about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

Why is everyone"s belly button different because i have a belly button fetish and i was just wondering+.

i know what your talkin about. the answer is because everyone body is different. and there body shake and form is differnt from one another. that is how.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey

i was wondering how old do u have to be to get into a rated R movie..and if your to young all you need is your parents permission right??

thanks in advance!

17 is how old you have to be and you got to have an adult with you. if you got an adult for you then you should be alright. my boyfriend told em if you get soemone to get the tickets for you then you can get in without them checking your ID in the theaters in the mall but again this all depends on were you live, hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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my boyfriend and i are in a weird situation. we barely talk and i want to get closer. and he thinks i'm cheating on him with his best friend.

i can't really explain my feelings, so i decided i should make him a mixtape(well, cd)

sooo..

any songs about regaining a love that faded
and/or letting someone know you don't love anyone else more than them?

pussycat dolls- stick with you

monica - for you i will; you should have known better

ray J - one wish

Rehianna - if its loving that you want

ryan caberia - true

t- pain - i'm sprung

that is all i cna think of hope this helps you out and if you need anyhting else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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Went out earlier tonight and stole as many flowers out of gardens as I posibly could, ended up with quite a lot of differant flowers.
Went to this girls house, who I have been out with at least 6 times, climbed over her apartment fence (questioning my sanity at being there in the middle of the night) scatered the flowers on her lawn and left.
I'm kinda scared that she will think I'm a weirdo stalker or something, but I really hope it makes her happy and special...
I have a idea that she likes me...kinda saw her being jeolous at another woman i was talking to one night (the woman was sweet, but happely married to someone else, and I REALLY like this girl)
anyway the real question for the modern age...would you consider this Romantic or Creepy?

14/f almost 15

i think what you did was really romatic and cute. now a days most guys are assholes and think them making fun of someone turns a girl on but hey they will find out the hard way. your a really sweet guy and this girl sounds really lucky to have you.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok well i have a boyfriend and we've been together for 3 months since today. and lately i haven't been sure of what to do. ok well i will show you a conversation with a guy friend of mine instead of type it all because it says it all in the conversation:

Me: i have alot of friends we offer to give me drugs for free but i say no though it gets really tempting
Friend: dont
Me: i won't next time i get tempted i shall think of you because weirdly when i think of (boyfriend name) i want to do it even more.....
Me: and i don't know why
Friend: wow
Friend: weird
Me: i'm confused does that mean i don't like him?
Friend: im guessing yes
Me: i don't know
Me: sometimes i think i do sometimes i think i don't
Me: i keep wanting to ask him for a little break to see if i still like him or if i want someone else but like i don't want to be mean and i don't like regret as i had said before
Friend: oh
Me: but like he's getting really serious about me...
Friend: ask him to slow down then
Me: ah i'm confused
Me: i think i like him and i dont think i like him i dont want a relationship but i do want a relationship and think he's gunna dump me but i also thinks he's not and i tihnk i want a break but i also think i dont
Friend: wow
Me: i'm bad at relationships :-\
Me: i sound like a bad girlfriend
Friend: no
Me: yes i do
Friend: no u dont
Me: i' have 54 ex boyfriends
Friend: u count?
Me: i can never decide what i want
Me: no (boyfriend name)asked me how many i've had so i had to find out
Me: i don't rememeber more than half of their names
Me: my longest relationship was 4 months well actually 3 years but i don't like to mention that one
Me: i have no idea what i want out of my life
Me: i can't even figure myself out
Me: how can i know what a guy wants when i can't even tell what i want
Me: grrr
Friend: i got an idea
Friend: have fun with your life
Me: how can i have fun with all this crap
Friend: just forget about it all
Friend: nothings goin to make me not like you

sorry if it was long but i'm not sure what i should do

you need a break in your life. id ont know how old you are but you ne3ed to stop going out with guys for atleast a month or to and stop worryin about them and have a life that doesnt give you drama and stress. take time out of your life and be a girl wit out a boyfriend and hang out with your true friend who have helped bring you were you are now and see how fun it is to be single and not be tided down. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Right well we got a swimmin pool built in our school last month and when the girls are on their periods they aren't allowed to sit out but are forced to use tampons!!!!!! I haven't been on since it was built but oomg. I am so scared. I have never used a tampon and I'm never GONNA so don't suggest I do. Isn't it like illegal to force us to use tampons or somethin? My friend even got her rents in about it and they still made her use tampons!! What can I do on swimmin days that I am on? I'm not using a tampon but I'm not standin in the changing room arguing bout whether to use one or not with the PE teacher its embarassing!!

i am in the same situation as you except my parents got my back and told me i wont ever use a tampon at all.. so what i would is talk to my parents about it and i would let my parents knwo that i dont want to wear a tampon and that they should make you wear one. if you got your parents involoved trust me it will be a lot better and easier.. hope this helps you out,
*~Stephanie~*

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thank you and i hear what you are saying it is just hard right now to let go and move on. I am prolonging it b/c iknow when i do it i will be right back to depression as it was on the day he left. Thank you and all the advice i can get is greatly appreciated and helpful

your very welcome. and if you ever need anythign just drop it in my inbox and i will gladly help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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15/f- Its really long but if you would take the time, I would really really appreciate your help.

