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ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do?
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Its up to you to so if you love him back you could do it but if you are not ready yet you should tell your boiifrind that you are not ready dont be affraid. You should go out longer more than a week becasue a week is too short for just doing sex! So when you are ready just tell him he should understand.
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You shouldnt even be worried about if he loves you or not. Youve been dating a week and your considering having sex with him? think about this..You are a bouquet of flowers. Everytime you sleep with someone, some of your flowers wilt. What would you rather present to your husband one day? A beautiful full bouquet of flowers, or a handfull of steams? Think this through some more. Base your decision on what the signals are in your head, not between your legs.Sorry to be so blunt, but i dont want to see you make such a mistake and get hurt.
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no one knows what love is til there older but to help with you if he wears a condom then do it all you want but make sure of no dieseies first.
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woah woah woah.. back the truck up here! a week and he's already said he loves you? uhhh i think you're going just a little too fast here now. sex is a BIG thing and a week is definately not long enough.. even if you two are soul mates in the end.. hah.. saying that you two are.. how will another few MONTHS change that?
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depends on the person. in most cases the guy just wants some ass. a week is kind of soon for love, so i mean if you want to have sex with him than you should, but dont get up hopes up for him really being in love! good luck w. the relationship!! x0x0x
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Wait a bit- I don't know how old you are but you really can't know this guy that well if you've only been going out with him for a week, and he doesn't really know you either. Honestly, wait at least a month. Even with a condom and/or birth control, you can still get pregnant and/or get an STD.
Hope I helped!
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You should not have sex with him this early. Love takes time. It doesn't just happen as soon as you go out with somebody. DO NOT have sex quite yet. Wait like a month or something.
*Randy*
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well hmm u want to have sex w/ him n yall only been together for a week n his already saying he loves you...i find that kind of odd! but u know ppls feelings are all different!
~b
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Umm i dont think that you can fall in love in a week or even 2 weeks.i don't think you should because your moving to fast and you never know once you do things will change after.but if you feel that you really want to i think you shoud be pact with protection.well i hope i helped.
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hey! i duno if he really loves or if he's just saying it because he wants to have sex with you. if you guys were friends before, then it should be easy for you to see if he's telling the truth. however, a good way to find out if he really cares about you would be to make him wait a little while, like a month or so. it should not be difficult for him if he truly loves you. hope i helped and good luck with your new guy! peace and love!
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Haha. Unless yall were best friends before yall dated, then he doesn't love you. That's a lie to make you want to have sex with him more. If you want to have sex with him then do it. But, I don't think its a good idea.
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You've been together a week..and he is already saying he loves you? Hmm.. Well if you think you can trust him, then go on& believe him. But don't have sex with him unless you truly believe that he loves you! Just don't be surprised if after you two have sex then it gets incredibly awkward& you break up. Be safe! Goodluck hun!
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I'm a huge fan of waiting until marriage, but I realize that most people aren't. However, I don't think a week is long enough to get to know each other enough to fall in love, yet alone be thinking about having sex. It sounds to me like he's telling you what you want to hear so you'll have sex with him. If he really does love you he'll be willing to wait. Another thing you need to think about is all the risks that come with having sex. There's pregnancy, STD, and your reputation to consider. Condoms are only 97 percent affective in a perfect world. In the real world they're actually about 80% affective. You need to consider these chances before you make a decision to take your relationship farther. If there is any doubt in your mind, then wait.
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You 2 have only been together for a week!! And you don't even KNOW if he truly loves you. This guy is probably some perv that's trying to get in your pants. And if you choose to have sex with him wait like a year before you have sex with this dude! -Hope I helped!-
[Emmy BoO]
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*He doesn't love you. He's using you for sex. End the relationship.*
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wait a little while longer you gotta remember that you have been going out with him only for a week let him get to know you a little better and i also think yes you should believe him becasue you two wouldn't be going out together if he didn't love you.
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wow, just a week? Okay, if you ask for my true advice, pre-marital sex is wrong, but thats because i have strong beleifs on that topic...which goes into religion and morals. but anyways, you've only been with him for a week, i really think you should a bit longer. YOu can try other sexual stuff, but just going all the way all of a sudden is too fast dont you think? and you don't even know if you beleive this guy taht he loves you....so how can you be so sure you want to take such a big step with him already? I think you should wait longer, get to know him better girl, this way you have nothing to lose and if he says..."if you wont do it with then ill leave" ... let him...trust me.
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Hey...well since its only been a week or so...I would just call it sex and not love making...and he's probably telling you he loves you because...usually girls(sometimes guys) feel closer to that person, making it more special you know..by having that said...you naw mean...? And sometimes the guy might feel obligated to say that to his sexual partner. You naw mean? Well just remember to play it safe.k have a nice night..peace!
--PinoyBoi
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Well, if I were you, I would wait.. A LOT longer. You have only been dating this guy for a week; even if you are begining to love each other you couldn't possibly know each other enough to love each other to be ready to do somethign serious like have sex. Also, you need to be careful. Often times guys tell you exactly what they think the girl wants to hear in order to get what they want. Don't fall victim to that. Take care of yourself. You may aslo justr think you want to have sex now because your bf does and you want to make him happy. Is that the case? Also, are you and your boyfriend ready to take on issues like: possible pregnancy, stds, aids, ruined reputations, broken faith, etc. Sex is a big deal. You really need to think about it heavily before you o through with it. If there's any doubt in your mind, that's reason enough not to do it. And remember, the choice is ALWAYS YOURS. NO ONE ELSES. You have to know when you are ready-sexually, mentally, physically...Sex is a mature thing, so think about that. Be safe! :)
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