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This girl.
So this year, in my class.. I have my friend, Terry and this girl, Katie.
Terry has been my friend for almost 3-4 years. We were at the same middle school so she knows me.
But this new girl, Katie... is really weird.
Our class is Biology.
And since I had to retake .. I'm aware of all the things we have to do. Katie.. is a baby about it. She won't touch things or work with us. I'm quite tired of doing things by myself. She often comes into Terry and I's group.
She's annoying sometimes, assuming everything about everyone.. and she doesn't even know me.. and she talks about me like she does. It just bothers me.
So in this lab before.. she didn't know what she was doing and I was trying to explain it to her.. but she was messing up our slides. So I took over and Terry said at lunch.. Katie said she hated me?
I didn't really care because I need good grades this year. And if I have to do things myself, I must do so. After that I let her lead the group and we had this drawing thing to do.
She made us start over 3 times so I took the paper home and did most of the work. She got mad at me. Even though I left work for all of us to do.
I may sound mean. :I
Terry stole something off of Katie. I was laughing at Terry because she's a funny person. The whole stealing thing wasn't my idea. So Katie noticed her missing things and while I was laughing at Terry.. she thought it was me! She called me a bitch and came up to me cussing me out. "Give me my fu*king things!" so Terry put the items on my desk under my bag. And I would not move because obviously it looked like I stole it.
And my word against hers.. is poo. So Terry took the blame and Katie still seems to hate me? She said she was sorry but I know she somewhat hates me.
I don't know what to do.
I work well with my friend Terry but not someone that doesn't pay attention in class and almost destorys our experiments. We have this egg project and we had to leave an egg in a beaker full of vinegar. Yeah? Well she takes out the egg and just.. throws it onto the table when the teacher said not to 3 times. And if there's a crack.. we can't continue the lab.
We told her not to touch certain liquids and then she got skin eating liquid on herself.. and she blamed me! I don't know how she got it on herself because we all touched the same beaker. (There was a blister)
I don't know what I'm doing wrong. She's annoying me and my friend now.
What can I do? Do I sound like a bitch or something?
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be a bitch about it. she doesnt deserve to treat you like that. And dont go off easy on her either. if she is blaming you for everything that you do then dont cut her no slack man comeon.she is being a bitch to you you need to be a straight up bitch back i aint kiddin either.i dont mean to sound harsh or straightforward or anything but it can just get on my nerves when people annoy me or other people. I hope that i helped which i prolly didnt so sorry if i didnt.=)
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If being a bitch is what it takes, then do it. Don't sugarcoat what you have to say to avoid hurting her feelings. She's pissing you off, do it back. Tell her exactly how you and Terry feel. That she's a baby, and that she's extremely annoying. Tell her to get her act together while she works with you, or she can work with someone else. If she's gonna whine, complain, do everything different, and get pissy when you try to help, let her do the damn experiment all by herself. Let her fail. And if she hates you because of it, then so be it. You don't need her anyways.
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I would be compassionate here towards her as she is clueless when it comes to socializing and does not have those skills. She sounds like she needs friends pretty desperately. I have the feeling that she has no idea how she is coming across to others here. She may have a learning disability where being boisterous, beligerant, and social inept is part of the problem.
Nobopdy said you had to be her friend or work with her. Pick your own partner and make sure she finds someone else if you are concerned about your science or group work. Odds are, the teacher knows the girl messed things up, tries to take control of everything etc. and has marked the three of you differently.
If concerned mention to this teacher how she is impacting you and your partner's work negatively and let the adult handle it here in a tactful way. She may have more problems to deal with than you know. Be friendly towards her as you'll attact better things from her with honey than vinegar.
As for her hating you, she just might be saying that out of frustration or think that you dislike her. I don't know, and you are not sure so I would not worry over it. All of this will sort itself out if you show no signs of reacting to it or being troubled by it.
Treating her badly like she did with you will get you nowhere and into even bigger a problem that the two of you are experiencing now with her. It gives her ammo too if a teacher talks to her on your behalf as you're being the same way she is.
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you dont sound like a bitch, but you do sound like you're a bit of a perfectionist. which is completely understandable, seeing as this is the second time you're taking the class, and you want to get good grades. maybe you should try assigning everyone something to do before starting the lab, and give her something easy to do (something that would be hard to mess up). Some people are not that great at socializing with others, and she could be one of those people, which might be why shes so annoying. And also, even though you're not wrong, apologize to her while explaining that you take this class really seriously because its your second time, and you want good grades. Like you said, she doesn't know you, so maybe if you explain things..you guys could work things out, and who knows maybe she'll end up being a really close friend.
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You dont sound like a bitch, but im about to.
Tell her ass to take a seat!! I dont even know this girl and i dont like her!! Treat her like she treats you so she can see how it feels, if she dont know what shes doin, dont tell her in a nice ways since she dont seem to understand it when you try, let your emotions show. You cant let this girl treat you like this because all she will do is continue to do so. Let her know that it is not ok and you dont approve. Don't worry about her hating you, jus worry about passing your class. You dont need a friend like her to like her. The next time she doesnt something that the teacher says not to confront her ass right there in front of the teacher and straigh out tell her, you dont need that shit from her.
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