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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

Whenever i try to watch a myspace video it say "Hello, you either have JavaScript turned off or an old version of Macromedia's Flash Player. Click Here to get the latest flash player. "
I've tried turning on my video thingy, but its not working


What do I do to make it work??

I would download the latest flash player. Your version might not be the newest, so the video will probably work best if you upgrade. :]

♥T!NA

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can i get anything from starbucks? im 13. i heard it was really good and stuff.. but quite expensive, too. but what are some good things on the menu.. that perhaps arent so expensive? like the coffees and stuff. i wanna try cappuccino cuz the name sounds good. does that taste good? also all those frauppuccinos and etc, lol. thanks!

There's no age limit on starbucks. Unless you wanna employ there, then you've gotta be 18. But to drink anything off the menu, no. Anyways, whenever I go, I get a vanilla bean. It tastes like a vanilla milkshake & I love it. :]

♥T!NA

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In the song We Fly High by Jim Jones, there's a clip of another song at the beginning. Does anyone know what song that is? I tried googling it, but no matter how i worded it, the results never helped me. Thanks.

You're probably thinking of "Reppin' Time."

♥T!NA

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So this year, in my class.. I have my friend, Terry and this girl, Katie.

Terry has been my friend for almost 3-4 years. We were at the same middle school so she knows me.

But this new girl, Katie... is really weird.
Our class is Biology.

And since I had to retake .. I'm aware of all the things we have to do. Katie.. is a baby about it. She won't touch things or work with us. I'm quite tired of doing things by myself. She often comes into Terry and I's group.

She's annoying sometimes, assuming everything about everyone.. and she doesn't even know me.. and she talks about me like she does. It just bothers me.

So in this lab before.. she didn't know what she was doing and I was trying to explain it to her.. but she was messing up our slides. So I took over and Terry said at lunch.. Katie said she hated me?

I didn't really care because I need good grades this year. And if I have to do things myself, I must do so. After that I let her lead the group and we had this drawing thing to do.

She made us start over 3 times so I took the paper home and did most of the work. She got mad at me. Even though I left work for all of us to do.

I may sound mean. :I

Terry stole something off of Katie. I was laughing at Terry because she's a funny person. The whole stealing thing wasn't my idea. So Katie noticed her missing things and while I was laughing at Terry.. she thought it was me! She called me a bitch and came up to me cussing me out. "Give me my fu*king things!" so Terry put the items on my desk under my bag. And I would not move because obviously it looked like I stole it.
And my word against hers.. is poo. So Terry took the blame and Katie still seems to hate me? She said she was sorry but I know she somewhat hates me.


I don't know what to do.
I work well with my friend Terry but not someone that doesn't pay attention in class and almost destorys our experiments. We have this egg project and we had to leave an egg in a beaker full of vinegar. Yeah? Well she takes out the egg and just.. throws it onto the table when the teacher said not to 3 times. And if there's a crack.. we can't continue the lab.

We told her not to touch certain liquids and then she got skin eating liquid on herself.. and she blamed me! I don't know how she got it on herself because we all touched the same beaker. (There was a blister)

I don't know what I'm doing wrong. She's annoying me and my friend now.

What can I do? Do I sound like a bitch or something?

If being a bitch is what it takes, then do it. Don't sugarcoat what you have to say to avoid hurting her feelings. She's pissing you off, do it back. Tell her exactly how you and Terry feel. That she's a baby, and that she's extremely annoying. Tell her to get her act together while she works with you, or she can work with someone else. If she's gonna whine, complain, do everything different, and get pissy when you try to help, let her do the damn experiment all by herself. Let her fail. And if she hates you because of it, then so be it. You don't need her anyways.

♥T!NA

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how come everyones attracted to blonde boys??

Not everyone is attracted to blonde guys. I, for one, prefer dark haired boys. But blondes are cool with me too. Just, no red-heads. It's ugly on a guy.

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What's the difference between a hotel, a motel, and an inn?

A motel is a piece of shit. An inn is just a little higher than that, and a hotel is a money raper. Meaning it rapes you of your money since it's like 395730578385 million dollars per night.

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There's a song my friend played to me and he won't like tell me who sings it or what's it called for some reason. Sounds good, it goes something like:

"I make it "something something...", "I make it..."

Sorry if this isn't helpful but it's rap and this person like says "I make it..." like over and over.

It's called "I Make It Rain." It's by Fat Joe ft Lil Wayne.

♥T!NA

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if you click on someones myspace picture will it show whos looking at it

Not unless you comment. =)

♥T!NA

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Ok...I'm 15/F and I was wondering if it would be a good idea to tell my mom that I want to go on birth control just in case something happens between me and my boyfriend. Or should I go on it when I am positive that something is going to happen? And do you think it's ok for a 15 year old girl to lose her virginity or do you think I am too young? Thank you.

I think it is a good idea, but if your mom is the type of person to flip out about stuff like that, I'd tell her you'd want birth control to ease your period some. But if she's the type of mom that understands, I'd just tell her the straight up truth. I'd go on it just in case, that way you don't have to rush to get it. But then again honey, there's always condoms.

