there is this very adorable, sweet, athletic, everything i look for in a guy BUT he has a girlfriend. ive had a thing for him for about 6,7 months now. we hangout occassionally..but never alone..only with my cousins because there good friends with him and thats their neighbor haha. anyways before him and his girlfriend were together we would flirt NONSTOP i mean i loved it haha who wouldnt? this was in the summer and i know that we're both attracted to each other. but he doesnt know i like him. anyways..now that he has a girlfriend of about 6 months soon it makes me so sad to know he loves her and not me.. i mean shes really pretty and i didnt even think they were going to last thing long but there going strong..the thing is everytime that we hangout we still kinda flirt. when im not with him, im thinking about him..like tonight we went to his hockey game..his school played my school and after me my cousins and my friends left and then he texted me a bit after and was like hey what are you guys doing ..wanna go out? and i started smiling. so we all hungout and we went out to eat and my cousin was driving and i was like i get FRONT and hes like ahh nahhh. so we were like at the car and he was like holding me and touching me saying that i couldnt get it and then hes like alright..i'll open the door for you so he opened it for me to get in :) and same on the way home! haha but in the back seat he kept touching my hair and then he was like soo you got any guys you goin for? no boys in your life? and im like nope :( i mean my cousins had to go give their friend something so it was me and him in the car but it was kinda weird..i didnt know what to say! usually i do its weird though. but i cant go through it anymore i hate feeling so sad about him having a girlfriend. i just keep waiting for them to break up or something but then NOPE..6 months later..i can definately see something of us if they were to break up but i just dont know. i try and tell myself to get over him but i love being by him, and then i gave him a hug because i accidently "hurt" him and it was the best feeling. but i cant just give him a hug goodbye because i feel weird. asking for one?! this quote defines me the BEST .. "and even though we'll probably never be together, i refuse to let myself fall for anyone else.." and its true. no guy compares to him. what should i do? even when i dont hangout with him for like 3,4 weeks i STILL think about him and wanting to see him. i dont even know if i'll see him again this break..what do you think i should do? and telling him i like him is something im not going to do because i think he might have the hint but if he doesnt i dont wanna make things awkward. anyways im just so lost its like i like the kid but then i hate him..i wanna get over him and see him as JUST A FRIEND..but then i dont. i think hes just one of those guys that you'll always have a thing for. and the thing is that he only flirts with him i notice..like when its me and other girls and him he wont flirt with them and stuff...i just DONT KNOW?! what should i do (link)
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He might like you more than his girlfriend. Ask him to hang out just as friends and see what happens from there. Maybe flirt with him more and stuff too. You don't want to ruin there relationship though. But also you can try hard to forget about him and move on to another guy that suits your interests. But not all guys are perfect so just find one that is at least nice and looks at you on the inside not just the outside.
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I feel like I dont fit in at school. Lately, Im very anti-social. Im a girl, but I hate the other girls. I think theyre so annoying. The way they laugh with their friends so loud just to get attention. And they do it in a way that guys will look over at them and think theyre hot. They wear slutty outfits and are so cliquy. And Im not in middle school, Im in high school! Where people are supposed to be more mature? What do I do about this ? I get so angry I leave the class sometimes and say I have to go to the bathroom and then I cry because Im not included and I feel less compared to them and ugly. (link)
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There is always a girl there that would be nicer to you than the rest of them. And trust me there should be someone there in that entire school. Guy friends will also be okay. Get involved with more stuff and then later you will make more friends.
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im 13. i think i have endometriosis. my period hasnt gone away for 2 or 3 months now. i got pain in my lower back. and my period has gotten really heavy. i havent told anybody but my best friend. im not sure if i got it or not. but im kind of ambarrased to tell my mom and go to the doctors and stuff. im to scared. ive never thought of me as a wuss. but i dont want to be diagnosed with it cuz then i no it will never go away. help me get through this plz. all i need are some answers. (link)
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Did you tell your mom you got your period or not? Well if you didn't you really should and then tell her whats going on. Trust me the best idea is to go to the doctor. It will be better for when your older.
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When i walk around someimtes my leg starts to hurt. like from right undr my butt to right under my knee. sometimes it hurts so bad i cant stand to walk.
when i was little i had surgery on my leg ((the left one the one i talked about)). somethin came out of place but when i was little i just woke up and couldnt move my leg but now my leg just starts to hurt at random times.
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Tell your parents and then if they think you should go to the doctor go and make an appointment. And then see whats wrong with you leg.
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Ok..I'm a redhead 15/F and i really like this guy. Well he seemed to be diggen me or whatever soo one night i texted to see if he wanted to do something tom. He texted me back and said he is not attracted to redheads and that if i like him more than that than its not gonna work because he doesnt like me. I was heart broken. I mean red hair is kind of rare and i mean im not ugly at all..and i dont have the pale skin like one either. I look a little different but still i have red hair. My question is..in your opinion is red hair ugly and why dont guys like red hair? (link)
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Red hair is beautiful you should be happy. Don't be heartbroken because he dosn't like you and if he dosn't like a girls with red hair then he is real shallow. If he dosn't even look at the girl that is inside of you then he's nothing you need to be dealing with. Forget him and find a guy that looks on the inside and dosn't care about how you look. Thats the kind of guy everyone needs. Just don't go looking around for a guy who will like you from the way you look. I mean its not wrong for a guy to like you looks but make sure he likes you from the inside.
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i had a blackhead/pimple on the crease of my nose, like in the little dent/dip where my nose touches my face. anyways i picked at it and now it's become a scab, but it's big and ugly, should i pick it to make the scab go away? or not. and what can i do to make it go away without making it worse?
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Okay you can pick it off but will probably make it bleed or it will make another scab come on and it really hurts. Its also wasn't the best idea to pick at it. You can cover it up with make up too. It helps. You can leave the scab there and wait for it to come off leaving nothing. It will take a couple days though. So thoughs are some choices and to avoid getting those again wash your face everyday with hot water to avoid it from getting greasy and all and soon your face will be clear. I did that everyday and now my face it clear.
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