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Getting over it
I'm not the type of person who belives in going out and looking for a date. I belive you should become friends first then see if you can take it futher. I just recently feel for a close friend, and she turned me down. For some reason im taking this one really hard. What can i do to get over this and move on? 18 m
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awww...i 'll go out on a date with ya! lol ummm maybe ur friend didnt want 2 loose ur friendship since ur close friends. dating good friends is always hard cuz after the break-up u 2 may never go back 2 normal. u can do alot of things.... but i would suggest finding some1 new... haha seriously it will take ur mind off her instantly. hope i helped ya! and uR oK! xOxO, aLeX
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Aww, sweetie I dunno, everything happens for a reason, remember that, that just shows that you two weren't meant to be, make it known you are available and then just try to think about her as much as possible, the more you think about her the more sick of her you will get, just let it out babe. Hope I helped
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i know how u feel.recently i was goin out with my best friend.but then i noticed he wasnt my type so i broke up with him.mayb she feel that ur not her type but shes not the only girl so try gettin over her.look gor another date mayb that will help u to get over her!!hope i helped.
---valerie
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i know exactly what you mean ... friends of mine asked me out, but i turned them down too. mainly its because when you become friends first you like each other in a different way that you cant imagine you two going out, maybe that is why she turned you down, or maybe she didnt want to lose you as a friend, in case the relationship didnt work out... you guys can still be friends, remember theres other fish in the sea =)
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Well, first of all, what you are feeling is 100% natural. Everyone feels down when they have been turned down. It's a part of the process of rejection. Maybe this time you have taken the rejection so much harder because of the fact that she is one of your close friends. Maybe a part of you though that she had the same mentality and opinions about the way to start a relationship and so now you are not only disappointed that you got shot down, but that your friend didn't play her part of the cards right. That's okay, life doesn't always go how we want it to. You can't let tha fact effect who you are and effect you from living your life. You need to put this behind you, get back on your horse, get out there, live your life and have some fun! Keep thinking positively and don't hold this incident against your friend. Things always work out for the best. Go see some movies with the boys, volunteer, help a friend in need, donate, work, play, swim, write, read. Anything. Take action. With time, this feeling will pass and you'll be out n' about again. If you need some1 to talk to I'm always here as well as all the 3,000 + other users. :)
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