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Telling secrets to people.
15/f
Why is it that whenever a person tells another person a secret or something ...some kind of news.....and that person is close to the other person...and no matter how much you BEG them...and PLEAD NOT to tell the secret...they still ALWAYS do.
What does this mean? Should I stop telling people secret stuff?...I mean....How can I NOT?....I tell my own SISTER stuff....and she spills the beans.
How can this be stopped?
What should I do if I crave to let my emotions and secrets out? Because there's a lot building up inside of me over time. And I can't be trusting of ANYONE anymore...since like all of them (the people) basically stuck a fork up my ass. And backstabbed me with a dagger.
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Just don't tell them.. tell them things you dont mind being spread and tell them not to tell so they dont think you just dont trust them anymore. keep a diary or talk to someone you know from out of state... i have a diary and have some close guy friends from where i used to live and they keep my secrets because there's no one to tell because they are in a different group of friends than me or just really far away. try that or meet a new friend online and just tell them stuff that you cant tell people around you. don't tell them your name and all that stuff, just your "adventures" or "news" if you need anything else, lemme know. <3
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you might want to keep a diary of some sort.
if your friends and siblings have stabbed you in the back, most likely, they will do it again. If you need to let your emotions out you could keep a journal or something in your room and write down all of your secrets. Just make sure you hide it really well, and don't tell anyone you have it, or they might just go looking for it, and tell people your secrets.
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Try writing all your emotions and all your "secrets" in a journal or diary of some sort. That way you can get it all out with no chance of anyone spilling. Eventually you will find that one best friend who you can tell everything too and they never spill. It just takes time to build up a very strong friendship. Hope I Helped.
~Morgan
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Just to add onto someones answer, its a great idea, but like she said if you dont have a pet...well, you can tell a stuffed animal :)
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Tell a pet. I'm pretty sure they won't say anything. :]
Sorry if u don't even have one, causing this advice to be completely useless. :/
But in that case, writing in a journal or something like that might be helpful. :]
♥ Erin
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you could chat with someone you don't know like on aim or yahoo! messenger, it won't matter if they tell someone, its not like they know you, or you could write it down, in like a letter to someone and just don't send the letter.
hope i helped :D
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