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ok i need a boy friend i havn't dated a guy in like 2 yrs so i need help soo it would be nice if some people gave me advice.
Thanks, Bailey
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Slow down. Not having a girl for 2 years is normal. What kind of girl are you? Some phyco? Boys are a little part of life. Don't let it take over your life! You see, now in your life, you just want a boy. Boys have taken over your life! Don't let that happen. If you want a boy that much, don't go online and ask for help! Go looking! Don't be in a hurry wanting a bf. A bf is like riding a wild roller coaster. Your happy or your sad. That's all.
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Put in some effort! Try to met new guys. Go to clubs, parties, join teams, get involved in your community etc. Im sure there will be a ton of guys there, and your probably have something in common! The only way to get a guy is to put yourself out there.
Good luck!
-Abby
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Meet a guy you are interested in try to flirt. first start off as being yourself. Then ask him to go out with you. then later after yall dating you will have a boyfriend hope i help cause this never fails me trust me.
remember be yourself!!!!
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If you want just any boy, then there's nothing special about that. Wait, your time will come. If you're so desperate, maybe you should TRY to get one...
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Are you really not that confident that you need a guy to feel like you are complete?
Sounds like you should feel good about yourself before you get a guy.
Guys are attracted to girls who are confident with themselves. At least the guys who are worth going out with and that you want a meaningful relationship with.
So I suggest that you do not date for awhile. It's not the end of the world. As well as guys can tell if you are desperate for a boyfriend.
Learn how to build up confidence. Hang out with your girlfriends. If you don't have any, then maybe you have been paying too much attention to guys and need to work on your friendships.
For year girls have been trying to be known individually and it's a long war. So unless you want to turn back time and live a life where you need a man to get anywhere, take our advice. And as well as a great relationship is where you both are equal and you are there to support each other, like friends.
Join a club where you can show people your ideas and feelings as well as putting yourself out there and trying new things. Be known for these things instead of the girl who is going out with "that guy".
Try and make an effort to make new people that you would not think of hanging out with. Make friends with guys as well as girls. And when we say "friends" with guys.. we mean it as friends. Do not try to hit on your friends..
The time will come when you are confident enough to find your own great boyfriend and you won't need our advice. But if you ever need another tip on being more confident or anything else, feel free to come to me and ask.
Remember, be your own person, not "his girl".
Love Angie91 and her friend Stephanie
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