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How do you look out for a cheating Boyfriend?
I'm thirteen years old and have been dating a really nice guy for about two months. I met him at the fair. He lives about thirty minutes away from me, and I see him almost every weekend. He never avoids me or says He doesnt have time for me, he isnt scared to show me PDA, and he doesnt talk about his girl friends much. But, I was talking to one of his friends, and he told me about this girl, who was my boyfriends best friend...and they live right beside each other. Her myspace is...weird. Where it says were she lives, she said a four letter word that starts with F, and then my city. I dont know...She isnt on his tops or anything, and I dont want to jump to a conclusion. If anyone could help, that'd be great!!
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It honestly sounds like they're just good friends, and nothing more. It also sounds like he really likes you. When a guy is cheating on you, he lies all the time about where he is, or what he's doing, or says he doesn't have time.
You said your boyfriend doesn't avoid you, or says he doesn't have time. I think they're just good friends.
I wouldn't ask him about it, because you don't want to seem jealous, or controlling. If you asked, he'd probably be like "Wtf?". I'm glad you're not jumping to conclusions, because sometimes the girl ends up being wrong, and then they feel like complete idiots when they find out the truth. Don't worry about it so much. I hope things go well. :]
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That's good you're not jumping to any conclusions. Most girlfriend's would just follow their suspicions, going nuts over it, and then it turns out they might not be cheating on them after all, adn they're left feeling like a huge moron.
It sounds to me like they're best friends, and nothing more. If they're not even on eachother top thing, maybe they're not even as good of friends as the person mentioned.
If you really feel the need to, ask him about her so you get more of a feel for her and who she is. Maybe even add her on myspace and get to know her better. Once you realize she's really nice and everything, you might feel more comfortable with the fact they're friends and that he's not cheating on you. I wouldn't ask him straight out though, if he is, because that'll show him that you're having trust issues. Just slowly ease into mentioning it during a serious conversation.
I hope I helped.
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