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i was informed by email that i had a new question in my inbox, so i logged on and the inbox link was bolded and had (1) next to it. when i clicked it, it said i had no unanswered questions. my email tells me it was sent at 3:00 pm this afternoon, and i havent answered any questions asked from today. how can i get my question back? :(? -ask_anything (link)
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Yeah, M.. could be right, or maybe that person who asked you the question went to the "Your Questions" link on the left hand side panel and decided they didn't want to ask that anymore, so they deleted it themselves. Possible. Oh well, I'm sure if someone needs your advice they'll drop one in your inbox again! :)
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My computer has this virus but im not quite sure if it is a virus... What it does is put this site in our AIM profiles http://www.clicknewsnewnet.net/news/articles....
that is not the site because i didnt want any1 to click on it but anyways im not quite sure how to get rid of it....any help would be greatly appreciated..thanks (link)
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USUALLY those AIM-linked viruses are something called the Trojan Virus. It's actually very common right now. It can even eat through your protective walls of like an anti virus (Ie: Noton Anti-Virus) Also, these virusues are basically like Spyware which is also harmful to your computer. What you need to do is download a free spyware detector off the net. (Check goodgle for the one you like the best) Then it will show you how many viruses or trojans or spyware you have and what and where it's affecting it. There's also software you can download to remove it or you can purchase it at a place like Best Buy. That should take care of the problem. Another solution would be to have your computer reformatted. You could have someone come to your house or take it to a place, but that can be more costly though it would ensure a clean computer. Also, after you get rid of it. get an Anti-Virus protector on your computer (Like Norton Anti Virus). Good luck! :)
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My 14 yr. old brother will be turning 15 soon and I was wondering if anyone knows where I can buy him some vintage t-shirts (i.e. Atari, Nintendo, etc.)? Thanks! (link)
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OMG! I know the place! VALUE VILLAGE!! They are SO cheap and have a TON of vintage tees. I think they have a website. valuevillage.com? But if you don't have one near you try Tees.Com they have a wide variety of tees (vintage and non) Good luck! :)
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well my mom was tellin me we would have to go to the gyno really soon.whats an normal age to go to the gyno.sry i dont know much about this (link)
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It really just depends on personal readiness and each different girls case. Like a friend of mine went when she was 14 because she was having bad cramps. But it's probabably more likely that girls go at least once that have started having their period. It's no big deal really. Just relax! I think I was like 14! So If you've had your period before or are at least 14ish then yah it's a normal age. But some girls don't go until like their 18s to 20s. Just depends. :)
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I recently had my pap smear and the results came back fine. My doctor said that the Pap smear was normal. I did not have the HPV, but this is were I'm confused, she told me to go back for another testing in 6 months because they found changes in the cells of my cervix.
Thank You So Much for any information that you can pass on to me.
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Hey there. Well, don't be totally freaked out. That happened to my mom about a year ago and she's fine. It's often times as a women ages that her body develops "things" that weren't there when they were younger. That doesn't mean you have cancer or anything like that. Like for example some women have breast calcifications as they age, and that's totally fine so long as they don't move, grow, or cluster. The same is the case for you and your cervix. You may have something on it that they just wnat ot keep an eye on that MAYBE if it were to grow, increase, or cluster, it could then be potentially dangerous. It's good that they told you 6 months. They told my mom 1 month. And her case wasn't that severe she just got that area biopsied just for her own peace of mind. I would suggest MAYBE getting another opinion though just to calm yourself. My mom goes on the johnshopkins.com website for all this kind of stuff. I am sure you are going to be fine though. This happens to tons of people. Good luck and best wishes! :)
Note: Nope, I'm not a doctor. But my mom has or has had almost every medical problem you can think of so I guess I'm "aware". And you are more than welcome, I was glad I was able to maybe at least help in the slightest. I know how frustrating it can be..a lot of those doctors just want to get you in and out nothing more. Thanks for the nice note, and take care! :)
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i wanna b a chef but i always burn things so should i b a chef? (link)