Okay I have 2 best friends, shelby and christa. Well shelby recently got a boyfriend, and all of a sudden started acting very distant to me and christa. She never hung out with us anymore, and barely talked to us at school. She was trying to change herself to fit in with her bf's friends. Well Then she started telling people that me and christa abandoned her and that we were mad and jealous that she has a bf. We never said anything to her. So then we heard it from more people, so we asked her about it, if she said it. She denied it, and got mad at us and walked away. We let it go. Then my friend found a note from her to her bf that said " I dont know what is up with HER (meaning me) lately. If she doesnt knock it off quick, Im not gonna talk to her at all at homecoming because I dont want my night to be ruined by HER". So then I called her and asked her about it. Now Im not a mean person at all. Im too nice at times. Well I must have said "Now Im not trying to attack you or be mean, I just wanna talk" fifteen times, and she was like "Oh I know" She made up some lame excuse, and I was like whatever, so then we talked for about an hour like normal about our day and whatnot. The next morning she came up to Christa and I and hugged us to make sure we were okay. Well afterschool a friend came up and said "shelby said you called her and yelled and bitched her out for an hour and then she cried after you got off the phone" I was so angry, and I was tempted just to not talk to her anymore, but I gave it one more chance. I went up to her before lunch at her locker and asked her why she was saying that, and that she knew very well it wasnt true. I was being wayy too nice. She wouldnt look at me, she kept her eyes on her locker and was like "yeah... whatever.. sure" while I was talking, so then she was like "IM DONE okay? IM DONE WITH YOU" and just kept saying it, and I walked off, and then she went and told her bf that it was the otherway around. So then she comes up to me like 1 or 2 days later and says I was being a bitch the otherday, I dont know what was up. Blah. And I just said yeah I agree and walked away, then she wrote me a 3 page note and the first page was an apology finally. Im the forgive and forget type, but I dont really wanna forgive exactly, but she sits at our lunch table now, but everyone is like "why are you talking to her, she doesnt deserve your time"

Should I forgive her after all she did?
Am I right about this whole thing?
Should I talk to her still?
What should I do?

I would greatly appreciate any help anyone can give

omg i have been through this soo many times. just like you i am known to be too soft and nice to people and them seem to take advantage of that and take it for granted. i dont know about you but i am cathlic and sicne i believe in god i think you should 4give and forget and that if who ever your beign nice to is takin advantage of you then someone up above will get them back. plus pay back is a bithc. and she will feel so bad of what she did to you. what you got to do with ehr is change a lil how your. i am nto sayin completely just liek she has to gain your trust and that you be a little mean/ rough on her at frist. just to set her staright A(trust em if you dont do this she will keep repeatin what she has dont to do and think she will be able to get away with it) set her striaght and make sure she cant walk all over you. hope this helps you out.a dn if you need anyhting else feel free to drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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OK I know you get a lot of these questions but 1 more can't hurt! I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 months and I think he has a girlfriend. He gave me 3 chances and I messed them up. We're good friends. My question to you is should I forget about him? I'm always thinking of him and he moved on so quickly. I don't know if I want to move on so fast. HELP!!

yes.. he probably isnt over you btu you proved to him 3 times that you didnt care about him byt cheating on him.. move on and find a new guy. you messed up and need a new start. next time show the guy you love him or at least care about him and dont cheat on him.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have been dating this man for almost 2 yrs. We met on the internet and he was just getting out of a bad divorce. We were dating for almost 3 months and he left me. He said its not me its him and he had some things to clear out of his head. I was broken hearted but I understood. 2 weeks later we got back together and 2 weeks later he left-still confused-i still understood. 3 months passed and i missed him so and we started talking again-we got back together. He sold his house and moved in with me and my 2 children. He has also has a son. Things were very good and in April he asked me to marry him-of course i accepted. Ii was planning the weeding for 2007 and he moved it up to 2006. I was ecstatic so i was planning our wedding. There were times when we argued and yes i take blame for some of them. The last argument we had was b/c of the internet and things i found him going on. Well he kept saying it wasnt him and he did not look that stuff up-cookies did it--whatever. Well things escalated from there and one day he said he cant do this any more its not me its him,he doesnt want to be engaged or get married or be with anyone and he left. I was never engaged before so of course i will be all excited. He was married for 10 yrs and yes its scary for him,but why did he leave? The week he left he got distant from me and i knew something was wrong but i didnt think he was going to leave for a 3rd time. He moved up to his parents like 10 minutes from my house. I still talk to him and off and on he comes over. I miss him so much and ask him to come home--but he says its not that easy it was hard to leave he cant just come back.I understand that kind of but if he loves me why is he not coming back? what does he need to think about? I miss him so much but he wont tell me he misses me unless i ask-or he wont tell me he loves me-sometimes he does when i say it other times he says "I know". I am so confused and i know i need to let him go and let him be but it is so hard. What do I do?He knows i want him to come home,he knows i love him,he klnows we can move as slow as we need to we dont need to rush,but yet he wont come back. What can I do? Please help.
thank you
27yr old female

