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Love hurts


Question Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 12:02 am

OK I know you get a lot of these questions but 1 more can't hurt! I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 months and I think he has a girlfriend. He gave me 3 chances and I messed them up. We're good friends. My question to you is should I forget about him? I'm always thinking of him and he moved on so quickly. I don't know if I want to move on so fast. HELP!!

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Advicelady6798 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 2:34 pm:
Cheating is not a good thing. I think you should move on. If you really cared about him you wouldnt have cheated on him right? Maybe you should move on slowly but not to fast. Maybe when he wasnt with someone he was thinking about you so he got a g/f. If he has a g/f he will be thinking about her. It would help you if you found someone else.

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Pain_Is_Love_101004 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 9:55 am:
It'll take some time but you should move on, dont necessarily forget about him, just slowly move on and start your life over without him.

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angelfire2708 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 9:20 am:
He didnt move on fast enough. He should have been gone after the 1st time you messed up. Maybe if you would have been thinking about him while you were cheating on him, youd have a clear conscious, and you wouldnt be here asking what you should do!

1ce a cheater, always a cheater!

He was smart hun to move on, i think you should too.

Good luck! Theres always a price for cheating!!

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orphans answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 4:20 am:
Answer: You need to move on. If you were really in love with him, you would have never, ever cheated on him or even contemplated cheating.


You cheated on him not once, but three times, so obviously you did not regret your actions. Since you did not regret cheating, there must have been something seriously lacking in your relationship that drove you to cheat.


Consider yourself lucky he is still decided to remain friends with you after all he went through. Sure, you are probably attached to him and enjoy his company, but it is not love if you can cheat on someone three separate times. He gave you more than enough chances. A relationship without trust will fail. Plain and simple.


Hopefully, this experience will make you a much better person, so when the next guy comes around, you will know how to treat him and not make the same mistake twice... or three times.

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CauseXandXRegret answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 1:33 am:
easy answer...don't cheat on your boyfriends! it isn't a good idea. Also you proved that you don't care about him enough to not cheat 3 times. So i say forget him he wont want you back, and next time don't screw up...sounds harsh but the truth hurts.

CauseXandXRegret

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 1:00 am:
yes.. he probably isnt over you btu you proved to him 3 times that you didnt care about him byt cheating on him.. move on and find a new guy. you messed up and need a new start. next time show the guy you love him or at least care about him and dont cheat on him.
*~Stephanie~*

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