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Q: okay, so my dog scratched my face, and it's not going away so i'm kind of worried. I have really sensitive skin and get scars easily. I tried using concealer; it didn't work. I have a dance recital Saturday, so i need to know if there are any products i can use [preferably found at a drug store like cvs or rite aid] or something i could do to make it less noticable and prevent it from scarring.
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Alright well.. Neosporin works wonders.. and will help it heal faster. and will prevent it from scarring.. im not too sure about anything make up wise though... but just keep it clean so it doesnt get infected =]

Good Luck!

Q: when a guy says "haha, your retarded" (when hes flirting) what are u suppose to say back? like: yeah, but you so are you :D"?

Well.. alot of guys say that to me.. and what i say is

"So? What are you gonna do about it?"
orrrr
"Oh, and your not..loser" ((that ones always good))

anything along those lines work..

good luck!

Q: ok well i sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago and i have been off crutches for 1 and i love sports and i never sprained my ankle before so im new to it.Ok anyway i kinda got in to sports but im not suspose to (baskettball 4 days a week and competive volleyball on sunday ok well im 13 and a girl should i just not play and let my ankel get better or what i dont no and im comfused ....after basketball my ankel always hurts and in volleybal mu coach make me do 200 situps instead of 5 laps thanks in advance

Trust me you should stop putting weight on your ankle.. even thought you think it is better.. ive had a sprained ankle many many times and ive tried to play sports;;and believe me it makes it worse and it takes longer to heal.. maybe you shoul suggest to your coaches about going to practice but just watching so that you dont miss anything? or for basketball and volleyball start wearing an ankle brace. good luck !

Q: I don't know how to change my password on advicenators. Is it possible? I looked in the FAQ and couldn't find it. Thanks =]

You have to go toProfile settings and its the second thing you can change on the page it says change password. then type in the new ps.
Hope those directions were okay.
If not ask me again and i'll try to explain better

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Q: ello. i need to write an essay on anything i want. but the problem is i am drawing blanks on ideas. i prefer to write about important topics. in the past i have written about controversial topics and i am good once i actually have a topic. do y'all have any ideas at all? thanx for any help:)

Just think of events happening right now, or somehthing that happened in your life recently. If it was something bad change it so the outcome is good. Those will make great essays.

Q: Ok..I'm a redhead 15/F and i really like this guy. Well he seemed to be diggen me or whatever soo one night i texted to see if he wanted to do something tom. He texted me back and said he is not attracted to redheads and that if i like him more than that than its not gonna work because he doesnt like me. I was heart broken. I mean red hair is kind of rare and i mean im not ugly at all..and i dont have the pale skin like one either. I look a little different but still i have red hair. My question is..in your opinion is red hair ugly and why dont guys like red hair?

I think red hair is great!! Guys might not be attracted to it becuz it's unusual and abnormal. If he doesnt like you for your red-hair let him get to know you as a friend. Just say okay. then make him fall for you. I think if you just hang as friends he'll look past the red-hair
GOODLUCK!!

Q: 16, female :)

im sooo confused and sort of...hurt..
you see there is this very adorable, sweet, athletic, everything i look for in a guy BUT he has a girlfriend. ive had a thing for him for about 6,7 months now. we hangout occassionally..but never alone..only with my cousins because there good friends with him and thats their neighbor haha. anyways before him and his girlfriend were together we would flirt NONSTOP i mean i loved it haha who wouldnt? this was in the summer and i know that we're both attracted to each other. but he doesnt know i like him. anyways..now that he has a girlfriend of about 6 months soon it makes me so sad to know he loves her and not me.. i mean shes really pretty and i didnt even think they were going to last thing long but there going strong..the thing is everytime that we hangout we still kinda flirt. when im not with him, im thinking about him..like tonight we went to his hockey game..his school played my school and after me my cousins and my friends left and then he texted me a bit after and was like hey what are you guys doing ..wanna go out? and i started smiling. so we all hungout and we went out to eat and my cousin was driving and i was like i get FRONT and hes like ahh nahhh. so we were like at the car and he was like holding me and touching me saying that i couldnt get it and then hes like alright..i'll open the door for you so he opened it for me to get in :) and same on the way home! haha but in the back seat he kept touching my hair and then he was like soo you got any guys you goin for? no boys in your life? and im like nope :( i mean my cousins had to go give their friend something so it was me and him in the car but it was kinda weird..i didnt know what to say! usually i do its weird though. but i cant go through it anymore i hate feeling so sad about him having a girlfriend. i just keep waiting for them to break up or something but then NOPE..6 months later..i can definately see something of us if they were to break up but i just dont know. i try and tell myself to get over him but i love being by him, and then i gave him a hug because i accidently "hurt" him and it was the best feeling. but i cant just give him a hug goodbye because i feel weird. asking for one?! this quote defines me the BEST .. "and even though we'll probably never be together, i refuse to let myself fall for anyone else.." and its true. no guy compares to him. what should i do? even when i dont hangout with him for like 3,4 weeks i STILL think about him and wanting to see him. i dont even know if i'll see him again this break..what do you think i should do? and telling him i like him is something im not going to do because i think he might have the hint but if he doesnt i dont wanna make things awkward. anyways im just so lost its like i like the kid but then i hate him..i wanna get over him and see him as JUST A FRIEND..but then i dont. i think hes just one of those guys that you'll always have a thing for. and the thing is that he only flirts with him i notice..like when its me and other girls and him he wont flirt with them and stuff...i just DONT KNOW?! what should i do

