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This confuses me to the point where it makes me sad.
Ill explain the situation.
A guy.
Me and my friend both like.
We all know eachother VERY well.
He claims he hates both of us.
He told me he didnt hate me anymore,yet he told someone else he did.
He tells he hates her and he likes me as a friend.
Yet, he wont talk to me at school.
But, sometimes he talks to her.
Usually , he'll try and get my attention but not talk to me.
Or when we are together, he will do something to her and not me[for attention],he'll just like give me this stare.
oh yeah, i forgot to mention that both of us did sex kinda stuff with him, but i did it more and he said he would do it with me again but not her.
But at the same time, at school he would call me fat and etc.
IS this kid on drugs or what?
I need help , this is always making me sad.
And your gonna say to move on, i try and i try and i try,
i cant get over this kid.
Ive liked him ON and OFF for 3 years, but this time has been the most
thnks
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i think that this guy is just not emotionally ready to handle everything that is going on right now in his life. maybe not i dont know. but to me it sounds like he does like you and your friend but he doesnt want to show it in front of his friends so he tries to hide it by telling his friends thsat your fat. i dont think that you should move on because the same thing is happening to me right now but i think that you should confront him about it and ask him y.i hope that i could help.=)
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yeah as the other 2 people said, he is a jerk. You deserve someone way better. A guy who will compliment you, and make you feel beautiful instead of saying your fat. Which girls DO NOT like. Hes just using you and your friend probably because he knows you will do stuff with him, even if hes being a jerk...hope i helped!!! and good luck
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okay well this guy sound a lot like this guy that i like.....well i think right now he is going through a lot of emotional prblems and he may like you but is just afraid for anybody to know and he think that if anyione found out they would laugh......he is trying to decide what to do as for your friend i don't know it sound like he is just usng her but i don't know...i hope i helped
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Why would you want to be around someone who puts you down and makes you sad? This guy doesn't want a relationship with you, he's just trying to keep you interested in case he wants a random hook-up, and he's playing you and your friend. The only thing I can suggest is, pick up a new hobby, and I know that sounds weird but if you're doing something new, and putting a lot of time into it, then you won't be thinking about him.
You deserve better, and don't let that jerk make you believe otherwise. :]
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It doesn't sound like he likes you at all. It sounds like he is using you--and probably your friend--for sex. This boy is mean and cruel. Stay away from him as much as possible. He is making you depressed; he is making you feel bad about yourself; he is not worth it.
I know you can find someone more worthy of your time.
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I think he's trying to deal with a lot of problems at once. One would be emotional. One would be peer pressure. One would be just life itself.
He may have some friends that he wants to hang with but they (sorry, this will sound mean) might dislike you and make fun of you in some way or another and he may feel pressured to say "Oh I hate her, she's ugly" blah blah just to fit in.
He could also be confused at where you guys stand. Like you guys had sexual activity done previously and now he's just confused as to maybe what he should be like around you guys. Guys say girls are complicated..heh. They should speak for themselves at times.
I think that you and your friend should take a time out with him. Talk with your friend so you guys have no misunderstandings right now. Then tell her this plan too:
Tell this boy to sort things out. He's going back and forth between being a friend and a total jerk. He needs to sort out what he's feeling for who by himself before he starts to act up again. Tell him that if he doesn't straighten out his thoughts and stop being rude, he's going to lose both friendships and the friends. No one should deserved to go through such things as this and he shouldn't allow that to happen to people he consider as friends.
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