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Why is it that whenever a person tells another person a secret or something ...some kind of news.....and that person is close to the other person...and no matter how much you BEG them...and PLEAD NOT to tell the secret...they still ALWAYS do.

What does this mean? Should I stop telling people secret stuff?...I mean....How can I NOT?....I tell my own SISTER stuff....and she spills the beans.


How can this be stopped?


What should I do if I crave to let my emotions and secrets out? Because there's a lot building up inside of me over time. And I can't be trusting of ANYONE anymore...since like all of them (the people) basically stuck a fork up my ass. And backstabbed me with a dagger.

:( (link)
you could chat with someone you don't know like on aim or yahoo! messenger, it won't matter if they tell someone, its not like they know you, or you could write it down, in like a letter to someone and just don't send the letter.


hope i helped :D


do girls fart?
or anything else among those lines? (link)
yaaaaaaa, everyone does, but people just say its "un lady-like"


how do you draw a picture and put it on here in a question?what website and how? (link)
1. Draw it on PAINT [Start, accesories, "paint]
2. Save it
3. Get an account on PHOTOBUCKET.COM
4. Find you picture (at photobucket) by clicking BROWSE
5. Click upload
6. Copy the URL
7. Paste the URL in your question

Any more questions-- just ask.


does anyone know where i can get and ipod video that takes photos at a resonable price? (link)
they don't make ipods that actually TAKE photos but the make ones that hold photos you already took. its called a video ipod. you can buy one from an apple store near you or you can order one online. if you buy it online you can get it engraved for free, but the actuall i pod depends one what size you get, heres the website with all the prices and everything...........

http://store.apple.com/1-800-MY-APPLE/WebObjects/AppleStore.woa/wa/RSLID?mco=E2DBC1A0&nclm=iPod


i want one.
im to embarresed to get one.
and i dont want my parents knowing that i have one.
and like what kind should i get ect.

thanks.
13/f (link)
go to the mall with your friends and buy it and dont show your parents.

if your not allowed to go alone, have a friend who is pick one up for you.

dont put it in the laundry. hand wash it, and hang it up in a secret spot to dry.

dont be embarassed. we all wear them.

hope it helped!



more info* victorias secret has the best and there in every mall. they have regular lowrise thong and v-string. since its you first and they can be uncomfortable, id get the regular one to start.


if you only eat two meals a day or eat only breakfeast you would loose alot of weight right.? (link)
not eating three meals a day, will not help you. if anything it will harm you. your metabolism will become slower, and you wont burn calories as fast.

if your looking to lose weight,
-ration you portions.
-cut back on snacking
-eat healthy
-excersise!

and i also just learned this trick:
- using smaller plates can help you control how much you eat :)

if you need more specifics, ask me again.


Where can I buy Ed Hardy shirts & how much do they cost? (link)
edhardyshop.com
macys
bloomingdales & nordstroms.

the signature tees are 62.00 i f thats what your looking for but they have long sleeved, collared and other shirts too.

if you want them cheap then go for ebay.

and i dont know if you have a century 21 ( the clothing store, not the real estate company) or a lohemans near where you live, but they sell them there at really good prices.

hope it helped :)


Ok, so now that I have got your attention, I would like to ask you guys if someone would PUH-LEASE tell me a site where I can see the hottest trends...kTHXbyez. (link)
http://fashion.about.com/od/latesttrends/Latest_Fashion_Trends.htm



LOL nice title.





does anyone know about thought waves and their frequencies and the fact that whatevre thoughts yo think will happen

is that true (link)
umm, i don't think that if you think something, that it will happen. if ut really did, then people would be dying like every second of the day, from people who like are mad at them for something and they like wish they where dead or moved to indiana (lol i dont no where i got that part) but if you think something, it does NOT mean it will happen, but if you work towards something you want to happen, then it can.


Would there be a reason as to why my yahoo email page would have a toolbar to change the font size or color in an email or have the ability to put a smiley on my Windows computer, but will not show up on my mac computer? There's no toolbar, and i was wondering maybe if that had to do with the fact that it was a mac computer. If not, how can i get it? thanks! (link)
ya, the email does not have any smileys :( i hate it bcus i used to have a pc but, macs are still better i think, yahoo MESSENGER has smileys and u can change the font.




hope i helped:D


Well, I know what TSS Is, but how do you get It? It says the symptons of it on the instruction thing. My friend said you can get TSS from having the tampon in for too long, because the blood just sits there and it drys up...But then again my friend who said It Is a Guy. He might be right, I don't know.

