This is a long story but please read it I need help. My current boyfriend Kahn had a gf when i started to like him. He liked me too and we decided to go out when he dumped his other gf who was one of my good friends. But before he dumped her people found out what me and hi were planning to do. We ended uop going out but then i dumped him cause i didn't like him anymore. Then i started going out with robbby who i REALLY liked but all my friends started saying i was a slut to him. so we broke up and then i asked out Kahn again, even though i don't really like him. Should i dump him AGAIN, or shuld i stay with him because i dont want to be mean????????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? livelaughlovexx25 answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 9:34 pm: My personal opinion is that you give yourself a break from guys for a while. If you don't really have feelings for Kahn, you should break up with him or at least take a break so you can get your stuff together. It's not fair to him if you're dating him and he likes you more than anything and you don't like him much and have your eyes on other guys. As for Robby, you shouldn't listen to what other people have to say, unless they are your close friends whom you full trust, and even then, they may be pulling something on you. You aren't a slut, and I'll leave it at that. Take my advice or leave it. If you need more, just ask.
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duckieh20lol answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 1:09 pm: dear u,
I think you should not go out with any of them you dont like any of them it seems to me that you ain't ready to go out with anyone give yourself a break for a while you will feel better after a while.
Elcee answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 4:54 am: My suggestion is you go out with neither of the boys. Give yourself a break from romance for a month or two. Maybe in that time you will meet someone else that you really like. There is no point in going out with someone that you don't like very much in the hope that it will get better. Just explain to Kahn that you need some time to yourself and it would be better to stop seeing each other for the time being. Good luck. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
ductape_n_roses answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 1:36 am: Okay, first of all if you're going to vaciallte among guys because of what people say, you're never going to have a good strong relationship.
And another thing, you're not a slut. Your crush on him simply went away and that's all and Kahn should be the one being criticized for dumping his gf for another one.
Anyways, give Kahn a chance. Go out iwth him for as long as you think you can endure. Who knows, you might start liking him again. If after a month of going out and you still don't lie him like that again, go and ask Robby out [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
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