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I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do? (link)
just wait for love..don't go out looking! the right one will come along soon enough! just have fun with all your girl friends and party! lol



i need a new sn but i can't think of one...i am a tall girl and i like o play basketball....can anyone give me an idea? (link)
TallBballChic27! lol kinda dumb..lol sorry! rate me please! it will probably be like a 1 cause that was realli dumb! lol sorry again!



umm im 14 and im only a 36A nd all my firends are a yr younger nd the same size as me!!i think that im done growing is there ne way that i can tell if i am or not?? thnnx (link)
aww hun don't worry! your probably realli skinni and thats why! don't worry about it..you'll have a growth spert! they shouldn't stay like that forever! and even if they do..who cares..not all guys like big boobs! lol i hope i helped! rate me please!



We've been going out for 2 years and her birthday's coming up. What should i do? (link)
dinner..movie..amusement park..beach..hotel..a moonlite walk through the park..the best thing to do is make it romantic! =) i hope i helped! rate me please!



my friend whose a girl and 14 told me a few days ago that she cutts. i was devistated wen i heard this. i asked her wat in the world wud make u so miserable as 2 kill urself? and she sed that her family was messed up and that shes ben feeling really depressed. i told her 2 think bout wat life will bring her in the future. youll have kids a husband a job and a happy life. i dont think it convinced her. wat should i do? (link)
talk to her again and suggest going to a counseler or you can even talk to her parents even tho it seems hard to do that..but its for the best! i don't wanna see you lose a friend! its just too sad! =( well just make sure that she gets in counseling! i hope i helped! rate me please!



i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow. (link)
its always good to try new things! and if you don't like it..don't worry hun..it grows back! =) or maybe you should try it a little longer then your shoulders at first! good luck! =)



Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!
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follow your heart! 4 months isn't that long! i would wait a while! and he isn't worth it if he is pressuring you! be safe and like i said..trust your heart! set boundries..and follow them! i hope i helped! rate me please!



Ok, Can anyone tell me how to get a link for my advicenators site into my AIM buddyinfo? (link)
copy the web address at the top of the page in that little white box and paste it in your AIM profile! =) rate me please!



im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down... (link)
there are other ways to calm yourself down! ruining your body like that isn't a good or healthy way to relieve stress! please stop hun! i hate it when people do that! talk to me about your problems n leave one in my inbox..or IM me. attitudechick777



What are some things that me and my boyfriend can do to spend time together that doesnt cost money or at least is cheap? ...he lives like 40 min away so he comes over or i go over there and we meet half way. Either that or we go to the mall, movies, bowling, KD, and stuff like that. Anymore ideas? please help! :o) (link)
go for a walk in a park..maybe go out for ice cream..maybe a friends party..or go to a under 17 club..or just other fun stuff like that! i hope i helped! good luck!



are carrots good 4 u (link)
yep!


I met this guy online. I have been takling to him for like 8 months. I like him and he likes me. We live in diffrent states. What should i do!? (link)
well first of all..BE CAREFUL! for all you know he could be some 80 year old raper! i wouldn't meet him in person unless you have an adult with you! but you should also try to find someone in the same state until your older n can drive! rate me please!



okay i love my boyfriend like sooo much and i know he loves me too...but he gets these mood swings where one day he acts like he cant live without me and the next day he acts like im just another bump in the road...what should i do? thanx so much~!
>*BaiLeY*> (link)
just have a calm conversation with him and just talk to him about that! and if he is a realli good boyfriend he'll understand and try to change that if he wants to stay with you! but just remember to try and accept him for who he is! rate me please! good luck! =)



is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14! (link)
nope! thats a good quality that you have! it means your laid back! its perfectly normal! don't worry hun!



how can I stop being so SHY!?! Guys only go out for me because of my looks and not my personality because I sorta freeze up around people I don't know well or aren't friends with. (link)
aw well try hanging around with people more often and don't be afraid to speak up! =) i'm a talker..but i use to be shy..so all ya gotta do is go out..meet new people..talk to them more often and just be yourself! and people should love you for you! good luck and i'm here if ya wanna talk! =)



I think I might be bipolar. How can I tell? And can I get tested w/o my parents knowing bout it? (link)
aw..well just talk to a close friend or realitive who can drive and ask them to keep it private (make sure its someone you trust) and go get tested! good luck hun! i'm here for you! =)



Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do (link)
don't worry hun about only being 13 and never being kissed! its perfectly normal! just wait for the right guy and make that first kiss special! =) don't just waste it on anyone! make it a person you'll remember forever! your not a loner cause your not alone..many girls are 13 and have never been kissed! you'll be alright! i promise! =)



Hey! This question is for anyone who has ever changed schools! I wanna know how long it takes to make friends! I'm really pretty shy and I'm so scared I won't have any friends!! I dont know anyone and I want to know some ideas on how to get to know everyone! Thanks a billion! -me! (link)
on my first day i made tons of friends! =)
just be nice to everyone you come across and you'll have friends in no time! and be a leader..not a follower! good luck! =) i'm here for you!



question for everybody that asks questions on advicenators: How come you dont rate somebody after they answer your questions? it doesnt take a lot of effort and its a quick little thank you for their response. It helps the advice giver to understand how well they answer certain questions. I think everybody should rate out of pure politeness...Just curious as to why most people dont..?? (link)
i rate people everytime! =) cause they take enough time to give me advice..the least i can do is rate them! and i think so far i have rated everyone a 5! =)



I have a lot of cool sayings in my profile. Most in whick I made up. Every time I look at me friends profile, she has all my same sayings in mine. I get so frusterated! Now, she just IMed me witrh her advice colum user name and it is almost the same as mine! Should I tell her how I feel? Please, I need help fast! (link)
yes..you should tell her! just talk to her calmly and try not to get into a fight! just be like "i don't want to sound rude or anything..but i want to be an individual and i don't like it when people copy me" and just lay it down flat in a calm nice way! and if she is a good friend..she'll understand! =)
good luck! rate me please!





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