Honestly, the only person who can answer your last question is; you. Ask yourself this: Are you mentally, physically & emotionally ready for sex? Are you comfortable with your body? Are you scared? Are you having doubts about it?

If most of the answer to those questions are a no, you shouldn't be having sex. But it is totally & completely 100% your decision. Don't let anyone influence you to do something you don't want to. I'd seriously think about it for a while. Because usually sex can complicate things & make the relationship hard. But if you do decide to do it, make sure you know all of the consequences, and make sure that you're completely comfortable with it, and that you wanna do it completely.

♥T!NA

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I like to wear band tees but that looks rather plain. Is there any way to spice up an outfit while I'm wearing these tshirts? I really like supporting the bands but I dont want to look plain or boring.

I usually wear mine with a necklace or some really cute earrings. I wear headbands too with my bangs out. As for jeans and shoes, I usually wear skinny jeans with either my ballet flats or my vans. It looks super cute. :]

♥T!NA

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what are all the things sims do as kids?

They go to school, do homework, have friends over, play with each other & toys, have their first kiss if they're a teenager, and they do everything an adult sim does. Eat, sleeps, uses the bathroom, watches tv. :]

♥T!NA

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I love music, but I'm sort of getting sick of the same old bands. I like pretty much anything, but I like emo, screamo, acoustic, and like softrock or powerpop you knowww. But I'll listen to anything. Does anyone know of some really good bands/songs ? THANKS!!!!

Armor For Sleep.
Cute Is What We Aim For.
The Academy Is...
Brand New.
Senses Fail.
Saosin.
Hellogoodbye.
Gym Class Heroes.
The Fray.
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Underoath.
Say Anything.
Sugarcult.
Taking Back Sunday.
Down To Earth Approach.
From First To Last.
Paramore.
30 Seconds To Mars.
Anti Flag.
Angels and Airwaves.
Coheed and Cambria.
Breaking Benjamin.
Greeley Estates.
Head Automatica.
A Heartwell Ending.
Lostprophets.
Less Than Jake.
My Chemical Romance.
The Used.
Plain White T's.
Motion City Soundtrack.
Cobra Starship.
The Sounds.
The Hushsound.
Panic! At The Disco.
Papa Roach.
The Pink Spiders.
Silverstein.
Three Days Grace.

♥T!NA

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whats a mosh pit?how do you start one?{at concerts)

It's a pit of people that push/shove/punch/stomp other people. It usually consists of guys, but brave girls do it too. I don't advise it though because it'll piss the other kids who are trying to enjoy the concert off, and hurting people for fun is stupid. Also, I've seen kids leave those things with bruises, broken bones & blood.

I was at Warped Tour this past August, and I was enjoying the show while the dumbasses behind me almost broke my ribs from pushing up against me and pushing me into the barriers that seperated the fans from the music artists. >:[

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all my life I have been judged by so many people. Im a nice person. I dont like being mean to people unless their mean to ME... I alway thought I looked pretty when I looked in a mirror, but sadly, nobody agrees with me. Everyone thinks im ugly! This ass named CJ is spending the night at our house and its only because he's on vacation from California and we have known him since kindergarden.... I was a stupid retarded little girl in Elementry school... I didnt know any better. I was always chasing guys for fun.... and now that we are in High School, I thought I had changed so much from then, but CJ said I havnt changed at all, and just now, I was upstairs watching tv, and Colton started a fight with me about how a chopper was a motercycle and not a helecopter (it can be both) but they his little friend joined in the fight and THEN the little bitch told me to shut up because I was annoying! it all started when the little booger wanted to play my brother's PS2, and I was watching tv, and these little twerps wouldnt stop making fun of me, and THEN my brother's little friend told said "Brittany told me your a dork" (he said it to me before, but when I asked Brittany, she said it wasnt true because she dosnt tell her brother ANYTHING) and im starting to think that everything everyone is saying is true.... I dont know why everyone is so mean..... I have dreams, but there crushed under the feet of my stupid brother, and CJ, and my sister Hollan, and EVERYONE! Hollan wont stop taking my stuff that little brat! Im a triplet, and my sisters have always been telling me "Thats why WE have boyfriends" and I havent gone out much, but my first bf was a fony... He asked his friend to ask my SISTER, Cher out..... but he accidently asked ME out instead, and I said YES! WHat was I thinking???? Well im really in a bad mood right now because today was also the day my dad made me do the dishes and he's not even getting the two little boys into trouble! its just me! Just because Im the older kid, dosnt mean that he shouldnt care about ME.

My family is soooooooo horibble... Me and my brother and sisters fight all the time, sometimes my mom even crys about it. But my sisters are bad people... They sneak out and stuff like that, and it makes me mad because they think their nold enough to have sex and all that (but I dont know if they have done it yet) but their the kind of people that think they get every boy they want... and the truth is.... they do... they get all the boys, and Im stuck inside.... Just today, I came outside and Hollan's all like "Go the fuck away! No one wants you here" and I just came out there to hang out with her friend Ali....

