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Love a Little Deeper
I think I'm going through a mid-life crisis. [That is, if I only expect to live `till thirty.] I'm a 15 year old female and it feels like I haven't completly found my place of belonging. I know I'm not the only one who's experiencing these emotions, but I'd rather rid myself of these feelings as soon as I can. I've acknowledged the problem as pushing the ones I wish to get close to away and I'm not sure why I do this. I've led a pretty sheltered life, so it doesn't lead to my past. I think it's because people tend to move on and I fear being replaced. I open up more so than others, but I just shy away from what I need most. How can I allow myself to accept the love of my surrondings?
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Just look at other people and see how lucky you are. Other people don't have it as good as us so we should be happy. Like look online at pictures of people who don't have homes and food. You want to push away your friends but you really need them but just try to be alone and find time to just sit back and relax. Even take a nice hot bath and pamper yourself you you feel great. Its a good way to get rid of stress.
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I just turned 16 a couple weeks back. When I was 15 I had SO many days that I woke up and felt the same way. I felt lost and alone. I pushed away my boyfriend at times and all my friends. It seemed like all I wanted to do was sit in my room with sad songs blasting through the speakers. All you need to do is think of the good things that have happened to you. Also think of how lucky you are for having good things and how fortunate you are compared to some people. I had lots of therapy and was able to get past it. You need to find something that makes you happy. Slowly things will change but I can assure you it's just the age since lots of my 15 year old friends can agree with me and say they've definitely experienced it too! :)
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you are not the only one who feel like once you make friends they have to leave, and you think pushing peope away will save you from getting hurt, but the truth is the more you hide the more you get hurt, running away never helps, so go out and take a change you will find a friend that feels the same way you do, even if someone move on doesn't mean they are gone forever, you can still hold on to them in your heart. i hope everything works out fine.
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