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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Ok, this is the deal. I really like this guy and i think he kinda lyks me. But my frienz hate him, for the stupidest reason. Because they both liked him, and he said no. And now they call him an ass hole, and that if any girl likes she must be stupid or a slut. And i think thatz mean, cuz i really like him. I dont what to do. Plz, any advice will be taken. Thankz!

They're just upset because he doesn't like them. Seriously, don't listen to what you're friends think. You have to date him, not them. So don't worry about what they say. Besides, if you like him, that's all that matters.

♥TiNA

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what does dipset mean ?! lol, thanks .

It's just the name of a group. I'm pretty sure it doesn't mean anything.

♥TiNA

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ok i feel so stupid asking this but someone said this today...

"she ate her little sister out"

i know its something gross since that was everyone's reaction, but what does this mean?

It's oral sex on a girl.

And yeah, that's pretty disgusting if it's with their sister. That's incest. And if you don't know what incest is, it's sex with a family member.

♥TiNA

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this might sound dumb but im not from the US so dont know what a freshman or somophore is...can anyone help me out!!?? do you have any other names also?

many thanks

I'm assuming you mean for school.

Freshman - 9th grade.
Sophmore - 10th grade.
Junior - 11th grade.
Senior - 12th grade.

♥TiNA

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this is for a project. what music videos take place in a hospital?

Everytime - Britney Spears.
Untitled - Simple Plan.
Toy Soldiers - Eminem.
Stupid Girl - Pink.
Welcome To The Black Parade - My Chemical Romance.
This Photograph Is Proof [I Know You Know] - Taking Back Sunday.
The Quiet Things That No One Ever Knows - Brand New.
The Phrase That Pays - The Academy Is...
Buried A Lie - Senses Fail.
From First To Last - The Latest Plague.
From First To Last - Note To Self.

♥TiNA

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There's this guy, and we're like best friends and we used to like each other but agreed not to go out. but we didnt just like each other, we loved each other. he would say the sweetest things about how i meant the world to him and how if anything ever happened to me he couldnt stand it. okay so we got into a fight and kind of drifted apart and he got grounded so we couldnt talk and that made things worse. but we started talking again and i asked him if he still feels how he did about me and he said "kinda, but i want to move on" i love him so much and if he moved on i couldnt stand it. what should i do to get him to not want to leave me?

Well, if you love him enough, I'd tell him. I mean, he knows you love him, right? So tell him you don't wanna move on. It sounds selfish, but you'll never know if you don't tell him.

♥TiNA

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15/M My locker is next to someone who has some bisexual friends. There are 2 of them. The other day when school was over, one of them was like, hitting on me and saying that I'm cute and sexy and stuff like that. I'm straight, so I got a little freaked out. I am used to getting that from girls, but I'd never had someone who's gay do that before. The kid is pretty proud of be bi, too. He wears shirts that say stuff like "Don't hate, celebrate," and "Gay pride." He also wears rainbow-colored shirts and he wears make-up and acts and sounds very feminine. So it's not like he's trying to hide anything. Anyway, the other day when he did that, I got all mad and called him a fag, queerbag, and other derogatory words and yelled at him. And then, yesterday, he was standing in front of my locker, but instead of politely saying excuse me, I said, "get out of my way, you faggot," and then I grabbed him and pushed him out of my way. Then I said, "did you like that when I grabbed you, gay boy." Some of my friends said to go beat him up, but I would never do anything like that. My mom thinks that bisexuality is wrong because she thinks that people should pick to like one or the other. She doesn't hate anyone, and neither am I. I'm not against gay people. But what should I do to deal with this and what should I say to the kid to apologize? When those 2 incidents occured, everyone around was laughing at him and teasing him. I feel bad for him and I felt guilty. The rate of suicide among gay teenagers is high, and I don't want him to commit suicide and then blame me for it. What can I do to get rid of my anger? Is there counseling or anything?

I don't think you can have counselling for that type of thing, but I think you that you should ask him if you can talk to him for a minute or two.

Pull him to the side & tell him that you've got nothing against him, and that you're not homophobic. Explain to him that him hitting on you made you feel weird and uncomfortable, and that's what caused you to say the things you did. I would also try to befriend. Who knows, he might just be a nice kid and a really great friend. And it'll help you be more comfortable around gay people. Just control what comes from your mouth, think before you speak, and things should be fine. I'm sure he'll accept your apology.

♥TiNA

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This may sound really dumb but I get really nervous just before I see my boyfriend. Like I start shivering and not feeling hungry or sick and I get a weird feeling in my stomach. I usually have to pretend to my bf that I'm cold so I'm shivering. If someone asks my a question my voice trembles ans I have to swallow about 3 times during the time I'm talking. I hate it, it feels awful and I really want to be able to see him without feeling so nervous and edgy all the time. Please, does anyone know what this is and how I can fix it???

Thanks

Everyone gets that feeling. When I first met my ex-boyfriend, I was sitting next to him with my legs shaking violently. Haha, I was so nervous. I always got nervous when I went to hang out with him. You love him, so that's a natural feeling.

♥TiNA

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what's appropriate to where with flats? i just have simple black flats and i'm not sure what will look okay with them.

