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online love


Question Posted Friday August 13 2004, 2:41 am

I met this guy online. I have been takling to him for like 8 months. I like him and he likes me. We live in diffrent states. What should i do!?

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cheerqtcat answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:28 pm:
u r putting urself in SO MUCH DANGER u have no idea!!!!!!!!! when u r online, u can b whoever u want to b, and however old u want to b also... 4 example: if he said he was 15... or w/e (w/e ur age is) and he was realli 22, and he sent u a picture... and he looked 15, he could have just gone back and found a picture of him when he was 15, this is very dangerous and u need to make sure ur parents know just in case he isn't who he says he is... u know? BE CAREFUL!!!!!!

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JLB209 answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:05 pm:
stop talkin to him he might be like some 50 year old guy itll never work

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jesikuh977 answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:17 pm:
dont meet him! thats bad news...uve prolly heard the stories..i guess u could juss like him but dont meet him!!

*jesikuh

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dressmeNdiam0nds answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:32 pm:
okay make sure hes not some physco killer thats like 45 pretending to be 13 and then if you think you both can handle a long distance relationship i say go for it
hope i helped
..*..MarissA..*..

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Jelousy880 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:54 pm:
If u met him online ten be safe and dont go to see him. even if he has sent u a picture u never no if it is sumone else. he could just wanna hurt u. so just TALK to him.

*{Good Luck}*

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xocutiepiesxo answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:55 am:
well first of all..BE CAREFUL! for all you know he could be some 80 year old raper! i wouldn't meet him in person unless you have an adult with you! but you should also try to find someone in the same state until your older n can drive! rate me please!

<3*Chelsea

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GyMnAsT4LiFe440 answered Friday August 13 2004, 10:54 am:
well first of all talking to ppl ova the internet isnt a safe/good idea.but if u truley trust him then have him call u. if u have a car and u can drive go on a rode trip with ur friends to where he is.

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liddylflirtx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:37 am:
I know everyone says this, but how do you know that he's the same guy that you've been talking to online? In real life, he could be a 40-year-old man sending you pictures of a cute kid. I say just keep this at a close friendship, and NEVER plan to meet up with him - even if he is who he says he is. It's a creepy world out there, lol! Trust me, just don't have this relationship go any further.

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mxpimpette26 answered Friday August 13 2004, 9:27 am:
ummm hun he could be some 30something yr old guy...but jst be carefull don't give him to much info on you...that jst seems a lil scary!

~b

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BeezKneez answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:29 am:
Online relationships are hard 2 work out. First of all there is the distance that sux. Then, ppl ight act 1 way online but then totally different in person. (I had a boyfriend that I met online from a friend and then that friend had us meet in person and we started going out cuzza how he was online... but in real life he was a jerk.) It's hard 2 trust sum1 if u don't really know them in person. Just b careful.

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kenzie30721 answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:25 am:
That can be hard...and knowing you live in diffent states is bad b/c he is so far away but also can be dangerous! You ahve to watch out...but ppl meet over the internet all the time. Maybe you will get to meet soon, but other than that you need totry and see other ppl.

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xo_dream answered Friday August 13 2004, 4:29 am:
There's nothing else you can really do. I guess just keep talking to him.

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FernGully answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:59 am:
Nothing, for now. You can keep talking to this guy as much as you want but if you're still young then you can't really do anything about how you feel about each other. Live your separate lives in your respective states and one day, should you keep talking to him and your feelings remain the same - then maybe something more can come of it. As of right now, you can only talk to each other. Its amazing the lies you can tell over a computer though, so be careful, even if you think you know who you're talking to.

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OrangeLuverr answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:54 am:
Well...im not a realy big fan of online relationships...and i dont realy think its safe. Ehhh, i dont want to say anything like go meet him because i dont want to put anyone in danger, so i guess...keep talking to him online and see if you can meet any local boys?

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