Well I also had almost the same freaking problem! I have loved this boy for a long while and i told him i liked him and he totally stopped being freinds with me. He used to come over my hosue and eveyhthing, but as soon as i told him i liked him he sarted hating me. He has a girlfriend and they are going out on and off. I just moved on. I've like this kid for about 1 and a half years! But, i just forgot about him you know. Now, I think you should try to move on. and if he and his gf ever breakup let him do the first move.
Good luck
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Q: OK, so me *& my crush hugged *&& i heard that you can tell by a hug (i forgot where. hah) if its a friendly hug or "i-like-you" hug hah i dont know how else to put it.

thank you!!! =]

Well i dont see your question... But if what your trying to ask is " How can i tell what kind of hug it was? " kind of thing then.. If it was like a really long hug.. then it was probably an i like you hug, but if it was just a short one then it probably was just a friendly hug. One of my friends ( i call him my big brother ) we hug all the time.. and its just a friendly hug.. but thats my advice for you. ya know if that was your question.
good luck =]

Q: I have a lot of friends. some of them are guys. I have liekd this one boy for sometime now, but i dont want are friendship to end but sometimes it seems he likes me to. If it helps im 13 HELP ME!!

Well, if you really liked him a lot you should find out how he feels. If he lieks you or not. if he does then maybe you should talk to him and aks if you went out would he be mad at not talk to u if you broke up. I know if you went out and you broke up you would become friends again. My friend in highschool shes bestfriends with this one boy and he really likes her but she doesnt wanna go out with him. i think if they went out then broke up they'd become friends. if ur truly that tight you'd get over the break-up
GOOD LUCK!
I'm here for yah!!

Q: what should i eat before tennis? i have lunch like 2 hours before conditioning starts and i noticed that i get really tired out, quickly at practice. so is there any type of food that i can eat that will give me more energy. and its not like im overweight. im actually really underweight. so calories dont matter to me. is there any specific brand of nutrition bar or drink that i can buy that would give me more energy?

thanks.

i am a tennis player my self and anytime i play i eat a lot pasta and drink a lot of water or and other thing to drink besides soda, or anything with sugar or caffiene.

Q: Hi, I'm supposed togo on a ski trip with my school but I don't know how to ski. I don't want to look completely stupid. Anyone got any good tips. Please Help.

Hi I ski I'm not great, but make sure you take the easy trails, and try to find either a friend who can ski well or a friend who can't ski well. If you need help skiing a friend can always help you, or if you find a friend who can't ski its always good to not be left alone so you know they'll be there.

Q: Okay, so today this guy I really like, asks me out, and well I said yes. But, for the rest of the day, it was totally awkward and everyone, kept doing stuff, and kept saying stuff to make the situation even more awkward. What are some helpful ways to make things...less awkward?

Well that's kind of how it was when i first started going out with my current boyfriend. You see i sat at his table with him and his buddies but he didnt really talk to me..what you need to do is start the conversation instead of waiting for him to talk to you. Just be like hi what aree you doojg later. and stuff like that. he'll chip in on the talk, and before you know it you wont even have to think about it, he'll start getting more comfortbale talkign to you after a few days. There are going to be times when he may kind of ignore you, but just start talking to him... Hope my advice helps yah lotts.

Q: okay i used to go out with this guy and then he dumped me and he said sorry he was by polar he said he will always love me and im the only one and like 2 monthes later he dumped me and then he said sorry then he asked me back out and i said i will think about it! then he said forget about it like a day later because somebody told him that i thought he was ugly and i never said that and so he doesent want to go out with me and i know he still likes me and the other day i seen him flirting with another girl i still love him he is the perfect guy what should i do to get him back?? i miss him and im sad without him and i know he still likes me and what should i do ?

I know what it is like to love someone and see them flirting with another girl. At my school there is a love triangle and every day someones heart is broken. I suggest that you move on. There are tons of boys out there. And there will be one for you =] 8p

Q: guys are weird.

this one boy, in school.. he always always always looks at me, ALWAYS. & whenever i like sit next to him though, he'll be like oh noo. & junk like that. & i dc because i hate him too.. lol. but its just weird, that hes always looking at me, i dont get why? why does he? any ideaa??

Maybe he likes you but he doesn't know how to show the fact that he does like you, or that he's afraid of what will happen in the future.

Q: So if i havent talked to my x-gf in like a long ass time and then i talk to her and like crap on AIM. I mean i was trying to get my life on track and shit, my grades were slipping, i got into drugs, then like she doesnt know rite. so why do i feel so frggin retarted?

Well,, you got into drugs so what do u think?!!

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