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Does it mean I'm bi when...
Ok here's the thing, I no I'm not a lesbian because I get turned on by guys and I love to "hook up" with them, but I do things with girls and I get just as turned on... I don't like dating girls I just like having sexual incounters with them... I think it is a stupid question but I wanna know.
--Syd
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ok.i'm just gotta get straight with you.if you are having sex with girls you are bi.
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hey, well it seems like you are bisexual. unless your just curious and like to feel the rush of hooking up with girls. since you dont want a relationship with a girl, i think your just curious. which is perfectly normal. but you do show some signs of maybe being bisexual.
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I honestly think you are
or atleast bicurious
that's how I am, i'm fine with hooking up with guys, but not dating them. I like to date girls
I'm bi.
so yeah, yr bi.
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You are, in some ways, bi. By having affections towards girls as equally as you do to guys, you are bisexual.
And it's not a stupid question. So don't worry.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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If you enjoy sexual intimacy with both male and female partners, then that's pretty much the definition of "bisexual." So, yes, that does mean that you're bi.
As for why you prefer dating guys to girls, that's really not that surprising. Our society is pretty much based on the idea of men and women forming couples, and that includes the dating scene. It is simply a lot EASIER for a hetero couple to date and have a good time together than it is for a same-sex couple. Consider: if it were possible for you to date another girl, hold hands with her in public, do a little limited PDA, send and receive flowers, and everything else WITHOUT any social stigma, might the idea be more appealing? I'm guessing it probably would.
So, in a nutshell: if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's a duck! If you like sexual encounters with either gender, you're bi!
Remember, though, that's just a label. It's not an identity. You get to decide when and how it applies to you.
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Well, there's a chance you could be. But then again, maybe you're just curious. I would try having a relationship with a girl to see if you like them as more. I realize you don't like dating them, but it'll help you to figure your sexuality out. :]
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