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i LiKE HiM ALOT..BUT THERES A PROBLEM...
16, female :)
im sooo confused and sort of...hurt..
you see there is this very adorable, sweet, athletic, everything i look for in a guy BUT he has a girlfriend. ive had a thing for him for about 6,7 months now. we hangout occassionally..but never alone..only with my cousins because there good friends with him and thats their neighbor haha. anyways before him and his girlfriend were together we would flirt NONSTOP i mean i loved it haha who wouldnt? this was in the summer and i know that we're both attracted to each other. but he doesnt know i like him. anyways..now that he has a girlfriend of about 6 months soon it makes me so sad to know he loves her and not me.. i mean shes really pretty and i didnt even think they were going to last thing long but there going strong..the thing is everytime that we hangout we still kinda flirt. when im not with him, im thinking about him..like tonight we went to his hockey game..his school played my school and after me my cousins and my friends left and then he texted me a bit after and was like hey what are you guys doing ..wanna go out? and i started smiling. so we all hungout and we went out to eat and my cousin was driving and i was like i get FRONT and hes like ahh nahhh. so we were like at the car and he was like holding me and touching me saying that i couldnt get it and then hes like alright..i'll open the door for you so he opened it for me to get in :) and same on the way home! haha but in the back seat he kept touching my hair and then he was like soo you got any guys you goin for? no boys in your life? and im like nope :( i mean my cousins had to go give their friend something so it was me and him in the car but it was kinda weird..i didnt know what to say! usually i do its weird though. but i cant go through it anymore i hate feeling so sad about him having a girlfriend. i just keep waiting for them to break up or something but then NOPE..6 months later..i can definately see something of us if they were to break up but i just dont know. i try and tell myself to get over him but i love being by him, and then i gave him a hug because i accidently "hurt" him and it was the best feeling. but i cant just give him a hug goodbye because i feel weird. asking for one?! this quote defines me the BEST .. "and even though we'll probably never be together, i refuse to let myself fall for anyone else.." and its true. no guy compares to him. what should i do? even when i dont hangout with him for like 3,4 weeks i STILL think about him and wanting to see him. i dont even know if i'll see him again this break..what do you think i should do? and telling him i like him is something im not going to do because i think he might have the hint but if he doesnt i dont wanna make things awkward. anyways im just so lost its like i like the kid but then i hate him..i wanna get over him and see him as JUST A FRIEND..but then i dont. i think hes just one of those guys that you'll always have a thing for. and the thing is that he only flirts with him i notice..like when its me and other girls and him he wont flirt with them and stuff...i just DONT KNOW?! what should i do <3
oooh and also..whenever me and him are around each other.. people think we're going out and one kid was even like man you should dump your girlfriend and go out with maria (me) and i just start laughin and he does too and smiles.
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He might like you more than his girlfriend. Ask him to hang out just as friends and see what happens from there. Maybe flirt with him more and stuff too. You don't want to ruin there relationship though. But also you can try hard to forget about him and move on to another guy that suits your interests. But not all guys are perfect so just find one that is at least nice and looks at you on the inside not just the outside.
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You should just ask him to hang out with him, like friends then just take it from there...
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Woah, same thing happend to me! Well I totally think he likes you, alot! But he went out with another girl because he thinks you don`t like him. You really have to tell him you like him NOW, because you never know if you tell him later it could just be too late. I think you should go over to your cousins house, or just call the guy up & see if he`d like to go to the movies or just hang out, and then see if he still is flirting with you and all that. & If he is flirting with you, then tell him how you feel, tell him you like him & you can never stop thinking about him, & he`s probably going to feel the same way about you, but he`ll be too shy to say it at first so don`t rush into it! Guys like him usually play "hard to get" so you should play that "game" too! =) I hope I helped ♥! Good Luck! ♥
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Well I also had almost the same freaking problem! I have loved this boy for a long while and i told him i liked him and he totally stopped being freinds with me. He used to come over my hosue and eveyhthing, but as soon as i told him i liked him he sarted hating me. He has a girlfriend and they are going out on and off. I just moved on. I've like this kid for about 1 and a half years! But, i just forgot about him you know. Now, I think you should try to move on. and if he and his gf ever breakup let him do the first move.
Good luck
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MERRY CHRISTMAS/HANNUKAH/RAMADON/KWANZA
and winter solstice!!!!
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from your description, i'm torn two ways. It seems in one case that he may like you back, but like his girlfriend as well, or maybe even like you, but not know if you like him and is hiding behind his girlfriend, a girl who likes him. But then, i sort of get the feeling that he may see you as just a friend or even like a sister. I don't think that you can really tell him how you feel, since he is dating someone else and that isn't fair, but it isn't fair to you to sit and wait for him to become avaiable again, especially if he doesn't like you in that way. I think that you should try to get over him. I know that seems like stupid advice and pretty much impossible, but if you keep yourself busy and find other things to do. hang out with other friends, get a new hobby, make new friends, just do something that will keep your mind off of him. If things do happen and the two of them break up and you guys get together, then thats great, but i think that you should try to move on and protect yourself because it doesn't look like its going anywhere any time soon.
hope i helped!
<3 Elle
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