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Classic Problemsss
okay, i am dead in the middle of the classic issue of being in love with your best friend.
lets call him Joe.
joe and i got really close really fast. my friends say "we just click". and i can see it too. when were together we're inseparable and when were apart we talk all the time. he tells me a lot of things he doesnt tell his other friends, even the ones who have been there forever.
but just recently, joe has become more "attractive", much more attractive..and now girls are alll over him..and guys, too. And ive liked him since the first time we hung out..before his grand transformation. and im afraid hes going to end up with someone who only talks to him NOW beacuse of his looks.
i dont know what to do.
i dont want to tell him because im terrified of rejection and i would MUCH rather have him as my best friend than not at all.
but id also like to know, beacuse sometimes it FEELS and LOOKS like he may like me, but other times..it doesnt.
and my feelings get stronger everytime we talk.
any ideas?
thanks a lot :]
15/f
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how can he reject you when your just trying to look out for hi hee this is gonna be your ltter you can write tohim
dear "joe "
i had to write you a letterbcause i didnt want you to get mad at me.lately you have becoe more attratve and you got guys and girls from everywhere al over youDOnt get me wrong thats good andall but i just dnt wat them to only talk to you becuse your attractiv.Your my best frind and i just dont want to see you get hurt.and lso i have liked you for awhile and i was wonderng if you felt the same.becuaseifyou do then i would loe to go out sometime
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lzzie
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to start off..i kind of know how you feel...
I have a guy friend i'm really close with who i can tell anything to and he can tell anything to me, and I liked him too, just like you.
and a lot of other girls started liking him, too.
and then my feelings started getting stronger.
and it seemed like he liked me.
You really should tell him how you feel, because this kind of relationship is special..like i love having my guy friend around..i just feel happier. get what i'm saying so far?
so like i said, tell him how you feel becasue you obviosely don't want to loose him to some random girl.
cauue if he feels this comfortable around you and trust you like this, then he probably wouldn't want to lose you either.
who knows, maybe you guys will end up together.
i hope you do.
ps..this happened to me back in like June, and i'm still with the guy :]
hope it helps, && if you need more help, hit up my inbox :]
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Aww, I'd definitely tell him. It'd suck to go through life having to wonder what being his girlfriend might've been like. If you think there's a chance he likes you back, there more than likely is. I'd just tell him because it'd suck to wonder what your life would've been like. Rejection does suck and everyone is probably scared of it. Also, he probably feels the same. Maybe he likes you but hasn't told you for fear of rejection also. Just tell him. The worst that could happen is that he just wants to be friends, or you guys stop being friends all together.
♥T!NA
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Awww, that's cute.
There are some easy ways to find out if a guy likes you:
1) Blushing
2) Treats you different than any of his friends or other girls
3) His guy friends has some strange interests in you, it means that your crush has talked to them about you.
Flirt with him constantly. Start small though, but make it noticeable. Like, giggle at his every jokes, sweetly smile at him, make full eye contact, little hints that tells you you're interested in him. If he responds a little negatively... it means he doesn't like you. If he doesn't notice, or responds positively, start to go to the next level and start doing stuff like looking him head to toe (make sure he sees you!) and stuff. Be affectuonate!
XOXO
-Jenny C ♥
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AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!Tell him how you feel. Wouldnt you hate to go on with your life wondering if you two could be a couple? Besides it sounds like you both have a great relationship that could withstand more than a simple crush - but perhaps your feelings go deeper than that. And if they do, then I seriously recommend to confront them before it becomes too late and you loose him. I mean I'm sure you'll still have him as a friend - but not as the 'more' that you want 'Joe' to be.
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