Everyone treats me like SHIT! I even bought my sister HOllan a $40 jacket at American Eagle Outfitters.... AND SHE'S STILL AN ASS!!!!!

(im not trying to brag) but Im a nice person! I dont like to be mean! I dont like to make people cry! But no matter how nice I am to people, they are always mean to me! THey call me names like dork, nerd, geek, and my sister even calles me a prude! It really makes me mad...

I remember I got in a huge fist fight with my sister Hollan on the front Lawn, and Monae and Ali and ANika were all watching and they didnt bother to do anything! I have been picked on my whole life and im too nice to do anything about it! I mean I usually dont fight back because I know I'll lose.... I always lose.....

I dont know what to think of myself now.....

I know exactly how you feel. I would just be a bitch right back, because once you start standing up for yourself and whatnot, they'll see that they can't walk all over you. I know you don't like to fight, and you've been picked on all your life, but if it takes being a complete bitch back to them, I'd do it. I don't take anyone's shit, and if people don't like me, that's their problem, not mine. :]

♥T!NA

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okay, i am dead in the middle of the classic issue of being in love with your best friend.

lets call him Joe.

joe and i got really close really fast. my friends say "we just click". and i can see it too. when were together we're inseparable and when were apart we talk all the time. he tells me a lot of things he doesnt tell his other friends, even the ones who have been there forever.

but just recently, joe has become more "attractive", much more attractive..and now girls are alll over him..and guys, too. And ive liked him since the first time we hung out..before his grand transformation. and im afraid hes going to end up with someone who only talks to him NOW beacuse of his looks.

i dont know what to do.

i dont want to tell him because im terrified of rejection and i would MUCH rather have him as my best friend than not at all.

but id also like to know, beacuse sometimes it FEELS and LOOKS like he may like me, but other times..it doesnt.

and my feelings get stronger everytime we talk.

any ideas?
thanks a lot :]

15/f

Aww, I'd definitely tell him. It'd suck to go through life having to wonder what being his girlfriend might've been like. If you think there's a chance he likes you back, there more than likely is. I'd just tell him because it'd suck to wonder what your life would've been like. Rejection does suck and everyone is probably scared of it. Also, he probably feels the same. Maybe he likes you but hasn't told you for fear of rejection also. Just tell him. The worst that could happen is that he just wants to be friends, or you guys stop being friends all together.

♥T!NA

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what does it feel like to be high when you smoke pot? like.. how do you act? how do you feel? thanks!

Well, it's different for everyone. Some people are totally calm & just sit there. Others, like myself, laugh at stuff that's not even funny & talk about stuff that makes NO sense. You get really hungry, and you get serious cotten mouth. And then you get tired. It's pretty much the same everytime. Yet, you'll laugh/talk about completely different things. Usually, you won't remember any of it, but sometimes you will.

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Ok so my friends do these things they call bashings. It's where we sit in a circle and tell esch other what we don't like each other. I hate it i think it's ridiculous casue i feel like their trying to stream line me so i'm some form of perfect friend robot.
They say it's so we don't talk behind each others back. Whenever i say i think it's stupid and it hurts me they just say i'm so sensitive and can't handle critism.
What do you think is it a good idea or stupid?
What should i do?

I think it's both a good/bad idea. It's good because you know what's bothering them about you, and so they don't talk behind your back. Also, it's completely upfront, forward & to your face. But then again, the truth hurts & critsism does hurt. :/ If you don't like doing the bashings, don't do them. You shouldn't have to if it hurt your feelings.

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what are some signs of depression?

Some signs of depression [I know from personal experience, so I can list many.]:

- eating a lot, too little or not at all.
- rarely sleep, or sleep all the time.
- thoughts/attempts of suicide
- worrying a lot.
- lose interest in things you love/enjoy.
- sad a lot, or always crying.
- hopelessness.
- poor communication, isolation.
- low self esteem, or none at all.
- temper is easy to trigger
- frequent absences from school/poor effort at school [this is if you're a teen]
- poor concentration
- threats/efforts to run away
- alcohol/drug abuse
- self injury
- low energy/consistent boredom
- complaints of feeling "sick."
- increased amounts of stress

If you have more than 5 of those symptoms, you probably suffer drom depression. And I would contact a doctor to get anti-depressants. I'd also talk to a friend, or a counselor to get help. :] Talking eases everything.

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Is there any way to make your boobs look bigger? I know, awkward lol, but i'd love to know....

Don't stuff your bra. Buy a push up bra. It pushes them up [obviously], and makes them look bigger/fuller.

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Ok here's the thing, I no I'm not a lesbian because I get turned on by guys and I love to "hook up" with them, but I do things with girls and I get just as turned on... I don't like dating girls I just like having sexual incounters with them... I think it is a stupid question but I wanna know.


--Syd

Well, there's a chance you could be. But then again, maybe you're just curious. I would try having a relationship with a girl to see if you like them as more. I realize you don't like dating them, but it'll help you to figure your sexuality out. :]

♥T!NA

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