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school troubles..
I feel like I dont fit in at school. Lately, Im very anti-social. Im a girl, but I hate the other girls. I think theyre so annoying. The way they laugh with their friends so loud just to get attention. And they do it in a way that guys will look over at them and think theyre hot. They wear slutty outfits and are so cliquy. And Im not in middle school, Im in high school! Where people are supposed to be more mature? What do I do about this ? I get so angry I leave the class sometimes and say I have to go to the bathroom and then I cry because Im not included and I feel less compared to them and ugly.
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There is always a girl there that would be nicer to you than the rest of them. And trust me there should be someone there in that entire school. Guy friends will also be okay. Get involved with more stuff and then later you will make more friends.
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Mature? No some girls are just stupid and they feel like they need to be fake. So they can get a relationship that's mainly fake. YEAH!
Okay so maybe you don't want a girl[friend]
Go around the school and watch in on everyone. There's going to be some people that will take you in.
Maybe you need guy friends, maybe join a club and get involved. You need to make a move because nobody will make one for you.
I know the girls are annoying and everything, but there has to be at least one girl you haven't noticed.. and maybe she's nice.
Some nice people don't want to be noticed so they hang out in different, secluded places.
You're a lot better than them. You haven't fallen into the "I WANT TO POPULAR!!11" thing. You're not ugly, being fake makes you ugly.
You could always switch classes or try to switch schools, try to explain that you have no friends and nobody wants to be your friend kind of thing (Maybe that would help you switch schools)
Making a new start is good. You could always talk to people though.
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okay, first please dont cry over that. They are "fake" who try to show off and try to make themselves look hot, but instead they are fools. In high school, find some friends you can trust and do fun activites join a club & do well in school =] But dont pay attention to them. You should feel sad how ugly & fake they are. & you are a real regular sweet girll=] xox hope i helped.
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Just make friends with people that aren't annyoing and have stuff in common with you.
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High school kids are not mature.
Trust me. I've been at this game for three years, and people just keep getting more and more childish. When I first started high school I was expecting this giant culture shock where people were more mature and yada yada.
But the only thing that changed was the level of desperate-ness. Desperate for attention, desperate for love, desperate for friends, desperate for popularity... it's high school, and sooner than you know it it'll be over.
So find someone who interests you(and don't tell me that there isn't anyone in your entire school who interests you) and try to make friends.
Don't worry about how slutty and lame those other girls are either. 'Cause there the ones who are going to end up living like a prostitute with twenty seven cats in a trailer park. 'Kay? =D
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do you got a friend? anyone you can talk too? if not then you need to find one. look for someone else who dont fit in and talk about all the other girls and how stupid they actin to be doin that crap. its kinda fun.
or you can talk to someone like your mom or school counselor. or sumthing
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it sounds like you have a lot of emotion inside, and trust me, high schoolers are far from mature. I have the same problem. It seems to me like you may be excluding yourself for whatever reason. Maybe you should try just doing things with your friends and not worrying about others. A lot of girls in high school try to get attention, but honestly, a lot of guys don't like the loud and annoying ones. Try to focus on things you enjoy. Maybe sports or any sort of club. Try to make friends with similar interests and then you won't be focused on the other girls. I know that high school sucks, trust me, i'm living it and its completely hell on earth, no exaggeration, but there are a few things such as friends and fun activities that can make it more bareable.
Hope i helped!
<3 Elle
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