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well, my best friend courtney shes like the best ever shes always been there for me, i like love her .. you know as a BFF, but in school she USED to be popular, but everyone started hating her, and she doesn't have many friends, and everyone picks on her, well in her livejournal comments the popular stuck up people write stuff about her to make her feel bad about herself, liek callen her a horse (i duno why) fat or something, but i think shes perfect, i ALWAYS stick up for her, like ALWAYS, am i doing right? I mean is this gunna gimme a bad reputation in school jus because i always stick up for her (btw, she got homeschooled this year because she got picked on by everybody, and she has depression and stuff)i think i am doing right by sticking up for her since shes my BF, but would u do it. please help! ~confuzzled
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Who cares if it gives you a bad rep? Courtney has always been there for you, now you need to stick up for her. Defend her WHENEVER you hear someone pick on her. This a time when you dont put yourself first, but your friends. Hope Courtney is ok! Good luck!
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Your a great true friend. Your absolutely doing the right thing. Always being there for her. She might not show it, but I'm sure she really appreciates you. Never care about what people might think of you, since you know your doing the right thing. You shouldn't care about what others say. Their just being immature. People like that like to put other people down because their insecure about themselves. Keep doing what your doing!
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I'm in the same situation babe, it's ok I promise, you always, always, always stick up for people who have been there for you. As for her being homeschooled that's too bad, because it's like running away from your problems. But yes I would do it, and I DO do it. You are doing the right thing girl. Stick by her.
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yes you are doing the right thing. yes this will most likely give you a bad rep. if you care more about your rep than your friend then stop sticking up for her and join in. if you care more about your friend then keep sticking up for her.
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in my opinion, you are doing the right thing. because if she is your friend. and you are her REAL friend you will stick up for her and not care. people like you are hard to find today.. but as long as there are friends like you out there the words best friends forever will always live
*-* PrI *-*
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First of all, you sound like a great friend. You're doing the right thing. It's a sad fact of life that many people will put others down to try and lift themselves up. The best thing for you two to do in my opinion is to try and rise above it. Realize that those people are childish and hurtful, and you don't need to listen to them, or care what they say. If their idea of a good time is harassing a poor girl, then they aren't worth your time(and really, how pathetic are they to harass her in her livejournal?). I wouldn't worry about what they think. It's far more important to be a good person and do what's right, than it is to join the crowd and make bad decisions just to fit in. Stick by your friend. It sounds like she needs you.
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IN SHORT: YES YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING! People like you are of a dying breed and you should be really proud of yourself. Your friend is so lucky to have some1 that is willing to stick up for you. So what if it ruins your reputation? You should still do what's right even if you are the only 1 doing the rigth thing. Don't getr caught up in all that childish drama and bullshit. :)
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