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Of course you could still be a chef if you feels like that's what you want to do. All you need is a lilttle more practice, faith, and determination!! That and some hard work too! But I am sure you can do it. Like Michael Jordan was a water boy for one of his basketball teams and look how he turned out! :)
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I'm not the type of person who belives in going out and looking for a date. I belive you should become friends first then see if you can take it futher. I just recently feel for a close friend, and she turned me down. For some reason im taking this one really hard. What can i do to get over this and move on? 18 m (link)
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Well, first of all, what you are feeling is 100% natural. Everyone feels down when they have been turned down. It's a part of the process of rejection. Maybe this time you have taken the rejection so much harder because of the fact that she is one of your close friends. Maybe a part of you though that she had the same mentality and opinions about the way to start a relationship and so now you are not only disappointed that you got shot down, but that your friend didn't play her part of the cards right. That's okay, life doesn't always go how we want it to. You can't let tha fact effect who you are and effect you from living your life. You need to put this behind you, get back on your horse, get out there, live your life and have some fun! Keep thinking positively and don't hold this incident against your friend. Things always work out for the best. Go see some movies with the boys, volunteer, help a friend in need, donate, work, play, swim, write, read. Anything. Take action. With time, this feeling will pass and you'll be out n' about again. If you need some1 to talk to I'm always here as well as all the 3,000 + other users. :)
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whats a good screen name for me becuz right now im like brain dead and i cant think of one and i really need you guy(s) help right bout now so come on please help me out here!! thanks a bunch!! (link)
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Here are just a few for you:
-LilmE13
-LiLchIcKe
-BraIndEad4
-CutiEpyE88
-oopsyDaiSy
-wilDtHinG54
-HeLlraIser22
-LoVinLife56
-YouNmE123
-NeVeRlEtGo87
-PhysCoFreak
If you need more let me know and if you need more be sure to provide a lil' info about yourself. :)
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I am going deer hunting for the first time this year with my dad. It is going to involve me, sitting on a bucket for 8 hours a day for a whole week! What are some good books, or other things that are quiet and light to carry that will occupy me for that long!! (link)
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There are tons of things you could bring:
*Magazines-Sports illistrated,car mags, people, us,tabloids, gold magazines, hunting magazines..or whatever else you boys read..my brother reads mens fitness! haha
*Books-Sadako and the thousand paper cranes, a seperate peace, of mice and men, crucible, paris hiltons book!! omg do that!! jane erye, to kill a mockingbird,etc.
*Deck of cards
*Walkman/portable cd player
Have fun, if you need more ideas, let me know! :)
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What do you do when you feel like the whole world is against you!!!! thanks! (link)
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Well, first off...DON'T FEEL ALONE! EVERYONE feels like that at times. Haha, I felt like that last night. I was all crying and everything, but then I thought about the kind of advice I'd give to someone on here if they were in the same position. You can't EVER let other peoples, words, actions, choices, perceptions effect you. Or you will never get anywhere in life and you'll never be happy. The thing to do is just make the best of what may seem like a crapola situation. You need to dig deep within yourself and use the strength God (or whomever you believe in) gave you. Our higher power puts us through trial and tribulations to help us come closer to him and grow, experience, and learn. Also, you can't let others know they have gotten the best of you. When you are feeling like this the best thing to do is to LIVE! Get out there and have some fun. Be true to who you are. TaKe ChAnCeS. TeLL ThE TrUtH. DaTe SuM1 CoMpLeTlY wRoNg 4 U. sAy No. SpEnD aLL uR mOnEy. FaLL iN LoVe. 4GiVe SoMe1. Be ThAnKFuL. Be RaNdOm. SaY i LoVe YoU. ScReAm OuT LoUd. SiNg iN ThE sHoWeR.LaUgh aT StUpId JoKeS. CrY. GeT ReVeNgE. aPoLoGiZe. Be SpOnTaNeOuS. GeT iN a CaR N DrIvE. TeLL SoMeOnE HoW mUcH ThEy MeAn tO YoU. StAy uP aLL NiGhT. HoLd On. LeT gO. QuIt Ur JoB. TrY sOmEtHiNg NeW.DoWn A bEeR.cRy OvEr bOys. PuT ThE PiEcEs BaCk ToGeThEr. LaUgH TiLL uR TuMmY HuRtS. HAVE FUN! LiVe..:-D That's a quote I found somewhere and I try to live by it...err minus the beer part usually! Also, it may help to talk to someone, even if it's just your fish or writing in a journal or prayer. Things will get better. They have to. Dig deep hun. :)
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Does anybody no any cute hair styles i have blonde hair that is alittle bit below my shoulders something besides just putting it down thanks ill rate good ones!! (link)
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There are tons of things you could do:
-All types of head bands (skinny, patterned, thick,etc)
-Sum up some down (Ribbon optional)
-Side ponytail- (Ribbon optional)
-Pony tail (Ribbon optional or one of those thin headbands with it)
-Pig tails (Low or high with or without ribbon)
-Braids (French or regular)