i think this guy keeps taking his chance but using them all in the wrong way. he know s what he can ahve but doenst know how to catch it and charish it. so instead he takes it for granted. you need to leave the man alone. as hard as it may seem you need to. if you dont it will hurt you mroe adn you will be wasting time, pain, love, and be streessed out. ir eally dont think a woman like you needs more stress in her hands that as much as you have now..if he did love you as much as you love him he would have came back with no questions asked. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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There is this girl at school {lets just call her Lindsay} that i love so friggin much and I believe she is the one.
Believe me, i had countless crushes before and i havent had love like this before. I have been asking myself what made me so attracted to them. I have kind, smart, outgoing, talented, beautiful, funny, and, well, is a girl. "Lindsay has all that and she has a sense of humor like no one else has. Could there be a chance that she is the one.

you never know until you find out. take a chance and go out with here. dont be shy and do it. (unless you already ahve) if she is the one you guess should eb able to amke it last a long time. otherwise she really isnt the one. hope this helps and good luck.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i need a costume QUCIK!!


for halloween (duh) me and my friend....


easy and like cool :)


peace

i am just like you last minute. i didnt want to be anyhting except me and friends decided to wear mini skirts (matchin) and a top matching *doesnt have to be thogh) and you can either say your a school girl or soemwere between a slut, and a prosatute. =]
*~Stephanie~*

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Do you think its wrong to be bisexual?

nope. nobody can control the way you feel tords another person.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so everyone at my school wears a thong. Tey tell me that wearing a thong is sexxy and it makes you cool.Well i tryed one on and i hated it. I could not stand it!! So I dont wear thongs. Not wearing one makes me look like a loser and i know im not one. plz help me and tell me if im sounding like a loser or if thats normal?

your not a loser. opersonaly i hate thongs and dont get why people wear them(no offense to anyone) but why you goin to be "sexy" infront of someone to actract attention. if a gyuy goin to to go out with you because you wear a thong and think that is cool then they are stupid. you would think that guys dont like they girl showing off skin to other people but these days it isnt like that. it is more like i want your ass not your persoanlity. (sometimes not always) i wouldnt consider your self a loer pbecause having something up ur ass all the time isnt fun and comfrontable. dont listen to what they say. they are just being stupid and are tryin to bring you down. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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When do you usually have a grow spurt?

13/f

5's for reasonable answers

it all depends on the person. everyones body is different and each persons body develop differentaly. but usually girls ahve it when they are 10-15 and guys get 13-18.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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What do guys like in girls? How do they like them to act? Do guys prefer it when girls make the first move or when guys make the first move? Either girls or guys can asnwer. Please help!

most guys look at girls personality and like girls that are mature and can me funny at the same time.. they also look at looks but not a lot.. some guys like it when a girl makes the first it shows that a girl is strong and confidenate and other dont. they think a guy should make the first move. so it really depends on the guy. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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(I'm 16 and a girl) Okay three years okay I dated this guy for almost a year. Well ever since we dated and broke up my friend Jon will say stuff about my exboyfriend to make me mad. Jon would say stuff about him atleast 2 times a week last year. Does anyone have an Idea of why he is doing this?

he could be doin that to get you mad and angree at him.. tell to stop and to leave you alone. if that doenst work say somethin about one of his ex girlfriends.
*~Stephanie~*

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just a quick question. i feel really dumb for asking this, but its been bothering my for a long time so what the heck. if you drink a lot of water (I MEAN A LOT) will it make your stomach stretch out and stuff? Because one time i heard about how those people who enter eating contests drink like gallons of water to make their stomachs stretch and able to hold more food. So i drink like up to 12-16 cups of water a day (4-6 bottles of water) to keep from eating everything in my sight and make my stomach full. but if it makes my stomach all stretched out than ew...does anyone know?

drinkin watetr shouldnt do that because it liek the best thing to drink and all it does is go through one end to the other so it shouldnt. i mean i drink it all the time.
*~Stephanie~*

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i had a boyfriend for almost 3 years we did everything for eachother i thought he loved me but i guess not...i found out he cheated on me 3 times and he is in the military..he got stationed in germany met a girl and brought her home..wat should i do??

seriosu not to be mean or anything but fuck him.. leave him alone he isnt worth your time and effort he proved that to you when he cheated on you 3 times. dont try to be friends it will only hurt you more. go have some fun in your life. go to a party or soemthing and meet new people. forget about him.. stop watsin time on him because then ytou will be wastin your life on someone that wont do the same for you.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so my boyfriend i went to a boy girl party and we palyed spin the boottle andi got my kirst like REAL kiss by then like an our later he give me the middle finger and told me to shove it cuase i wasnt "cuddling" with him. Then he apoligized and i gave him a chance and he was like kept getting mad at me b/c i wasnt lik making out with him. He was acting all perverted, do i dump his sorry ass. And how shloud I say it?

dumps his asshole ass. you dont need him. you neeed a guy who will repsect you and treat you right and not make you feel liek shit.
~*Stephanie~*

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