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Question Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 12:59 am

I have this friend and we hang out a lot. The problem is that he has a girlfriend 2 years older than him and im only one year older than him. They have been going out for about 3 weeks but he hangs out with me more then her. He always asks me to hang out on a day and then he asks me to walk to her house with him and hang out. He is always him self around me but he doesnt really be himself around her. What do u think is goin to happen between them and me and him. I would hate to ruin ne thing between them but he is always with me atleast a lot more than with her. and when he is with her, he always asks someone to go with him, usually me. What is this all about do u think?

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FigureSk8er17 answered Monday October 18 2004, 5:05 pm:
I think that he just hangs out with you more because you are both really close and he feels more comfortable towards spending time with you other then starting a new relationship with this girl,thats probably why he asks you to tag along with her and him.He will eventually get the feeling of what a true relationship is between him and this girl but until then just keep being a good friend to him until he feels comfortable to do stuff with her on his own..the only thing is just don't try to be the 3rd player because that's not good either..hope this helps and if so do tell me..lol

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AnGeLtHuGsTa answered Sunday October 17 2004, 11:25 pm:
I think your friend is shy being alone with his girlfriend. Sorry to be rude, but how is that relationship going to last if he's never alone with her? If he's too shy? He needs you to be with him because he's shy! Start turning him down when he asks to hang out with him and his girlfriend. Talk to him and tell him he needs to give his girlfriend a chance to be with him alone....Help him get over being shy...

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Suchtig2ihr answered Sunday October 17 2004, 7:00 pm:
I think he is trying to get closer to you and spend more time with you.... either that or he doesnt want there to be an odd silenc when he is with his girlfriend either that or he really doesnt wanna be with his girlfriend at all he just wants you i think you will just have to wait and find out what happens or just come out and ask him whats going on but make sure you tell him you do like spending time with him so you dont give him the wrong impression well.. good luck hope i could help.. x0xLuckyx0x

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--Nikki-- answered Sunday October 17 2004, 6:36 pm:
He prolly likes both of ya but he just cant choose...N if they would break up dont blame urself...Sorry so short but thats all I can think of...Hope I helped!

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jazz82289 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 2:14 pm:
You are probably like a comfort food to him only a person lol try talking to him about it, tell him your feelings, maybe he's feeling the same way. But I dunno about the whole going to her house, try bailing on him once or twice and see what happens,ask him why he wants you to go with him, see what he says, good luck babe!

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mysticpixie05 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 11:17 am:
it culd be for several reasons. it could be because he likes you or that he is nervous around his girlfriend. He may want you there just so that he wont be so nervous and be himself around her. Just find out why he always wants you around when he is with her.

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MissEmmyBoo answered Sunday October 17 2004, 1:11 am:
I think that either this dude likes you or he's really, really nervous around his girlfriend. I think that you should talk to him about it and ask him why he always wants to hang out with you when he's going to his girlfrirnds house. -Hope I helped!!-
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