-Fancy up-dos with butterfly clips
-Scrunched then put it any style like down sum up pony pig anthing
-Wavy then do anything to it
-Curled with curling iron and then do anything to it
-Crimped
-bandana in it
-sum up sum down pig tails
For more ideas you could buy one of those hair style mags at the store! :)
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hey..i was wonderin does anyone know of any self-tanners that aren't too expensive and work really well? my homecomings in a week and i dont wanna look pale white with my open-back outfit! (link)
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Hey! Well you have to be careful what self-tanner you use because you don't want ot look fake and orange. There's a GREAT self-tanner called Toma's Tan Perfect that use to be advertised on the HSN but now is available at Walgreens and some other drugstores. It doesn't streak, applys in a brown form so you can see what and where your applying it, and it's water proof! It's about 10-15 dollars I believe. Bit it's so worth it. Also, don't go to a tanning bed because that can cause skin cancer, but if you go to a tanning place you can try Myst on Tan. It's like 10-15 dollars a visit and it works reallt well and it's safe. :)
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Does anybody no some good stores that sell some basic cute shirts or does anybody have a good shirt that would look good on me i have blonde hair and im tall (link)
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Well it depends on two things: Your style, and your budget
If you need some cheap cute kinda preppy ish girly girl shirts try:
-Wal Mart
-K mart
-Target
-Academy
-Dots (See dots.com for locations)
-Deb
-Value Village
If you're kind of punky/gothic or just like all different styles and have a little more to spend try:
-Hot Topic
-Gadzooks
-Body Shop
If you're into what cool in school and want to look like cookie cutter like everyone else and want to spend a lot try:
-American Eagle
-Aeropostle
-Abercrombie
-Hollister
-Express
-Wet Seal
-Urban Planet
Have fun shopping! :)
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okay in like 3 1/2 hours my next door neighbor is having a birthday party and im invited. i have no clue what to get him! hes 12 , likes baseball , basketball , rap ! any ideas? (link)
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Well, there are tons of things you could get him:
-Money
-Baseball accesories (Ie: baseballs, bats, gloves, cards, games, shirts, etc)
-Basketball accesories (Ie: basketballs, mini basketball goal, cards, games, etc)
-Cd
-That basketball board came called like hotshot basketball I think?
-Video ghame for basetball or baseball
-posters of his favorite baseball player, basetball player, and or rapper
*Also, may sure to get him an nice card that correlated with the present!* :)
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ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do? (link)
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Well, if I were you, I would wait.. A LOT longer. You have only been dating this guy for a week; even if you are begining to love each other you couldn't possibly know each other enough to love each other to be ready to do somethign serious like have sex. Also, you need to be careful. Often times guys tell you exactly what they think the girl wants to hear in order to get what they want. Don't fall victim to that. Take care of yourself. You may aslo justr think you want to have sex now because your bf does and you want to make him happy. Is that the case? Also, are you and your boyfriend ready to take on issues like: possible pregnancy, stds, aids, ruined reputations, broken faith, etc. Sex is a big deal. You really need to think about it heavily before you o through with it. If there's any doubt in your mind, that's reason enough not to do it. And remember, the choice is ALWAYS YOURS. NO ONE ELSES. You have to know when you are ready-sexually, mentally, physically...Sex is a mature thing, so think about that. Be safe! :)
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I'm concerned about my relationship with my husband. He is a fabulous guy and I deeply, deeply love him. I just don't want any kind of physical relationship. That doesn't mean I want a physical relationship with someone else - I don't. I just enjoy our time together and his support and friendship. What's wrong with me??
I'm 40 and have been married to him for 16 years. (link)
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First off, it's great that you love your husband and are committed to him. If you still feel that way even after 16 years that even more great. It's often times that women or even sometimes men lose interest in thier companion sexually. Especially as we grow, learm, experience, and age we just need that special someone to fufill our mental needs not really physical. So I don't think anything is TOTALLY wrong with you. But on the same hand, there needs to be some kind of physical attraction and chemistry to keep things going. Although, with that said, if both parties are not looking for a sexualaspect to a relationship, then I'd say you don't have any problem at all and you two should continue going about being each others support system. But by the way you wrote your question, I get the impression the lack of sexual interest is mainly on your part solely. You need to ask yourself a few questions:
-Is it because you are feeling unattractive about being 40 and feel as if he would not find you desireable?