Can anyone tell me how people get TSS? (link)
basically its when you have a tampon in too long, bacteria will build up. if you keep it in for longer than 8 hours, there will be waaaaayy too much bacteria, and then you go into a "toxic shock"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toxic_shock


I was just wondering..is it possible to change your eyes? i want them to look like this:

http://img233.imageshack.us/img233/7503/sharingan111fm.jpg

i searched up som images on google and i saw some people with them or it could be the fact im really gullible and they must hav editted the pic so good or used somthing to change the pic to fool people but i dunno. so anyways is it possible? will it hurt? do they sell them at stores so you can buy and possibly design your eye yourself or do you hav to see like som sort of eye specialist to do that for you and how much will changing your eyes cost? its not that i dont like my eyes, i like them, they hav dots too but a lot and at a lot of places and they creep people out when i pop them open which is kind of fun but i just really like the design of that eye on the pic. i really hope its possible. -^_^- (link)
You can get cosmetic/non-disposable/non-corrective contacts. That means, they have no lenses or whatever to make you see different, and they can be re-used forever. They do not correct/damage your vision. I have a pair.

http://eyechange.com/index.php?cPath=28

http://trycolorcontacts.stores.yahoo.net/

http://www.expresscontacts.com/cart/prod_detail.asp?category_id=124&product_id=1302&pgtxtid=2

http://color-my-eyes.com/c-3-ambition.aspx

http://www.lensdesign.ca/cosmetic.htm

http://www.prettyeyes.org/



i want a good, yummy energy drink for a long day tomorrow. preferably something that's most like pop. the only one i've tried is red bull, and i didn't like it that much. is the monster drink any good, or the mt. dew drink, whatever it's called? i'm a super picky eater so i just mainly want something that'll taste good-- any suggestions? (link)
I absolutley LOVEEEEEEE Monster! You should deff. try it!


When you went to High school, did you meet a lot of new friends? Or did you tend to stay around the same people you hung around with in middle school?


thanks =] (link)
I stayed with my friends but when you go to high school, there is a bigger opportunity to make friends. There are parties and dances to attend to. You can make friends here. When you get to high school, there are grades older than you so you can make friends in classes also. There are activies after school which you can meet friends.
I kept my friends, but made new friends also from many other grades than mine.


ok i need a boy friend i havn't dated a guy in like 2 yrs so i need help soo it would be nice if some people gave me advice.

Thanks, Bailey (link)
Slow down. Not having a girl for 2 years is normal. What kind of girl are you? Some phyco? Boys are a little part of life. Don't let it take over your life! You see, now in your life, you just want a boy. Boys have taken over your life! Don't let that happen. If you want a boy that much, don't go online and ask for help! Go looking! Don't be in a hurry wanting a bf. A bf is like riding a wild roller coaster. Your happy or your sad. That's all.


I have this friend, and I've known her for... my whole life, however I'm not sure how much I can trust her with things, because I don't feel like her friend sometimes. I feel as if I'm second best; a last resort. If I'm there, I'm always there: reliable as always. It's like she considers me around to serve a purpose, and once that purpose is gone she doesn't want me any more. I need to know how to communicate this to her, and not make her angry/annoyed with me, and make her think I'm just being harsh and overly sensitive. I'm not going to just drop her, because I really do care about her, I just need to know how to speak with her about it. (link)
Your friend is sometimes egocentric. This is a serious problem becuase if you don't talk to her, she will use you and if you do, she will get very mad and will be difficult to speak to.
You have a few choices which you might have to sacrifice.

1. Stop being friends with her- She's using you, being used is very pleasing.
2. Talk to her- If she was your real friend, she will understand. Maybe it's just her personality.
3. Do nothing

Hoped I help. If I didn't, very sorry!


Ok I tried doing sit ups but I couldn't like sit up! I'm really skinney but I just have some fat on my belly I'm trying to get rid of so when I tried to sit up only like my boobs and above could go up and I couldn't go up any higher! (link)
You can't be an expert at sit ups in one night. It takes a lot of practice. Do it every night. Do a little farther each night and your abs will be stronger.Possibly all that work, your stomach fat will be gone.


In what hole do you put a tampon in bc ive asked my sister and she tells me the same thing the one in the middle and its easy to slide in but i cant seem to find it and ive tried searching with my finger but i cant find it!
its like i only have 2 holes!


anyone an tell me or at least a pic bc im like stupid (link)
soooo what you should do is sit down in front of a full length mirror and spread your legs.
im sorry, but i cant tell you WHERE to find it exactly, its too hard. but what you do, is you start to choose a place where there is a lot of blood, and push slightly for about 20 seconds (20 REAAAAL seconds!!) if you dont feel it giving in or see it goign in, then you just move slightly down more. if you have your period, the blood will make it easy to slide in. if any of this is slightly unclear/need more help feel free to ask! im an EXPERT on tamponss haha =]


When you went to High school, did you meet a lot of new friends? Or did you tend to stay around the same people you hung around with in middle school?


thanks =] (link)
could be either. i personally lost my old friends a bit and got newer ones, like since im in advanced classes im friends with all the sophmos (iiiim a freshman!) and i sort of stopped seeing my old friends and we sort of drifted =[ which im sad about
haha buuuuuuuuut some people will keep there old friends (most will)


wen i put a tampoon in it hurts..i no its not suppose to. does anyone no anything htat i cood be doing wrong? ive tried various times.also wen i pee it usually falls down.hwo long shood i keep it in for. HELP MEH PLEASE.xoo thanks (link)
your not puttting it in all the way!! push it in as faaaaar as you can, so that it might even hurt at first! but then itll settle. you shouldnt be able to feel it AT ALL and it DEFFINANTLY shouldnt be falling out. if you do it right, it'll be comfortbale!!
so just remember as FAR as you can! and you'll be good =]




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