You can wear flats with just about anything. You can wear them with skirts, dresses, leggings, jeans...whatever you want really.

♥TiNA

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what is a 2 way i heard it in that bowling for soup song thanks XD

A couple years ago there was a pager called the 2Way. It was really popular, and I think it was one of the first mobile devices to be able to use IM or something. I just know it's a pager.

♥TiNA

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I'm thirteen years old and have been dating a really nice guy for about two months. I met him at the fair. He lives about thirty minutes away from me, and I see him almost every weekend. He never avoids me or says He doesnt have time for me, he isnt scared to show me PDA, and he doesnt talk about his girl friends much. But, I was talking to one of his friends, and he told me about this girl, who was my boyfriends best friend...and they live right beside each other. Her myspace is...weird. Where it says were she lives, she said a four letter word that starts with F, and then my city. I dont know...She isnt on his tops or anything, and I dont want to jump to a conclusion. If anyone could help, that'd be great!!

It honestly sounds like they're just good friends, and nothing more. It also sounds like he really likes you. When a guy is cheating on you, he lies all the time about where he is, or what he's doing, or says he doesn't have time.

You said your boyfriend doesn't avoid you, or says he doesn't have time. I think they're just good friends.

I wouldn't ask him about it, because you don't want to seem jealous, or controlling. If you asked, he'd probably be like "Wtf?". I'm glad you're not jumping to conclusions, because sometimes the girl ends up being wrong, and then they feel like complete idiots when they find out the truth. Don't worry about it so much. I hope things go well. :]

♥T!NA

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what is the song Milkshake by Kelis actually about???

It's about sex, basically.

♥TiNA

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what does it mean to say that someone wears their heart on their sleeve? thank.

It means you're very in touch & open with your feelings. Usually everyone can tell how you feel by looking at you. It's not bad, but not necessarily good either.

♥TiNA

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i would like to know if using a viborater well you are pregnant can harm your pregnancy?

I don't really think so. My cousin said that her doctor recommended sex during pregnancy, so she does that. So, a vibrator shouldn't make any type of difference. So go ahead! :]

♥TiNA

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I have been going over and over the lyrics to Fergies song London Bridge! And I know that the song is sexual in nature and I just want to know what she is talking about! Thanks!

I don't really like her, and I think she should just drop dead and end her career completely, but that's an opinion, so...Let me actually answer this:

What she's trying to say is that she's a lady around other guys, but when she's around the person she loves or whatever, it makes her skanky because she wants to be noticed.

But that gives off the wrong message because you shouldn't have to be a slutskankwhorebag to have the guy you like notice you! :]

But in her case, she does because she's not too pretty, and she has no talent.

♥TiNA

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Does anyone know where I can get these shoes?

http://i13.tinypic.com/3yp18o8.jpg

I know for a fact they're not Keds, or Vans.

Please help! Thank you. ♥

You can pretty much get them anywhere. But I'd try Hot Topic.

♥TiNA

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i am 13/f and i was wondering if i am supposed to shave my pubic hair? When are supposed to or should?

thanks

There's nothing that says you're really supposed to, but I guess it's better if you did. It's not like recommended or anything, so it's fully your choice. =]

♥TiNA

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what are the symptoms of autism and what causes autism?why do some people have it and not others?
I have a cousin who has autism he's 2 years younger than me he's about 15 years old and when i went to school the other day i punched somebody in the nose becouse they tried to beat him up and i was thinking in my head no they did not just slap my autistic cousin what should i do?

I googled it for you to learn more. My friend did a presentation on Autistic kids today for my Parenting class, but I wasn't paying attention. I was too busy thinking. Anyways:

Doctors really don't know what causes Autism, but they're still doing tests to find out.

Characteristics of a person who has autism:
- They dislike change.
- They can sometimes have very violent behavior.
- They throw tantrums & prefer to be by themselves.
- They have a certain object they love, and prefer to be close with it. If you take it away, they'll flip.
- When they speak to you, they make little or no eye contact.
- They spin objects.
- They don't like to be touched.
- They have no real fears of danger, etc.

Some people have it, and some people don't, because everyone is different [obviously], but only 1 in 100 [I'm estimating] are born with it. But other than being born with it, it develops in early childhood. Another thing, people with Autism look like us, so you can't really tell unless you watch their behavior carefully. Sometimes you can tell, but in most cases you can't.

♥TiNA

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okay, so i feel REALLY stupid asking this, but..
everyone talks about girls having "crabs" & all.. but what exactly ARE they?? because idk. i feel stupid that i dont know, but i have to find out somehow, and i figured this would be the perfect place to ask.

ps, i didnt know what category to put this under :x

Not only girls have crabs, guys have them too. Anyways, crabs is the slang term for pubic lice. Don't feel stupid for not knowing. Most people probably don't know anyways.

♥TiNA

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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering.

It depends on what type you wear. If you wear cologne that smells like AXE or TAG, then yeah, it's attractive. But if you were something that smells like a father or a grandfather would wear, then it's kinda weird and drives them away.

Personally, I love it when guys smell good. It makes me wanna hug them. =]

♥TiNA

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