-Did something happen to you in the past sexualally (by anyone) that has turned you away from sexual life?
-Is there some huge burden looming over you causing you from wanting to be romantic and sexual?
If these are true for any of you, I'd say you need to fix them as soon as possible.
Communication is key. Even though it may be hard, you need to talk these things out with your husband. **Even if none of the abovem entioned things are the reason why. That's not fair to him if he is interested in the sex. Talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. Also, another resoswrt would be to seek marriage counseling to further get to the bottom of it. Or, you could just see a shrink on your own. But the most important thing is to tell your husband exactly what going on so he doesn't feel clueless. Tell him both positive and negatives. Positiveb eing that you love the time together and etc. Negative being why you don't want sex. Try at least one of my suggestions to hopefully get through this. Best of luck! :)
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well, my best friend courtney shes like the best ever shes always been there for me, i like love her .. you know as a BFF, but in school she USED to be popular, but everyone started hating her, and she doesn't have many friends, and everyone picks on her, well in her livejournal comments the popular stuck up people write stuff about her to make her feel bad about herself, liek callen her a horse (i duno why) fat or something, but i think shes perfect, i ALWAYS stick up for her, like ALWAYS, am i doing right? I mean is this gunna gimme a bad reputation in school jus because i always stick up for her (btw, she got homeschooled this year because she got picked on by everybody, and she has depression and stuff)i think i am doing right by sticking up for her since shes my BF, but would u do it. please help! ~confuzzled (link)
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IN SHORT: YES YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING! People like you are of a dying breed and you should be really proud of yourself. Your friend is so lucky to have some1 that is willing to stick up for you. So what if it ruins your reputation? You should still do what's right even if you are the only 1 doing the rigth thing. Don't getr caught up in all that childish drama and bullshit. :)
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My hair right now is a little past my shoulders and for me, it's long. I was thinking about growing it out longer to about the middle of my back and then cut it to a little past my chin and donate my hair to Locks of love. My question is, what is the minimum in inches of hair you can donate? Thanks for the help! (link)
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Hey there. That's reallt nice that you want to donate your hair. Here are some guidlines for donating your hair:
We accept 10" minimum hair length (tip to tip), not wigs, falls, or synthetic hair
Please bundle hair in ponytail or braid.
Hair needs to be clean, dry, placed in a plastic bag, then padded envelope.
We need hair from men and women, young and old, all colors and races.
Hair may be colored or permed, but not bleached or chemically damaged (if unsure, ask your stylist).
Hair swept off the floor is not usable.
Hair cut years ago is usable if it has been stored in a ponytail.
Hair that is short, gray, or unsuitable for children will be separated from the ponytails and sold at fair market value to offset the cost of manufacturing.
You may pull curly hair straight to measure the minimum 10".
The majority of all hair donated comes from children who wish to help other children.
Layered hair may be divided into multiple ponytails for donation.
Please note: Anyone can cut your hair as long as the above guidelines are followed.
Go to locksoflove.com for more info! :)
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does anyone have any notes on the book sadako and the thousand paper cranes? pleez. i rate up to 10! even 4 trying i will rate high! (link)
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HEY! Omg I SO read that book when I was like in uhm 3rd grade i think and the only reason I remember that isb ecause it made me cry so hard!!
You should really read the book and not rwely on internet notes, but here are a few links you might want to check into. (But iot's seriously one of the best books ever!)
http://www.sadako.com/
http://www.sadako.org/sadakostory.htm
http://japan.lisd.k12.mi.us/resources/jumppages/sadako.html
Read the book!! :)
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hii im the one that asked you about what 2 be for halloween and u gave me alot of good ideas... but im 15 and im tiny like 5'0... =/ i dont want 2 look like a lil 10 year old slut but i want 2 look cute... (link)
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Hey there. Hmmmm well I think if you were like a LIL' DEVIL that would be both cute n' sexy and suit you well. You could wear like a black or red skirts and like a lil bow tie and horns and a tail with like a red spaghetti strap shirt. You could also go as like a movie star and get all decked out. You could also be an angel but wear a skirt with it to make it cuter and sexier..or you could go as a cowgirl!! cute cute! If you don't like those let me know and I'll think up some more for ya!! I'd go with the devil one! :)
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